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Post by Alex Shelley on Nov 9, 2010 2:15:32 GMT -5
Well, boobs ARE pretty awesome.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 9, 2010 2:30:17 GMT -5
I have a friend who is probably bisexual but she won't admit she is bisexual because she think's bisexual sounds like a dirty bad sounding sleazy homophobic word. She also doesn't like the word bi. I kind of agree with her that I don't really like the word bisexual as well but I find it silly she won't admit to her sexuality because of that word.
Also she is dead serious.
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Post by brettappedout (BLM) on Nov 9, 2010 3:33:06 GMT -5
I'm not gay, but I found this and thought you guys would like it  |
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Post by Ash Kingston on Nov 9, 2010 3:36:32 GMT -5
 Why does AJ have a "you know it, big boy?" look on his face? |
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Post by Legion on Nov 9, 2010 10:52:41 GMT -5
No, they just think that it's impossible for gay people to love. I have no idea what the basis for that is. You need to ask what the basis is, then correct them. And if all else fails, slap them upside the head, then give them another from me! I was debating on posting this or not, but here goes nothing. I was looking at some pictures and videos last night ... and at a certain point, I accidentally clicked a link to pictures of two men kissing, touching, etc. and I couldn't stop looking at them for a long time, to the point that I ended up ... well, use your imagination.  It's never happened before, but it felt "different" in a good way. Thoughts? That was similar to how I first started down the bi road. Check out some bi pictures and videos, see what happens. Like others have said, could have been a one off (I really think everyone has at least one), could be something more. Even Homer went gay once.....or twice......or a few times actually..... |
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Post by BillyMax on Nov 9, 2010 10:59:07 GMT -5
I wouldn't worry about it too much. Just see where your feelings lead you. Maybe you're Bi or maybe you're not. Just take things slow, Don't jump into anything you're not ready for and you'll figure things out when you're ready.
Good luck.
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Post by Alex Shelley on Nov 9, 2010 14:44:36 GMT -5
No, they just think that it's impossible for gay people to love. I have no idea what the basis for that is. You need to ask what the basis is, then correct them. And if all else fails, slap them upside the head, then give them another from me! Well, the problem was that they hate gay people for another reason that violates the board rules (hinthint) and were using "they can't love" as a justification for the hate when I pointed out that not everybody believes the same things they do. So it was basically a hateful person making random crap up so that they could justify their hate to themself in a "scientific" way as opposed to the reason they were using before... If that makes sense. |
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Post by Marvelis on Nov 9, 2010 17:16:49 GMT -5
I spoke to somebody today who believes that gay people are incapable of love. That, my friends, is disappointing.  How does that even work? Also AJ shows he kinda has a problem with gay people, yet he constantly does gay things. Hmm... Also sorta on topic with the conversation, sorta not, I was always wondering how ANYBODY could get turned on by two men doing stuff, or two women doing stuff, until what, months ago I think? Yeah, months ago I came to the understanding that I found it kinda hot. It just happens for some people. |
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Post by Milkman Norm on Nov 9, 2010 17:18:11 GMT -5
You need to ask what the basis is, then correct them. And if all else fails, slap them upside the head, then give them another from me! Well, the problem was that they hate gay people for another reason that violates the board rules (hinthint) and were using "they can't love" as a justification for the hate when I pointed out that not everybody believes the same things they do. So it was basically a hateful person making random crap up so that they could justify their hate to themself in a "scientific" way as opposed to the reason they were using before... If that makes sense. Oh! Oh! Can I guess? Can I guess? But seriously, no because it would violate the rules. |
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Post by Legion on Nov 9, 2010 17:21:45 GMT -5
You need to ask what the basis is, then correct them. And if all else fails, slap them upside the head, then give them another from me! Well, the problem was that they hate gay people for another reason that violates the board rules (hinthint) and were using "they can't love" as a justification for the hate when I pointed out that not everybody believes the same things they do. So it was basically a hateful person making random crap up so that they could justify their hate to themself in a "scientific" way as opposed to the reason they were using before... If that makes sense. So all else has failed. You know what to do. And don't forget the one from me. |
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Post by Apricots And A Pear Tree on Nov 9, 2010 17:22:43 GMT -5
Also AJ shows he kinda has a problem with gay people, yet he constantly does gay things. Hmm... . He be trolling somebody? |
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Post by BorneAgain on Nov 9, 2010 17:24:48 GMT -5
Gay people can't love, what BS.
By that twisted logic, I could argue gay people are the only ones capable of real love because they're not driven by a desire to reproduce. Do a nonsensical twist of dubious scientific logic and you can argue anything.
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Post by SamTastic thinks CM Punk sucks on Nov 9, 2010 19:51:32 GMT -5
Hey, I have a confession to make...
I kinda had sex with a woman the other week... and I kinda enjoyed it sorta... but the thing is... I don't think I enjoyed it much emotionally. So I'm kinda on edge whether I'm still gay but a little bisexual... I'd still rather have sex with a man and be in a long loving relationship with a man, but all this has threw me into touch a little.
Gah!
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Post by Alex Shelley on Nov 10, 2010 0:48:09 GMT -5
Honestly, like Jed said I think most people aren't 100% either way. I think gay people are just more likely to admit their occasional straight feelings than straight people are to admit their occasional gay feelings. But hey, what do I know, I'll do anything  |
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Post by Milkman Norm on Nov 10, 2010 0:51:57 GMT -5
anything.............. ?  |
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Post by Alex Shelley on Nov 10, 2010 1:00:24 GMT -5
ANYTHING!
...As long as it's human, over 18 and can legally consent.
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Post by Oak: Certified Jade Hater on Nov 10, 2010 1:10:35 GMT -5
...As long as it's human, over 18 and can legally consent. Famous last words Citten.  I myself have looked at two guys together on occasion and read stories on a nifty little website, and sometimes like it. I don't see anything wrong with it as I'm still relatively young and am exploring my sexuality (the whole "it's college; experiment" thing comes to mind). So I know what you're going through dude. I was a little confused at first, but now it's whatever to me. |
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Post by BorneAgain on Nov 10, 2010 1:33:18 GMT -5
I suspect that sexuality is one of the most misunderstood elements of civilization, often prone to assumptions and misunderstood instincts. Truth be told sexual attraction and even the complex emotions related to love and lust are still being studied even today. On some level, I think the actual aspects of "gay", "straight" and "bisexual" have a complicated meaning in regards to everyday life.
A lot of what certain people think is, in fairness, related to bias (often fear) regarding how they will be judged in the broader popular culture. Sexuality is a complex beast, and provided it is indeed consensual and at the legal age, there is no real "right" or "wrong" way to go about it.
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Post by BayleyTiffyCodyCenaJudyHopps on Nov 10, 2010 9:24:59 GMT -5
Gay people can't love, what BS. By that twisted logic, I could argue gay people are the only ones capable of real love because they're not driven by a desire to reproduce. Do a nonsensical twist of dubious scientific logic and you can argue anything. And that's not even mentioning homosexual behavior among animals. |
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Post by Legion on Nov 10, 2010 11:32:34 GMT -5
Hey, I have a confession to make... I kinda had sex with a woman the other week... and I kinda enjoyed it sorta... but the thing is... I don't think I enjoyed it much emotionally. So I'm kinda on edge whether I'm still gay but a little bisexual... I'd still rather have sex with a man and be in a long loving relationship with a man, but all this has threw me into touch a little. Gah! Yeah, that's allowed. There isnt anything wrong with it. Like Citten said, if it's human, legal and consenting, it's all good. Although unlike Citten, I wouldnt do 'ANYTHING' - Even I have my limits |
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