"The One" (Not the movie)

[They Adam Bradley]

so once again I'm naked sittin my my wonderful new tub just thinking about life in general, and the first thing that came to my mind was a conversation I was having with a co worker tonight at work?..

What do the crappers think of the theory that there is only person out there for everybody. Like the whole, "one true love" concept. I have been thinking about this myself and i honest to god don't have an answer. Being from a small town and not really doing much besdies work, its VERY hard for me to meet different kinds of people(woman espically) so it seems like all my relationships or "flings" are always doomed to fail. I always seem to come up with the arguement that anyone can make someone out to be there "one", but in general there are probably hundreds of people out there who in reality would be a perfect fit and one's "true love". The girl at work was telling me how in life every single person has only 1 true love and thats it. I cant possibly see how of millions of people in this world, there is only 1 true love..

Ahhh I hate to get to deep here but this just plays into several issues with woman I am having in my life right now, its been about 15 months of pure hell and sadness and I beleive i may make a long post about everything thats happened to me. One of my friends that im very close to, i swear to god she may be "the one" but its just complicated and I have to keep telling myself that im young and like I said, there is hundreds of girls who could be the one, I just have to get out there a little..

so my question is, what are everyones thoughts on a "one true love" and do you truely beleive in it, or that there is only 1 person for everyone..

ahh i love these emotional threads, they can be depressing and uplifting at the same time. Its beat a Chris Master in a sombrero, or a stupid Snitsky thread any day of the week..

discuss

[Brandon Walsh is Insane.]

My boss told me that whomever you settle with, just know that there is someone else out there that is better.

That's all life is.. a series of trading up until you get tired of trading.

That's what he told me when I got engaged.

And yeah.

I'll go now.

[They Adam Bradley]

hmmm...do you beleive that though?

[The Line]

I don't think there is "the one" but rather a group you have most compatibility with. The kind of group that is, and the size of it, depend on your personality.

If you're open minded and whatnot, you're more likely to find "true love" than a close-minded individual(not saying it wouldn't happen, because it does every day. you just have to look better. And sometimes half the fun is the hunt)

[trixiedust]

thewarryah said:

My boss told me that whomever you settle with, just know that there is someone else out there that is better.

That's all life is.. a series of trading up until you get tired of trading.

That's what he told me when I got engaged.

And yeah.

I'll go now.

Then they "settled" for wasn't the right person. If it's the one, there is absolutely no doubt in your mind that you want to make that person happy and yours for the rest of your life. And they feel the same.

I think too often in America we marry for the wrong reasons, because we feel it's time, and not necessarily because we have found "the one'

[Rube]

I've had about 5 one true loves. So no, I don't believe it.

[Brandon Walsh is Insane.]

bobdolesdad said:

hmmm...do you beleive that though?

No.

I was trying to avoid talking about me for once though.

Heh.

I think there is one special someone out there for each person... but you have to look for them.

Not like they just fall out of the sky, into your lap, when you least expect it.

Right?

[Brandon Walsh is Insane.]

rube said:

I've had about 5 one true loves. So no, I don't believe it.

Sounds like you are confusing love with lust, my friend.

[mcclanahan]

there is "the one" for some...but for others there is "the group"...I'm tired of monogomy so I like my group

[Rube]

thewarryah said:

rube said:

I've had about 5 one true loves. So no, I don't believe it.

Sounds like you are confusing love with lust, my friend.

No, I know the difference. Those 5 were special... Marriage and little Rubes type special. The rest were just vaginas.

[Brandon Walsh is Insane.]

rube said:

thewarryah said:

Sounds like you are confusing love with lust, my friend.

No, I know the difference. Those 5 were special... Marriage and little Rubes type special. The rest were just vaginas.

You've been married 5 times and have 5 kids?

And you need to see people at their worst and their best to fully know if it's love... or just lust man.

[They Adam Bradley]

man i dont know when i became so obsessed with finding tha right girl and everything. I mean im 22, 23 in 2 months and my whole life has been flings. I have dated shitloads of girls but the longest one I have ever had was 2 months. It's weird because Ive had such a ahrd time getting an emotional attachment with my "girlfriends"...but there is one girl whos my best friend and I really beleive shes the "one"... but shes got a bf and in love..pregnant and all that so ive givin up on that..

I jsut think its funny how someone can change, maybe its aprt of growing up but now instead of being obsessed with having a hot girlfriend... im looking for something other than a girl with a hot body and who puts out

DAMN YOU AGEING!!!!!!

[Rube]

thewarryah said:

rube said:

No, I know the difference. Those 5 were special... Marriage and little Rubes type special. The rest were just vaginas.

You've been married 5 times and have 5 kids?

And you need to see people at their worst and their best to fully know if it's love... or just lust man.

Heh, no. I meant I could see doing that with them in the future. I know the difference, holmes.

[trixiedust]

thewarryah said:

bobdolesdad said:

hmmm...do you beleive that though?

No.

I was trying to avoid talking about me for once though.

Heh.

I think there is one special someone out there for each person... but you have to look for them.

Not like they just fall out of the sky, into your lap, when you least expect it.

Right?

I think that it can happen that way. Often when you least expect it, there they are.

[Brandon Walsh is Insane.]

trixiedust said:

thewarryah said:

No.

I was trying to avoid talking about me for once though.

Heh.

I think there is one special someone out there for each person... but you have to look for them.

Not like they just fall out of the sky, into your lap, when you least expect it.

Right?

I think that it can happen that way. Often when you least expect it, there they are.

Yeah, maybe I should clarify:

If you are actively looking for someone, you most likely will not find "The One."

It's just the way the world works.

Ever notice how guys that are married or with a girlfriend get girls hitting on them left and right?

It's the missing smell of desperation, and the smell of confidence they seek.

A guy that is actively looking is missing the Confidence Eau de Toilette, and reeks of the desperation.

[drjayphd (feat. Pitbull)]

Kinda hard to say "The One" when there's six billion people out there. I'd say there's more of a threshold where you just say "yeah, I could see myself with this person forever".

[Mozenrath]

Of course there's The One.

Billy Gunn, silly. Look at all he's got! It might just be enough to make a blind man see.

[DiBiase is Good]

The first time I ever saw the woman who would become my wife I knew she was the one.
It's hard to describe, but something inside you just knows it.