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Post by Confused Mark Wahlberg on Jan 8, 2007 11:14:46 GMT -5
I think I just got dumped, but I'm not sure. She gives me the "I need space" bit, which I thought only happened on TV. But she never actually said 'I don't want to see you anymore'. I mean, she wasn't the love of my life or anything, but she was cool. Am I dumped?
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Post by "Hollywood" Cactus Matt on Jan 8, 2007 11:18:44 GMT -5
Sorry, dude. Take it from someone who's been there. "I need space" usually means "stop calling me for a while, because I'm interested in someone else and don't want to rip your heart out just yet. If things don't work out with the new object of my affections, I'll call you. See ya." At least, that's what it's always meant when they say it to me.
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Post by A on Jan 8, 2007 11:19:50 GMT -5
I couldn't tell if you did with your post, but if you didn't, you should've discussed the problem(s) she was having with your relationship and tried to resolve them, even if that meant breaking up.
Wow, I feel like Dr. Phil.
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Post by Johnny Danger (Godz) on Jan 8, 2007 11:20:37 GMT -5
You're dumped. Sorry.
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Post by Chris the Bambikiller on Jan 8, 2007 11:22:58 GMT -5
If she reads the line about the big butt, you're dead.
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Post by Confused Mark Wahlberg on Jan 8, 2007 11:23:11 GMT -5
I couldn't tell if you did with your post, but if you didn't, you should've discussed the problem(s) she was having with your relationship and tried to resolve them, even if that meant breaking up. Wow, I feel like Dr. Phil. I tried getting it out of her. I thought we were just having fun. She didn't say much except that she didn't want to spend as much time together as we were. Of course, this is after countless dinners and drinks BOUGHT BY ME. I'm going to call her again today and see what's really up.
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Post by The"threadicidal"bristolspapa on Jan 8, 2007 11:24:32 GMT -5
You're dumped. Be happy. You don't need chicks who are living in a TV show.
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Post by Vice honcho room temperature on Jan 8, 2007 11:25:28 GMT -5
If she reads the line about the big butt, you're dead. Well maybe he likes big butts *cue Sir Mix-Alot Anyway women are heartless and are just there to take money from fools and break hearts.
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Post by Confused Mark Wahlberg on Jan 8, 2007 11:25:31 GMT -5
This SUCKS.
It's back to the right hand for me.
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Post by willywonka666 on Jan 8, 2007 11:25:47 GMT -5
soory to hear, when I saw "Big Butt" in the title I thought of "Satchel Ass!"
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Post by Confused Mark Wahlberg on Jan 8, 2007 11:32:14 GMT -5
I'm going to feel like HHH's leg for a few days...
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Post by Johnny Danger (Godz) on Jan 8, 2007 11:33:35 GMT -5
soory to hear, when I saw "Big Butt" in the title I thought of "Satchel Ass!" HEY FOLEY!!!! I know why you arent returning my calls, but,tell me, WHY WONT YOU CALL ME?!
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Post by wrath on Jan 8, 2007 11:38:02 GMT -5
Big butt. Hehe.
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Post by Black Swagger on Jan 8, 2007 12:45:04 GMT -5
Yea, u were dumped. When they need space, then that means they are pretty much gone. Another failed investment.
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Post by The son of a plumber. on Jan 8, 2007 12:47:06 GMT -5
aww poor kid.
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Post by #Classic Hi-Definition X on Jan 8, 2007 13:12:52 GMT -5
Great. Now I have that Bell Biv Devoe song stuck in my head.
That girl is poison...
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Post by Kevin Hamilton on Jan 8, 2007 13:36:39 GMT -5
Bell Biv Devoe.. now ya know...
Yup it's good n stuck there too.
And PROBABLY dumped, no one that wants to be with you 'needs space'. It's such a dumb excuse/expression- Look at it this way, why wouldja wanna be with someone that doesn't wanna be with you? My unsolicited advice, she needs "space"? Give it to her, if she's in that whole frame of mind pretty much nothing you can do is gonna have a positive effect and you'll only reinforce any kinda negative feelings she has and/or rationalize that thinking for her. One person can't 'fix' anything in a relationship if the other isn't trying to, so I say give her the 'space'- go out, have fun, do whatever the hell you want to.. and then when/if she decides to get her head on straight and comes back or what have you, you can make that on YOUR terms and decide if that's what you even want, OR if you're better off without her. Cuz right now she holds all the cards, and not 'giving her space' when she says that's what she wants can only hurt ya.
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Post by Baixo Astral on Jan 8, 2007 13:39:46 GMT -5
Don't worry, it's not you, it's her. But she still wants to be friends. Even though she's kicked you to the kerb.
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Post by Confused Mark Wahlberg on Jan 8, 2007 14:07:09 GMT -5
Great. Now I have that Bell Biv Devoe song stuck in my head. That girl is poison...I thought it was me that made the girl this way... I came to find she's like that every day...
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Post by Sajoa Moe on Jan 8, 2007 14:10:21 GMT -5
If she reads the line about the big butt, you're dead. Unless she's black or Latina.
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