Are a girl's girls > than a guy she loves?

[TheDieselTrain]

Yes it that time of the year for me. So if you remember or not I met a girl a few years back from Europe a few years back and we still talk and love each other and all that good stuff and she come to the states every now and then because she wants to move here and says she wants to be with me since she misses me.

Now the problem is her ex-roomate. Now I got along with her till one night when me and the girl went out she asked the roomate to come and I thought no I want it to be just me and her but to make her happy i reluctantly said she can come. Now we were having fun till the roomate decides she cant drink anymore and wants to leave and I tell her we're still having fun and you can stay in my car and she said leave me the keys and so I said no. So our night got cut short because of her.

6 months later my girl comes back to visit and I'm supposed to pick her up at the airport then I dont hear from her after dropping my plans I text and text then she's like the ex-roomie came and got me and she at least apologized.

Now being from out of the country the only way I can communicate with her is by calling the ex-roomate's phone.
So I get to see her for a little bit but thanks to the ex-roomate who runs out of money I dont hear from them after calling and calling and no one answering then I find out the ex-roomie takes her to daytona where she lives and she pretty much is stuck there. She doesnt have a car here or an american phone so I cant blame her totally. So my girl has to call her parents and they take her to a friend of her family and from there she leaves.

Now I get an email yesterday from her and she's coming back again and she says the ex-roomie is getting her.

Now ever since the incident where she cut short our night I havent liked the ex-roomate one bit but I havent told my girl that. But I put up with her being around for the girl I love. The ex-roomie doesnt have a guy nor have I ever seen her with one and deep down I think that she's trying to come between us because she doesnt have a man of her own. Should I tell my girl how I feel about the ex-roomie always being around? I know thats the only way things will change. But at the same time I'll hate it if because of my mouth she picks her over me.

[BxB]

Your thread title makes my head hurt. But, anyway. I think you should tell your girlfriend how you feel about the ex-roommate, and to be honest if she picks her over you, then was there much of a relationship to begin with? Seems like you just want some alone time with your girl, but the roommate is being the third wheel. Your girlfriend needs to be take out some time for both of you, and not just make you tag along with each other. I'd say you need to communicate how you feel, otherwise you'll just have resentments and those are never good down the road.

["Magic" Mark Hurr]

I agree with the above post. She should know how important spendig time with your significant other is. In today's culture to get the opposite sex to give you what you need in a relationship without assbackwards conditions i rare. She needs to understand that and her friend needs to stop trying to get in the way of a relationship and find her own. Friends or not

My take on the thread title: A girl's twisted sense of reality > the guy she loves