|
Post by Wolfpack Bitch on Mar 9, 2007 19:22:28 GMT -5
There's a new boy toy at work, just a weeee bit younger than me... no worries, he's legal. Now, he's very friendly and talkative etc. Intellegent and pretty much the normal type of guy I chase after, only he's not running the other way. So, I want to be able to have conversations about stuff he's into, but I don't know squat about vampires and cosplay stuff (whatever that is) OMG I just googled it.. OMG they're just like furries ! ooh wait, he's just a photographer for that stuff. Oh and he's into photography too. It's not that we really need conversation starters.. we seem to have no problem with that, but I dunno, maybe I should have some sort of knowledge about the stuff he's into ? We'll change the intellegent to "well spoken" cause he can't spell for shnitzel, but I can make out his writing well enough to see his phone number and email addy ;D He's like.. totally dreamy !! 6'4" .. longer dark hair.. scruff on da face. YUMMY !!! OMG I forgot to check out his eye color.. pffft ! That's normally one of the first things I look at, wow I'm flustered ! But anyway.. what kind of questions should I ask that A. won't make me look too blonde and B. will get conversation going if needed ?
|
|
|
Post by tommyvercetti on Mar 9, 2007 19:24:16 GMT -5
Show your boobies and offer him some of your special woman treats.
Conversation is overrated.
|
|
|
Post by koldbluddedkilla on Mar 9, 2007 19:25:31 GMT -5
what is conversation? i never get approached by the wimmenz.
|
|
|
Post by Psy on Mar 9, 2007 19:25:46 GMT -5
1) Ask him if he thinks digital cameras are a strong step forward for photography and picture storage or just a lateral movement, something in a new direction that doesn't really leave older cameras as obsolete. 2) He really does sound like a geek, and that's a good thing. Ask him what the best costumes he's ever photographed were. 3) Say you want to try to put together a really cute outfit for your kid for Halloween, see if he has any suggestions
|
|
|
Post by "American Cream" Dusty Loads on Mar 9, 2007 19:26:53 GMT -5
Ask him what he's doing over the weekend or something like that and if he brings up his photography or w/e ask him how it's going for him.
|
|
|
Post by leemir on Mar 9, 2007 19:28:50 GMT -5
Ask him to take nude photos of you.
|
|
|
Post by tommyvercetti on Mar 9, 2007 19:29:33 GMT -5
In all seriousness..You don't have to know anything about his hobbies...simply ask him about them.
A guy enjoys explaining and talking about what he is into much more than he does talking to someone who pretends to know what they are talking about when they don't.
I mean..if a chick was into me (LOL!!! I know..i know..) and didnt know anything about what I'm into but took time to ask questions and listen I would enjoy that.
|
|
|
Post by Tyfo on Mar 9, 2007 19:31:03 GMT -5
Show your boobies and offer him some of your special woman treats. Conversation is overrated. End of thread. Nothing more needed
|
|
|
Post by T.J. "the Crippler" Stevens on Mar 9, 2007 19:31:53 GMT -5
OK. Honest response now.
It doesn't mattter what you ask, or how silly it may make you look. The fact that you're interested (or even if you're just acting intertested) is all he needs. Don't bother looking stuff up to try to make conversation. Learn everything from him. He wants to teach you, which means he just wants you to listen. He's going to like the fact that you're listening. That's all he needs.
|
|
Grendel
Bill S. Preston, Esq.
But ... why is all the rum gone?
Posts: 17,593
|
Post by Grendel on Mar 9, 2007 19:34:05 GMT -5
He sounds quite geekish, not that it's a bad thing. But since he seems to walk a bit on the geek side, you can ask him if he plans on seeing any of these movies coming out (or already out) this year:
300
Ghost Rider
Spiderman 3
Pirates of the Caribbean: At World's End
TMNT
Actually, you should just talk to him about his interests. If he starts asking you about your interests, you are well on your way.
Of course, it's not like I'm an authority or anything, but for myself I like it when some gal just asks me about my interests.
|
|
|
Post by Wolfpack Bitch on Mar 9, 2007 19:38:14 GMT -5
LOL ok some of you were very helpful.. others *glares* I'm not flashing him dammit !
And yes, he is a lil geek, but a cute one.. !! Sallie yelled at me too about him being a geek, but that's ok by me.
*takes notes*
;D
|
|
|
Post by tommyvercetti on Mar 9, 2007 19:39:39 GMT -5
*glares* I'm not flashing him dammit ! ;D Well..can you flash us then?
|
|
|
Post by koldbluddedkilla on Mar 9, 2007 19:40:12 GMT -5
*glares* I'm not flashing him dammit ! ;D Well..can you flash us then? seconded....for science!
|
|
|
Post by Psy on Mar 9, 2007 19:50:21 GMT -5
LOL ok some of you were very helpful.. others *glares* I'm not flashing him dammit ! And yes, he is a lil geek, but a cute one.. !! Sallie yelled at me too about him being a geek, but that's ok by me. *takes notes* ;D You could tell him about the wheelchair at the beach club. What? Oh, check your blog for replies.
|
|
|
Post by Lenny: Smooth like Keith Stone on Mar 9, 2007 19:50:40 GMT -5
He's into vampires AND cosplay??
I get a feeling that if you talk to him, you will probably be the first girl to ever do that and he'll be yours instantly.
(Hey, as a wrestling fan I need to lash out on the rare few that are geekier sometimes.... I'm sure you all understand)
|
|
|
Post by Wolfpack Bitch on Mar 9, 2007 19:56:27 GMT -5
Again ?? I did and I'm still laughing at you I wonder if he's got a cardboard girlfriend too ?
|
|
|
Post by T.J. "the Crippler" Stevens on Mar 9, 2007 19:58:41 GMT -5
I wonder if he's got a cardboard girlfriend too ? I have one. But I prefer making out with my Boba Fett cardboard cutout.
|
|
|
Post by Zombie Mod is not a ghoul. on Mar 9, 2007 20:01:54 GMT -5
ok for the vampires thing, ask spike or angel or lestat ( three of the more famous vampires of the last 10 years...... well movie and tv wise) or if its just the idea of it that he likes.
|
|
|
Post by Wolfpack Bitch on Mar 9, 2007 20:02:04 GMT -5
I wonder if he's got a cardboard girlfriend too ? I have one. But I prefer making out with my Boba Fett cardboard cutout. Do you have the same problem with paper.. er cardboard cuts as Lenny has ? I mean, he said the pills cured his infection, but still, I'd worry....
|
|
|
Post by Wolfpack Bitch on Mar 9, 2007 20:02:57 GMT -5
ok for the vampires thing, ask spike or angel or lestat ( three of the more famous vampires of the last 10 years...... well movie and tv wise) or if its just the idea of it that he likes. Seems to be big into Dracula.. says his family is from Romania ?
|
|