Johnny D
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Post by Johnny D on Dec 20, 2011 14:53:09 GMT -5
...over a TEXT! Just simply told my now ex-girlfriend by text I was going for a few drinks with my group. (one of whom I kinda told her she kinda liked me) but whom I had no interest in) And she replies back saying "Oh well, I guess that's my cue to exit, Then it becomes a back-and-forth exchange which spills onto facebook and she accuses everyone else of basically not caring about her and people only wanting certain things from her. (I've given alot to try and make the relationship work, mind) Now she has deleted her facebook profile entirely and now I am pretty stunned over everything has suddenly happened. I know she is probably isn't going to be good for me but I still love her and still want it to work. (yeah I know, I'm an idiot) I kinda torn up right now and waiting for things to die down before deciding my next move....tbh I'm starting to appreciate the long year when I was single and didn't really care a bit more now.
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Post by rapidfire187 on Dec 20, 2011 14:57:13 GMT -5
Damn bro, that sucks. It's probably still salvageable though. Sounds like she just dumped you b/c she's jealous.
And hey, it could be worse. I got dumped over a text too, except when it happened to me the message was something along the lines of "I don't love you anymore, you're getting fat, and I've been seeing somebody else".
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Post by Hit Girl on Dec 20, 2011 15:13:09 GMT -5
You dodged a bullet.
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Johnny D
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Post by Johnny D on Dec 20, 2011 15:18:42 GMT -5
Damn bro, that sucks. It's probably still salvageable though. Sounds like she just dumped you b/c she's jealous. Yep, and you know what's so crazy about this? She's actually pretty hot looking, much more hot looking than the female friend she has a problem with. It's insane! I do know she's been having problems at work though so I think it may have eventually taken it's toll on her.
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The Ichi
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Post by The Ichi on Dec 20, 2011 15:20:40 GMT -5
Jealous girls are the worst, and in my experience always end up cheating on you before you even think of cheating on them.
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Post by Hit Girl on Dec 20, 2011 15:20:51 GMT -5
Should have never told her about the other girl being interested in you. But that being said, she overreacted
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The Line
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Post by The Line on Dec 20, 2011 15:22:52 GMT -5
Should have never told her about the other girl being interested in you. But that being said, she overreacted
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Post by Sephiroth on Dec 20, 2011 15:25:45 GMT -5
Ah, who needs em. You like popsicles?
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Post by Lazy peon on Dec 20, 2011 15:34:50 GMT -5
Do you have naked pics of her to spread on the internet?
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Post by "Gizzark" Mike Wronglevenay on Dec 20, 2011 15:38:00 GMT -5
By the way, willing to bet her Facebook wasn't deleted, you were just blocked from it.
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Post by twiggy101 on Dec 20, 2011 15:41:48 GMT -5
She sounds like a total bitch to me.
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Johnny D
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Post by Johnny D on Dec 20, 2011 15:43:30 GMT -5
By the way, willing to bet her Facebook wasn't deleted, you were just blocked from it. No, a friend of both of ours said she couldn't access it either. It's been deleted. She is actually texting me now again, though she doesn't seem in the greatest of spirits.
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Post by The QC Loser on Dec 20, 2011 16:08:18 GMT -5
While I agree it sounds like she majorly over reacted. I don't know how long you guys had been together or how deep your relationship is. For instance if I was dating a girl for a long time and there was someone that made her uncomfortable me hanging out with I would respect that and not hang out with the person. Just like if I was dating a girl and she insisted on hanging out with a guy that wanted to sleep with her. I would hope the girl just wouldn't put our relationship in that situation.
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Mac
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Post by Mac on Dec 20, 2011 16:14:00 GMT -5
I'll be shocked if you don't get a teary phone call from her tonight (if you havent alread)
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Post by "Gizzark" Mike Wronglevenay on Dec 20, 2011 16:23:49 GMT -5
By the way, willing to bet her Facebook wasn't deleted, you were just blocked from it. No, a friend of both of ours said she couldn't access it either. It's been deleted. She is actually texting me now again, though she doesn't seem in the greatest of spirits. As if she actually deleted it. That's a perfectly reasonable reaction.
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Post by Big L on Dec 20, 2011 16:57:31 GMT -5
Should have never told her about the other girl being interested in you. But that being said, she overreacted
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Post by Kevin Hamilton on Dec 20, 2011 17:26:27 GMT -5
I've actually been there before. It's bogus as hell to get broken up with that way.
I'd give one another space, not talk to her for a bit, which naturally is gonna be tough to do.
Edit: However if she's going off like that turning into a martyr on everyone like you're describing, love her or not, I'd try and decide if I wanted to deal with that all the time. If that's the way she reacts over something minor, how would she handle an actual crisis? You may not want to put with that day in/day out.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 20, 2011 17:50:08 GMT -5
I got broken up via e-mail...that I couldn't read due to my computer biting the bullet...I got a call later that night telling me that she was just joking around...only for her to break up with me in person the next day.
You have it easy, man.
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Post by moneyman20 on Dec 20, 2011 18:03:31 GMT -5
Personally, If I was in your situation, I wouldn't even bother with her again since she seems really insecure. You told her about your female friend who likes you, you told her you had no interest in her and that you still only have eyes for her, and she still broke up with you. I say leave it be and move on if you try to get it to work again and she still acts the way she is.
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Post by Mozenrath on Dec 20, 2011 20:22:30 GMT -5
Maybe she had a bad day. That said, she also sounds very insecure and maybe a little unstable, to throw this huge tantrum. She does not trust you to be around other people out of her sight, and that alone will rot this relationship from the inside out if you stay with her.
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