Is this Depression? Or Just a "Bad Few Months?

[They Adam Bradley]

so basically heres the story..

Ive never ever been depressed, but the past i would say 6 months I have just not been able to be happy. First off, im NOT a social outcaste or a "nerd" or anything, i have alot of friends and Im always around people.

The last few months though ive just beeen so down about certain things. I have had friends that I really loved and adored just abandon me (female friends).. and ive seen them go from talking everynight and being like family.. to not saying 1 word to me in 5 months. This person now is pregnant and engaged and she thinks she cant have a guy best friend and be engaged/married...so she cant talk to me. That has really broken my heart the past few months...

The i met a girl who has a bf and we become close... but of course drama happens and now it just sucks between us and i work with her so i see her and I just feel miserable...

I really wonder if im depressed and should try to get some medication and stuff for it because I mean i just feel so lost..

But then Ive never really had so much horrible shit happen to me in such a short time, so part of me think its just that all these things are happening so soon and its taking it affect on me, but with time it will go away?

Do you think I could be depressed over all this, or just that Ive had several bad thigns happen in a such time?... Im not sure exactly what I'am?

[jmac950]

Lemme tell you, this is a common thing, and it happens once in a while when you are friends of the opposite sex. When they have partners, their partner can get jealous. Which means you get faded out. It sucks, but it happens. Try getting friends of the same sex.

[Johnny]

I think your the second person I'm going to give serious advice too on this board. You won't like it, but thats what advice is, stuff you don't want to hear.

1. It sucks your best friend left you. Its now up to her to come back to you. Will she? I don't know.

2. Stop dating chicks at work. It never EVER works out for the best. But lesson learned, right?

So what do we do to feel better now? Go hang out with your friends or do something that takes your mind away. Make some new friends. Its not easy but thats life. It throws a bucket of s*** at you and perserver through it and you come out better for it.

[They Adam Bradley]

yeah i mean theres more to it though, i just gave u a quick rundown..

the best frin whom left me.. was basically my sister.... and she has very bad heart problems.. and for about 6 months everynight i was there for her to cry and lean on before her operation...i mean feelings started to happen and she had a bf so it wasnt good.. but it got to the point where her and her bf got more serious and she said she could never talk to me... I dont think i could ever understand how if someone is like ur sister and ur family.. how they can just leave someone like that... its so hard because she preg now to.. and she had all these dreams of college and all this and I know shes jsut going to be a housewife...something she hates!!!.. shes a senior in high school and should of grad last yr but because her heart problems.. she had to go this year...well since shes preg now she had to drop outta college... its just how because i worry about her heart and the baby and just everything... this girl really was like my family.. she is the one girl in my life that I can say I really love and would do anything for her.. but even when i tried to reach out and just say hi... its like she never knew me... it sucks

and the new girl... it just kinda sucks because we got cxlose and i have to see her at work everynight and its so awkard we dontg even talk.. she got feelings and i knew it wasnt good cause her bf... then her bf started shit and me being the person Iam let it go... so its hard because ive tried to do whats right for her and everything just sucks..

like i dunno... i dunno if its depression or just all this bad shit happening at once... and I cant get away from all of it because the 1st girl.. i will always care about nothing will make me abandon her like she did me... and the second girl... shes just a great girl overalll and she lvoes her bf... but its just ahhh i dunno

just alot of emotions have i gone thru and i havent beeen myself since its all gone down... i miss them

[They Adam Bradley]

i mean i wanna be a dick and hate them and everything...but i mean they have their reasons for being how they are and everything and I cant hate them for it. Its just tough when your SO close to someone for so long and then your just suppose to forget them overnight. Its been Since MAy since I have talked to the girl with heart problems and for a few months afterwards I tried so hard to keep here around, but she always made me feel so bad for even saying hey.

Ahh Ill shutup

[jmac950]

Like I said, make friends with friends of the same sex. Seriously, shit like this happens all the time. It sucks, but it happens.