Perfect Timing
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Post by Perfect Timing on Jun 20, 2017 2:01:54 GMT -5
I met the girl a few weeks ago online we have been texting most days seem to make her laugh a lot she said we could meet this wednesday last week although she did say she would rather do it in the day at the weekend and actually told me she could see me in the week initially but it might be a issue in the future.
Anyway I gave her a funny text on Saturday then text her on Sunday night asking her how her night was and she strangely ignored that so I text her the next day saying let's meet up wednesday(gave her place time all that) she replied but ignored the date and answered my previous text telling me how her night was and saying she uncomfortably hot it was for her that night. Should I text her again today asking her if she can make it or not?
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TWERKIN' MAGGLE
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Post by TWERKIN' MAGGLE on Jun 20, 2017 2:23:04 GMT -5
Sounds like she's purposely avoiding the subject. I'd say drop it unless she brings it up.
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Perfect Timing
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Post by Perfect Timing on Jun 20, 2017 4:11:08 GMT -5
How about I say..
"If you can do tommorow great, if you can't that's cool, but let us know xx"
or
"If you can do tommorow cool,if you cant that's also cool, but let me know xx"
Sound good? Which is better?
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Post by Cranjis McBasketball on Jun 20, 2017 4:19:49 GMT -5
I was super into this girl. Other people said "she wants you". So I asked her out. She said yes. I tried to make plans for the date. She said it was finals for school, she really couldn't at the moment. I asked again. She said yes, that was the night she washed her hair or some such. It got so bad I had a dream where she asked if we couldn't just be friends. Anyway, I forgot her.
Oh shit, I forgot the fun part. She was f***ing this dude with the same first name as me. She used to bitch at my best friend how "Cole, blah, blah, blah...is so sweet, Cole blah, blah is an ass" He told her to stop, he didn't care anyway, and couldn't keep straight the sweet guy from the ass. More fun, I wound up his supervisor for a while.
He was fine. Maybe she was nuts. I dunno. Far as I know, they're still together.
I don't do well with women. Want a more depressing story?
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Post by Deleted on Jun 20, 2017 6:36:25 GMT -5
One thing I learned in my dating life is that if a woman likes you, she will make time for you. If you're getting the cold shoulder or are constantly told that she's busy, then cut bait. My wife always made time when we were dating even if she was busy. That's a real difference maker.
Women are attracted to confidence but also to men with options. Value your time. If she hits you back, then great, but you've done your part. Move on to something better in the mean time.
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Post by fuzzywarble, squat cobbler on Jun 20, 2017 7:31:59 GMT -5
So what's the deal with this "online dating "?
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Post by bob on Jun 20, 2017 8:17:20 GMT -5
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Post by Deleted on Jun 20, 2017 10:05:07 GMT -5
Personally I would not text her again until she texts me first.
But yeah, hate to say it, she ain't that into you. She just likes the attention you give her.
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Post by The Thread Barbi on Jun 20, 2017 11:31:08 GMT -5
Wear a Kane mask and jeans. Oh wait...you mean emotionally cold.
Sorry, I got nothing...
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Post by Sponsored by Groose Wipes on Jun 20, 2017 11:42:37 GMT -5
I would wait a bit or else it's going to look like you're pestering her into going out on a date. Maybe if you have a convo bring it up but don't rush asking her a third time.
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Post by KAMALARAMBO: BOOMSHAKALAKA!!! on Jun 20, 2017 12:00:15 GMT -5
Give her a blanket.
Isn't that right, @supersweetbotch ?
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Post by Deleted on Jun 20, 2017 12:03:24 GMT -5
Give her a blanket. Isn't that right, @supersweetbotch ? I'm currently in the STI clinic getting tested. Welcome back blanket buddy. Get yourself tested too |
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Post by KAMALARAMBO: BOOMSHAKALAKA!!! on Jun 20, 2017 12:12:34 GMT -5
Give her a blanket. Isn't that right, @supersweetbotch ? I'm currently in the STI clinic getting tested. Welcome back blanket buddy. Get yourself tested too Thanks, but sorry to see that blanetkmydia is going around again! |
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Post by edgestar on Jun 20, 2017 12:23:27 GMT -5
The guy I've been seeing, only at his apartment. He says we will go on dates, and nothing has happened. It hurts a lot.
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Post by LexExpress on Jun 20, 2017 12:34:13 GMT -5
The guy I've been seeing, only at his apartment. He says we will go on dates, and nothing has happened. It hurts a lot. Sorry to hear that. You deserve better! You're such a caring person, don't waste your lovely self on someone that isn't worthy of you. |
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Perfect Timing
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Post by Perfect Timing on Jun 20, 2017 12:52:33 GMT -5
I dunno if I just wait around knowing my luck she will probably turn up at the bar while I'm at home with my feet up.
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Post by edgestar on Jun 20, 2017 12:55:44 GMT -5
The guy I've been seeing, only at his apartment. He says we will go on dates, and nothing has happened. It hurts a lot. Sorry to hear that. You deserve better! You're such a caring person, don't waste your lovely self on someone that isn't worthy of you. I appreciate that a lot, thank you  it does make me question myself, when I ask if we will go out, and sometimes the answer is yes, or "you need to start understanding that I'm busy". I never know what guy I'm going to talk to. Sometimes he's nice, and sometimes he's a little.... comfortable (?) with how he talks to me. |
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Post by domrep on Jun 20, 2017 12:56:06 GMT -5
I met the girl a few weeks ago online we have been texting most days seem to make her laugh a lot she said we could meet this wednesday last week although she did say she would rather do it in the day at the weekend and actually told me she could see me in the week initially but it might be a issue in the future. Anyway I gave her a funny text on Saturday then text her on Sunday night asking her how her night was and she strangely ignored that so I text her the next day saying let's meet up wednesday(gave her place time all that) she replied but ignored the date and answered my previous text telling me how her night was and saying she uncomfortably hot it was for her that night. Should I text her again today asking her if she can make it or not? She's not going on that date with you man, cut bait now. |
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Post by SmashTV on Jun 20, 2017 14:06:25 GMT -5
It's reading things like this that make merealise I should have joined this place years ago... |
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Post by fw91 on Jun 20, 2017 14:26:36 GMT -5
The guy I've been seeing, only at his apartment. He says we will go on dates, and nothing has happened. It hurts a lot. To be fair maybe he doesn't have much interest in going out and being social and has nothing to do with you. But if you're looking for more, you should move on |
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