|
Post by Vice honcho room temperature on Jan 9, 2010 14:11:23 GMT -5
Ok so I was looking at my rarely used facebook that I keep only to look in on friends family. Sometimes I find get togethers posted that I could go to but I digress. So I was looking at a friend who we've kinda stopped talking for a year because of busy lives and shit. I've known her for 6 years and saw she recently broke up with her bf of a long time ( still waiting on that because I saw it before where either it was an accident or the quickly got back together). Now is it sad that I still hope I have a chance?
|
|
domrep
Hank Scorpio
Posts: 7,461
|
Post by domrep on Jan 9, 2010 14:36:25 GMT -5
Yes. If I get this right, you haven't talked to her in a year? And she probably recently broke up with her boyfriend. Right now she's just looking for friends most likely. And it'd be kinda random to just pop up and say hey after it's been a year.
|
|
|
Post by i.Sarita.com on Jan 9, 2010 14:37:59 GMT -5
Yeah, you'd be pretty obvious of your intentions by talking to her again all of a sudden.
|
|
|
Post by Vice honcho room temperature on Jan 9, 2010 14:54:28 GMT -5
Listen it's not like I made or going to make a move soon. I'm just asking is it still sad that some where in the back burner of my mind I still have some hope. Again it's not an obsession just lingering feelings.
|
|
domrep
Hank Scorpio
Posts: 7,461
|
Post by domrep on Jan 9, 2010 14:56:15 GMT -5
The answer is still yes. What's so special about her that you still have some feelings for her? What is it about her I mean? Move on. Back away. There's that expression that there are plenty of fishes in the sea. This applies to women.
|
|
|
Post by i.Sarita.com on Jan 9, 2010 14:58:16 GMT -5
If you really thought she was worth it, you would have kept talking to her. There is no excuse in this day and age to NOT talk to people...distance or not, we have txting, cell phones, internet, skype, etc...
|
|
|
Post by Mister Pigwell on Jan 9, 2010 15:21:44 GMT -5
Not sad at all. Went through something oddly alike to what you're telling us about, and things have worked out swimmingly.
|
|
The Line
Patti Mayonnaise
Real Name: Bumkiss. Stanley Bumkiss.
Peanut Butter & JAAAAAMMMM!
Posts: 36,698
|
Post by The Line on Jan 9, 2010 15:33:29 GMT -5
if the thoughts ever move beyond a singular, brief day-dream, then most times, yeah.
|
|
Grendel
Bill S. Preston, Esq.
But ... why is all the rum gone?
Posts: 17,593
|
Post by Grendel on Jan 9, 2010 15:50:42 GMT -5
Not sad at all. Went through something oddly alike to what you're telling us about, and things have worked out swimmingly. If it's good enough for Corny, it must be good enough for me.
|
|
Brother Coyote
Samurai Cop
Has Clarity of Vision Is an engine of will
Posts: 2,124
|
Post by Brother Coyote on Jan 9, 2010 15:54:48 GMT -5
Depends on how you are with social interaction, for instance, I could not talk to someone for a year and then pick back up like we talked yesterday. It just depends on how well you keep up with people in general.
|
|
Cranjis McBasketball
Crow T. Robot
Knew what the hell that thing was supposed to be
Peace Love and Nothing But
Posts: 41,949
|
Post by Cranjis McBasketball on Jan 10, 2010 4:48:45 GMT -5
Naw. I keep my Facebook for the same reason. Just to check in. I don't update, I don't do shit. I'm a private person. I've got pics on there that are 10 years old and like 5 years old.
However, the hot chick from junior high (yeah, I know) recently broke up with her boyfriend. Even though she's so totally not the hot chick anymore, I still wonder.
Especially since I heard tons of rumors she always had a thing for me.
Oh, if you wanna add me to your Facebook, anyone on here, if you can find me......go ahead.
|
|
|
Post by Slingshot Suplay on Jan 11, 2010 0:44:56 GMT -5
you wanna know what's sad?
|
|
|
Post by Nacho STAYS Hyped on Jan 11, 2010 0:50:21 GMT -5
you wanna know what's sad? ... ...
|
|
|
Post by Vice honcho room temperature on Jan 11, 2010 1:49:23 GMT -5
So the 'Crap is split
|
|
|
Post by TripleMerc on Jan 11, 2010 1:54:47 GMT -5
If you have to ask, then it is. Just let your emotions be as they are, don't let others interpret you.
|
|
|
Post by Vice honcho room temperature on Jan 11, 2010 2:15:51 GMT -5
If you have to ask, then it is. Just let your emotions be as they are, don't let others interpret you. I don't ask for validation one way or the other. I will do or not do what I deem fit. I just wanted to start conversation
|
|
|
Post by Mister Pigwell on Jan 11, 2010 2:19:23 GMT -5
I've been dating a girl now for 8 months without a single hitch. Due to one circumstance and the next (all self imposed by her and myself for a billion asinine reasons) we didn't talk for almost 5 years.
We started hanging out again.
She got divorced. We've been together since. We never lost a beat in those almost 5 years.
Is this sad? Some people would say so. Some even outright vile. Don't care. I'm happy. She's happy. No sadness going on I can say that much.
|
|