Ladying - advice

[Baixo Astral]

Recently I found out that a friend of my friend, whom I was quite attracted to for her sense of fun and seeming niceness, and her looks, was also attracted to me for the same reasons - we've been on three dates, all of which went well and were pretty makey-outy, and I'd set another one up for next Friday night.

However, apart from sending me a text out of the blue last Friday night (she's gone back to Scotland for the weekend, btw), she hasn't replied to my texts all weekend. Haven't sent her many, just one in response to her Friday one, then one today of a kind of 'how are you' type, and a quick one to wish her a safe flight.

So, I've never had a girl go like this on me before - is she just gamin', do you think, or am I outtaluck?

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thegoldenspike said:

However, apart from sending me a text out of the blue last Friday night (she's gone back to Scotland for the weekend)

I'll let her know that you've been trying to get in contact with her ;D

Seriously, maybe her phone is outta juice?

[Baixo Astral]

Maybe so... better be. As far as I can tell, we've been getting on great.

[Lenny: Smooth like Keith Stone]

She's just using you to get to Jardu.

[Kevin Hamilton]

I wouldn't sweat it. Worst thing you can do is drive yourself crazy about it. Relax.

[Bhester]

lenny said:

She's just using you to get to Jardu.

But really, who can blame her?

['Sweet n' Sour' A. A. Estrada]

Don't worry about it. If you see her again, great. But don't try too hard.

I'm not saying 'be cool' or some rubbish, but just don't sweat it. Things will work out at a natural pace.

Oh, and as a side note, I've never had a relationship last longer than a week when we kissed on the first date.










Good luck!