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Post by humanoid on Sept 5, 2007 11:34:46 GMT -5
The immature aspect of an online relationship comes from the people in the relationship, not the way that they met. Immature relationships begin in bars, schools, etc... every day. Someone who is dependent on someone else to make them happy will never have a successful relationship no matter how they meet. Now 2 people who are comfortable and secure with themselves, can get together online or otherwise and it can make them even happier. pretty much. The only difference is that online is still not ok cause apparently you don't "get any" from an online relationship until it gets serious. Yeah, but if you are looking for a strong long term relationship that isn't necessarily a bad thing. Again it goes back to the maturity of the participants. When I was younger, I would have agreed with you 100%, now that I have been married, I realize that basing a relationship on sex is a bad idea.
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Post by EvilMasterBetty, Esq. on Sept 5, 2007 12:05:15 GMT -5
pretty much. The only difference is that online is still not ok cause apparently you don't "get any" from an online relationship until it gets serious. Yeah, but if you are looking for a strong long term relationship that isn't necessarily a bad thing. Again it goes back to the maturity of the participants. When I was younger, I would have agreed with you 100%, now that I have been married, I realize that basing a relationship on sex is a bad idea. i was being a bit sarcastic. Society thinks that it's better to get the hookup than actually foster a real relationship with someone. I mean, true I pretty much met my GF because of that, but we actually have a lot in common. So I lucked out.
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Post by Near Fantastica on Sept 5, 2007 12:14:01 GMT -5
I met my current girlfriend on the internet. She is Canadian and I am Irish and it's THE best thing that has ever happened in my life. So she lives in Canada and you live in Ireland, how is this the best thing thats happened in your life? The distance and the ocean between you two makes me question that. Because I know what the best thing that's ever happened in my life is? Because I have since moved to Canada?! My life has completely changed. I am now living in a completely different culture, starting over my life? Because I am with the one person out of the six or seven billion in the world I would want to be with? The distance and being apart was absolutely fine, and now we don't have to be. We had to be apart and it was hard, I will not lie, it was really tough on both of us but we'd been together three times for a total of around six months and we knew how perfect it is when we're together. I have never had a connection with any one person quite like this girl. I wouldn't have moved and left my entire life behind if I wasn't completely sure this is what I wanted. It's better than getting smashed and meeting some generic whore at the bar.
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Post by jamofpearls on Sept 5, 2007 12:20:38 GMT -5
I met my current, almost 3 year girlfriend almost 4 years ago on myspace. We started off as friends, then started talking on the phone. Next thing you know, she makes a surprise appearance from maryland.
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Post by Cranjis McBasketball on Sept 6, 2007 1:54:56 GMT -5
Er, actually, it does if there's no way for you to see each other for the forseeable future. At that point you may as well shoot the crippled horse. Then you find a way. What situation would mean that you could never find a way? Criminal record making international travel a huge, huge pain the ass, if not impossible?
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Post by Non Banjoble Tokens on Sept 6, 2007 1:57:50 GMT -5
Then you find a way. What situation would mean that you could never find a way? Criminal record making international travel a huge, huge pain the ass, if not impossible? Yeah, like that time I fell for an Iraqi terrorist. Sure she wanted to blow most of my friends up, but she looked so cute when she screamed "Death to Americans!!!"
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Post by Cranjis McBasketball on Sept 6, 2007 1:58:25 GMT -5
Criminal record making international travel a huge, huge pain the ass, if not impossible? Yeah, like that time I fell for an Iraqi terrorist. Sure she wanted to blow most of my friends up, but she looked so cute when she screamed "Death to Americans!!!" You too, huh?
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Post by humanoid on Sept 6, 2007 1:59:27 GMT -5
Criminal record making international travel a huge, huge pain the ass, if not impossible? Yeah, like that time I fell for an Iraqi terrorist. Sure she wanted to blow most of my friends up, but she looked so cute when she screamed "Death to Americans!!!" I think you have been spending too much time with Johnny.
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Post by Non Banjoble Tokens on Sept 6, 2007 2:01:21 GMT -5
Yeah, like that time I fell for an Iraqi terrorist. Sure she wanted to blow most of my friends up, but she looked so cute when she screamed "Death to Americans!!!" I think you have been spending too much time with Johnny. I was wondering why I kept waking up in the middle of the night with a knife in my hand.
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Post by Chucklehead,baby!!! on Sept 6, 2007 2:02:02 GMT -5
if u meet someone offline and u meet in real life theres no problm with it. seems liek when u meet someone offline it works better. my current GF and i met offline and its working fine.
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Post by Dangery Scubba on Sept 6, 2007 2:04:35 GMT -5
I've had more success online than off. Probably cause online, husbands can't interfere as much....
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Post by Non Banjoble Tokens on Sept 6, 2007 2:05:14 GMT -5
I've had more success online than off. Probably cause online, husbands can't interfere as much....
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Post by Dangery Scubba on Sept 6, 2007 2:06:45 GMT -5
I've had more success online than off. Probably cause online, husbands can't interfere as much.... I'll treasure this moment forever.
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Post by The Great El' PANDA King on Sept 6, 2007 2:07:43 GMT -5
And you can also be anything online. When I was 13 I met a girl online, and said I was twenty-two years old and a supermodel. Haha, sucker. Now I'm a 44-year-old boxer from Swiss Alps.
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Post by Mister Pigwell on Sept 6, 2007 2:08:29 GMT -5
And you can also be anything online. When I was 13 I met a girl online, and said I was twenty-two years old and a supermodel. Haha, sucker. Now I'm a 44-year-old boxer from Swiss Alps. So you're really NOT a Panda?
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Post by The Great El' PANDA King on Sept 6, 2007 2:10:02 GMT -5
And you can also be anything online. When I was 13 I met a girl online, and said I was twenty-two years old and a supermodel. Haha, sucker. Now I'm a 44-year-old boxer from Swiss Alps. So you're really NOT a Panda? No, I'm Philipe Claudio Mario Rivera JUNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNIOR Morrison from Switzerland.
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Post by Dangery Scubba on Sept 6, 2007 2:11:42 GMT -5
So you're really NOT a Panda? No, I'm Philipe Claudio Mario Rivera JUNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNIOR Morrison from Switzerland. Nice to meet you, Philipe Claudio Mario Rivera JUNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNIOR Morrison from Switzerland.
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Post by Cranjis McBasketball on Sept 6, 2007 2:12:09 GMT -5
I don't remember when, years back, this girl I was to from Austrila asked me to be her boyfriend. I said, yeah ok, but I won't be hauling off down there to see you or call or anything. She agreed to those terms. So I guess we were dating.
Haven't talked to her since. So my minimal effort is really paying off.
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Post by Chucklehead,baby!!! on Sept 6, 2007 2:40:02 GMT -5
I've had more success online than off. Probably cause online, husbands can't interfere as much.... LMFAO. show me to those BSU cheerleaders and i'll run interference(give them restaurant quality beatdowns) on the chicks who have husbands
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Post by "Hollywood" Cactus Matt on Sept 6, 2007 2:43:17 GMT -5
I don't remember when, years back, this girl I was to from Austrila asked me to be her boyfriend. I said, yeah ok, but I won't be hauling off down there to see you or call or anything. She agreed to those terms. So I guess we were dating. Haven't talked to her since. So my minimal effort is really paying off. Win. You are the King of Internet Dating, my friend. But I still think you should make one trip over there, just to, as the kids say, "tap that ass."
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