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Post by Deleted on Feb 9, 2013 13:20:33 GMT -5
A simple phone call to my sister has now led to her yelling at my parents again. If they don't talk to someone soon (even if it's not a psychatrist) the family will shrink yet again.
I don't want to do this anymore. Can't go a month without issues popping up due to money and/or family.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 9, 2013 13:26:36 GMT -5
I'm sorry to hear. Hope things work out for you.
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Post by BayleyTiffyCodyCenaJudyHopps on Feb 9, 2013 13:55:50 GMT -5
We're here anytime you want to vent or talk, dude.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 9, 2013 14:01:12 GMT -5
It's been forty minutes. Haven't heard a thing.
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Post by zeez on Feb 9, 2013 14:38:36 GMT -5
It's hard to know what to say without any specifics on the situation but hopefully things work out.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 9, 2013 14:42:29 GMT -5
Still haven't heard. I really hope they're working things out.
Long story short, my family is in bad financial shape, both my parents and my sister's family. My Dad has been waiting for three checks that should have come out already but the government is a f***ing asshole. My sister complained about my mother and my mother complained about my sister and they were arguing on the phone when I was talking to Dad.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 9, 2013 15:03:04 GMT -5
Getting close to two hours. This is f***ing making me stressed beyond belief.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 9, 2013 15:22:15 GMT -5
Nobody wants to talk to me, my efforts don't get appreciated and yet I don't want to kill myself.
Why?
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Post by Deleted on Feb 9, 2013 15:40:36 GMT -5
Talking to Dad now. Nothing got accomplished.
I want to kill myself.
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Post by "I'm Batman..." on Feb 9, 2013 15:48:29 GMT -5
Ummm...., what?
Just because of money?
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Post by Deleted on Feb 9, 2013 15:51:47 GMT -5
Now my sister is mouthing off to me on Facebook.
I can't take this.
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Post by Big L on Feb 9, 2013 16:13:04 GMT -5
Hope everything works out
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Post by B'Cup x on Feb 9, 2013 16:16:06 GMT -5
Nobody wants to talk to me Is this aimed at the board? because: We're here anytime you want to vent or talk, dude. but yeah, if you want to vent, then we're here for you x |
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Post by Some Guy on Feb 9, 2013 17:41:42 GMT -5
Talking to Dad now. Nothing got accomplished. I want to kill myself. Stop, never say that. |
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Post by xCompackx on Feb 9, 2013 17:48:41 GMT -5
Talking to Dad now. Nothing got accomplished. I want to kill myself. Stop, never say that. Agreed. There's always a way you can improve your situation, you just have to be positive and look at the bright side in things. |
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Post by Deleted on Feb 9, 2013 22:51:22 GMT -5
Thanks for the concern. I'm better now. My sister and I cleared the air (I think) but she's still pissed at my parents.
I'm not even thinking about it anymore. Taking a hands off approach.
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Post by TK The Friendly Robot on Feb 9, 2013 23:02:13 GMT -5
I've been there before dude and it always hurts when the people you care for the most are hurting each other. The thing is though that you can't make everyone happy and you can't fix this all by yourself, the only thing you should be focusing on right now is what is going to make you happy. Once you know what you have to do for YOU then you need to go and do that. I spent a long time trying to please everyone else, trying to fix all the problems and eventually I ended up lower and in a worse place than any of the people I intended to help because the stress, the sadness and the pain crushed me like a bug and made me want to kill myself, just like the pain and the stress made you feel that way. The thing that brought me back up was doing the things that made me happy and for a little while to hell with everyone else, you can still love and care but you've got to realize at the end of the day you are number one and in this life you can only really look out for yourself. I know it will be hard but it will be even harder keeping up with this and hitting rock bottom. I care and I'm sure a lot of other people care about you but nothing will change until you start caring more about you and less about them. Things will work out my friend, life can suck sometimes but believe me, it does get better. Take care  |
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Post by xCompackx on Feb 9, 2013 23:40:38 GMT -5
Thanks for the concern. I'm better now. My sister and I cleared the air (I think) but she's still pissed at my parents. I'm not even thinking about it anymore. Taking a hands off approach. Glad that you're feeling better. I'm sure everything between your sister and parents will end up fine. Just keep your head up. |
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Post by rapidfire187 on Feb 10, 2013 13:32:50 GMT -5
Dude, wanting to kill yourself because your family is arguing is pretty weak. My girlfriend's mother is an alcoholic that signed away her parental rights so she wouldn't have to give up booze, her father is in jail on rape charges, and both of her foster parents are now dead. On top of finances being so bad that our lights got cut a few weeks ago.
I'm not trying to trump your depression, just saying that's life. It sucks a big hairy dong some times but you have to get over it and move forward. Think of solutions, not escape plans.
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