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Post by Brandon Walsh is Insane. on Dec 14, 2014 2:01:33 GMT -5
I'd keep it either way, but since it's clearly bothering you, it couldn't hurt to ask your current girlfriend if she's uncomfortable with you wearing it around her. Worst case scenario she'll either say "yes it is" and then give you an honest answer so you can discuss it, or say "no, it's cool" and probably be thankful that you were considerate enough to ask. Sounds like that it'll become a 'thing' or issue if he goes through that trouble. If you have to question if it's ok, get rid of it. Not worth the trouble.
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Post by Wolf Hawkfield no1 NZ poster on Dec 14, 2014 3:12:12 GMT -5
Yes because really its just f***ing clothes.
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Post by Cranjis McBasketball on Dec 14, 2014 3:17:30 GMT -5
Well, I keep clothes given to me by my exes, mostly because if I didn't, all I would have is things like Metallica sweaters. So I gotta keep something, for the rare occasion it's necessary I not look like a feral hobo.
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Post by chazraps on Dec 14, 2014 11:59:44 GMT -5
I'd keep it either way, but since it's clearly bothering you, it couldn't hurt to ask your current girlfriend if she's uncomfortable with you wearing it around her. Worst case scenario she'll either say "yes it is" and then give you an honest answer so you can discuss it, or say "no, it's cool" and probably be thankful that you were considerate enough to ask. Sounds like that it'll become a 'thing' or issue if he goes through that trouble. If you have to question if it's ok, get rid of it. Not worth the trouble. Is it trouble to ask about someone's feeling though? He asks once, he'll never have to ask about the subject again.
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Post by revolver86 on Dec 14, 2014 14:36:41 GMT -5
The ladies I've been with have always had better fashion sense than me, so I keep the clothes. I've gotten laid, more than once, while wearing outfits my ex bought me. It's a win win, as long as you don't mention the origins.
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Post by rapidfire187 on Dec 14, 2014 15:26:11 GMT -5
I still wear stuff from my ex's. Nothing wrong with it. It was weird when the girl I'm seeing now wore my beanie that my ex bought me one night and took a selfie in it. It made me think of how many chicks have put on that same hat without realizing where I got it.
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Post by bibboid on Dec 14, 2014 22:02:34 GMT -5
Tell your new girlfriend that you need to have sex with her while you wear the sweater. That way it will stop being "the sweater my ex gave me" and start being "the sweater I wore while banging my girlfriend"..
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Post by Andrew is Good on Dec 14, 2014 22:29:37 GMT -5
I'd keep it, but that's just me. One issue I had with an ex is she took my hoodie that I got from work. Like, it's a hoodie with the logo of the Steeplejack company on it, and it's a really warm sweater, and designed for cold winters out west. And like, it was cold, she was over the house and I drove her home, and let her borrow my sweater, and eventually she broke up with me. After she texted me that she was breaking up with me, I asked for my sweater back and didn't get a response.
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Post by The Unconquered Sun on Dec 15, 2014 3:54:15 GMT -5
Its a shirt, just tell her you like it more than your ex, and it means more to you than she did. Now if you have a video of you and your ex "waxing your carrot", that i would get rid of.
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Post by Hurbster on Dec 15, 2014 8:05:20 GMT -5
If you like it wear it. If not - charity shop.
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Post by Hassan bin Sober on Dec 15, 2014 8:14:55 GMT -5
Put it in an old Amazon box and leave it laying around for your current gf to see. When she asks about it say, "Oh I gave away my old one to Goodwill since it was given to me by my ex. Still liked the design though so I ordered another from Amazon."
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Post by Push R Truth on Dec 15, 2014 8:15:32 GMT -5
I'd do everything in my power to get laid wearing nothing BUT a Metallica shirt my ex gave me
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Post by Clash, Never a Meter Maid on Dec 15, 2014 9:12:00 GMT -5
It's just a shirt. I've gotten stuff from people I've seen in the past, I'm not gonna be all like "AARGH BOO HOO" just because we're living different lives now.
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Post by Eunös ✈ on Dec 15, 2014 9:24:54 GMT -5
I still have the Optimus Prime T Shirt me Ex got me... Considering we are still friends it's not a biggie.
Unlike my friend who after he split with his GF made a Bonfire with all the stuff she had bought him over the years.
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