This conversation just happened with my friend:

[Dave the Dave]

Friend: Hey wanna come over to play video games later?
Me: Well I was going to Mayday's (a comedy open mic) think you'd want to come?
Eric: Ehhhh
Me: Well you don't have class and you just basically told me you don't have plans so....
Eric: What time?
Me: Around 7ish
Eric: I'm don't think I'm coming. I don't like you trying to guilt me into this.



WTF? I mean I was kind of but this is literally the best friend I have and the discourse has me baffled. He used to say, "I always have class Monday night I'll make it for sure when I don't."

So essentially he just doesn't want to...which fine. He comes to my club shows almost every time so I wouldn't be mad, but it's weird that A. He was just lying before about just not wanting to come and B. Way to get weird and lay a guilt trip of your own out of nowhere 23 year old male best pal.


I'm just venting. No one has to respond if you don't want lol.

[Blindkarevik]

On the one hand, he seems really defensive, like there's a bit of social anxiety there.

On the other and, it sounds like his plan is to play video games, with or without you.

[Dave the Dave]

Jan 13, 2014 15:21:19 GMT -5 Blindkarevik said:

On the one hand, he seems really defensive, like there's a bit of social anxiety there.

On the other and, it sounds like his plan is to play video games, with or without you.

True. I guess my inside info is that we did that 3 times last week so I thought maybe he'd wanna do something else. I'm over thinking it too but it weirdly bothered me more than it would. It seemed out of nowhere.