So in 2021 I am going to be a father

[The Lach is very tired]

My son is due in May. I will be a first time father at 37 years old.

I am excited & terrified at the same time. Have a list of names but we won't decide until we meet him.

[Malibu Stacy]

Congratulations!!!

[Big BosskMan]

Congratulations! I was also 37 when my wife and I welcomed our daughter into the world. Was also excited and terrified. A few tips:

1. It's not about you anymore. You'll need to learn how to live with your heart outside of your body. The sun will rise and set on that little boy.
2. Be present and prepare to sacrifice. Life will be more about choice especially in terms of time and money. Things you used to do may need to be put on hold for a bit. Get rest wherever and whenever you can get it.
3. You didn't indicate if you were married or in a relationship. Be there for your partner regardless. Raising a child the first year is very challenging. And doesn't get easier but moreso the challenges just change.
4. Stores like Costco and BJs can be your friend especially for supplies like diapers, formula, wipes, etc.
5. Have fun and enjoy. A baby truly does change your world view and it is fascinating to watch them grow and develop.

[Feyrhausen]

Congrats! My baby is the best thing I ever did. You will love being a dad.

I was first time father at 42 so don't let that stress you any.

[Clash, Never a Meter Maid]

Aww, congrats dude!

[Instant Classic]

Congrats! I just turned 26 and have two. It’s the best gift in life.

[Milkman Norm]

Congratulations!!!

[dirtyoldman]

I became a dad at 39 back in 2018. He turns 3 tomorrow. So don't worry about being an older dad.


Best bit of advice we were given- when baby sleeps, you sleep.

[bob]

[Brandon Walsh is Insane.]

Congrats!!!

[fw91]

Being and “older parent” isn’t that big a deal these days. Congrats man and don’t give your age a second thought

[#Classic Hi-Definition X]

Congrats!

[bibboid]

Congratulations! My daughter was born when I was 37 and she is in college now. Enjoy every minute you have with your children.

[Andy Martin]

Congrats, man!

[Deleted]

Congratulations!!!

[ronin705]

Congrats, the right age for it too so youll enjoy it more. But do say goodbye to sleeping in for the foreseeable future lmao

[DerktheDerk]

That's awesome! Congrats! My wife and I are expecting our first in July. Obviously only cool people are having kids this year

[mattperiolat]

Jan 3, 2021 5:51:43 GMT -5 The Lach is very tired said:

My son is due in May. I will be a first time father at 37 years old.

I am excited & terrified at the same time. Have a list of names but we won't decide until we meet him.

Tongue in cheek, in May, when your wife holds her child in her arms and looks at him, it’s a humbling moment to realize you will never be looked at like that, you are just a date that worked out.

All kidding aside, best job in the world and congratulations on it. Good luck and can’t wait to welcome the next inhabitant of this rock aboard.

[adamclark52]

Congrats