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Post by willywonka666 on Jan 3, 2013 9:20:43 GMT -5
We're friends through Facebook and went to school together, but have only said "Hi" face to face very briefly last summer. I REALLY have a thing for her and according to sources, her marriage may be over.
Let's say hypothetically it is and she is in fact single, what is a way to handle this to let my feelings to be known, even though we are semi strangers? We have corresponded through FB some, but as I said, we are kind of semi strangers, but I haven't felt this way about anyone in quite some time.
Thanks
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Post by kingoftheindies on Jan 3, 2013 10:29:28 GMT -5
Kind of going through the same thing right now. Like a girl that I've had casual conversations with if I run in to her but nobody I know that well.
Best I can tell you is try to find a way to strike up a conversation on fb. Go slowly like you are now. Play it humble and ask if she'd be interested in hanging out, whether it's getting a bite, a drink, seeing a movie or whatever. But you have to talk to her a bit. Then just keep things casual but let her know you are interested if that makes sense.
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Push R Truth
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Post by Push R Truth on Jan 3, 2013 10:32:12 GMT -5
"I'm going to be in your neck of the woods i think next weekend. Want to grab some lunch?"
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Post by Deleted on Jan 3, 2013 10:39:51 GMT -5
Did I ever tell you how comfortable the pipes and chains I have in my basement are?
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Post by Kevin Hamilton on Jan 3, 2013 12:22:09 GMT -5
Did I ever tell you how comfortable the pipes and chains I have in my basement are? + chloroform
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Post by BigBadZ on Jan 3, 2013 13:17:05 GMT -5
If it were me, I'd make triple sure that marriage is over. Then I would try to set something up through mutual friends, i.e. a party or a big group outing. Then try to make conversation with her. Could be easier to get to know someone you are only acquaintances with...
... Or just whip it out
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Sajoa Moe
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Post by Sajoa Moe on Jan 3, 2013 13:20:00 GMT -5
Just call yourself smooth.
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Post by Triple H buried SnS on Jan 3, 2013 13:29:41 GMT -5
Tell her that you are kind of a big deal.
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Post by Munkie91087 on Jan 3, 2013 13:30:36 GMT -5
If she just got out of a marriage, leave her alone. If she's going through a divorce that is a massively stressful time and she needs space.
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Post by willywonka666 on Jan 3, 2013 14:20:53 GMT -5
If she just got out of a marriage, leave her alone. If she's going through a divorce that is a massively stressful time and she needs space. True, but I do need to get my name out there someway. I'm thinking of making relate able posts if and when she comes back to FB full time
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