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Post by Grizzly Adams on Jan 10, 2010 20:26:16 GMT -5
So tonight, despite my Patriots losing I was at the bar. I was around until the Packers/Cardinals game and the bartender I think is hot had work. She served me drinks and before I left I asked for her number. To my surpise I acutually got it. So my question is wrestlecrap how long do I wait until I call her? I usually follow the 3 day rule but do I do i sooner and if so how should I ask her out??
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Post by Texas Tornado on Jan 10, 2010 20:59:47 GMT -5
I say just call her tomorrow, make interesting conversation and don't let it drag on before you end it. The whole "3 day" rule never worked for me since I think it's too long of a gap between meeting someone before actually reminding them of who you were.
Call her tomorrow and keep yourself fresh in her mind, then talk to her again in probably a day or two (I will say that I don't advise in calling two days straight though so after you make the first call wait a little bit more to call her back, but don't let her know that you're going to do such or just say she can call you and leave it up to her), and from there try to set something up to where you two can go out. Hope you think that's good enough advice for you. Might not come off as such to some lol
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Viva
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Post by Viva on Jan 10, 2010 21:02:54 GMT -5
These questions, to me, reek of desperation, and women can sense desperation. Stop caring so much because if things don't work out, which is a greater possibility than them actually working out, you need to not let it effect you.
The right answer is call her when you are ready. Women who get scared off by you calling her sooner than he think you should are not worth your time, and she likely will be happy to hear from you whenever you decide to ring her. Good luck, and relax.
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Post by Grizzly Adams on Jan 10, 2010 22:54:02 GMT -5
Thanks dudes. I just get neverous becasue I never have real luck of this sorts
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Post by Red Impact on Jan 10, 2010 23:11:03 GMT -5
Google the number and make sure it's really a number, that it would be her number, and that it doesn't go to any radio stations or something for them to play on air.
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Post by The Goob, phd (is Jobbing) on Jan 10, 2010 23:12:13 GMT -5
Googling the number is extreme. Just call it.
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Post by domrep on Jan 11, 2010 8:20:37 GMT -5
You should call her the next day because think about it, she serves a ton of guys everyday. How will she remember you? Like a poster above me said, call her right away so that you are fresh in her mind.
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Post by Jelly on Jan 11, 2010 9:03:03 GMT -5
The day after is the best day to call. Speaking from experience, waiting 3 days for a guy to call is not fun at all
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