Well Thats A Punch In The Gut

[biafra]

As some of you know I have been separated from my wife for two months now. In that time I have done everything to be the person she wants. She always talks about how far I've come, so I think everything is moving slowly but consistently toward rejoining our loves. Tonight she says basically, 'you have fixed you, the rest is me. I want counseling because i do love you but if therapy fails its pretty much over." It is very frustrating, painful and scary to not only work SO hard for little effect but to have this out of my hands now. I'll keep trying and pray for the best.

[Gus Richlen Was Wrong]

Dec 26, 2011 21:40:19 GMT -5 biafra said:

As some of you know I have been separated from my wife for two months now. In that time I have done everything to be the person she wants. She always talks about how far I've come, so I think everything is moving slowly but consistently toward rejoining our loves. Tonight she says basically, 'you have fixed you, the rest is me. I want counseling because i do love you but if therapy fails its pretty much over." It is very frustrating, painful and scary to not only work SO hard for little effect but to have this out of my hands now. I'll keep trying and pray for the best.

Well, good luck, man. We're all pulling for ya.

[Mozenrath]

Maybe I'm reading it wrong, but it does sound like she's genuinely trying. It sucks, but if she thinks she needs this, it might put things back on track.

I hope it works out for you.

[biafra]

Dec 26, 2011 21:49:21 GMT -5 Mozenrath said:

Maybe I'm reading it wrong, but it does sound like she's genuinely trying. It sucks, but if she thinks she needs this, it might put things back on track.

I hope it works out for you.

She is. And I'll still give it my all. It'd just be easier to know eventually it'll pay off.