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Post by The Blue Nova on Jan 5, 2015 3:01:25 GMT -5
Cause I was going to buy it and was looking at the other figures Why didn't you explain that to her as succinctly as you did here? Cause she was being rude and a busy body who just wanted an excuse to say something to someone who she did't think would say anything back to her.
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Post by chazraps on Jan 5, 2015 3:11:14 GMT -5
Why didn't you explain that to her as succinctly as you did here? Cause she was being rude and a busy body who just wanted an excuse to say something to someone who she did't think would say anything back to her. And? You said "My bad." You could have said "Actually, I'm going to buy this." Had you been someone who was just leaving the toy off the hook, she would have been in the right. You basically told her she was.
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Post by Professor Chaos on Jan 5, 2015 3:19:16 GMT -5
Bet she's got a thread on The Mean Old Bitties Forums still bitching about it today and the Mean Old Bitties Mods are contemplating locking the thread. Them women get cray.
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Post by Cranjis McBasketball on Jan 5, 2015 6:22:10 GMT -5
The other day Me and my Dad went to a Walmart to pick up some stuff so while he went to get it I went to look to see if they had any of the wwe elite figures in. while I was looking I sat it back on the shelf without putting it up that I seen numerous people do. Then all of a sudden some older lady in her late forties early 50s comes up to me and says to me why don't you put it back on the hook are you to lazy. surprised all I say is my bad and I walk off then when me and my dad are leaving I say to her you had no right to talk to me like that since you do not even work here .To which she replied its disrespectful to not put things back!! and begin dressing me down in front of my father mind you I am 20 years old and not 6. I normally never raise my voice but her rudness prompted me to call her a nasty name which she looked shock and left. I know maybe i should not have sworn but was i entierally in the wrong I'm gonna side with the lady. Put it back, why not? Because, after all, you're 20, not 6, so you really should put your toys back where you found them.
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The Blue Nova
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Post by The Blue Nova on Jan 5, 2015 11:34:21 GMT -5
Cause she was being rude and a busy body who just wanted an excuse to say something to someone who she did't think would say anything back to her. And? You said "My bad." You could have said "Actually, I'm going to buy this." Had you been someone who was just leaving the toy off the hook, she would have been in the right. You basically told her she was. It is because I hate confrontation and it wasn't really her place to really say anything. I mean if I did that to someone and they told me to F off I probably would have it coming and it was the way she talked down to me.
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Post by Milkman Norm on Jan 5, 2015 11:43:41 GMT -5
And? You said "My bad." You could have said "Actually, I'm going to buy this." Had you been someone who was just leaving the toy off the hook, she would have been in the right. You basically told her she was. It is because I hate confrontation and it wasn't really her place to really say anything. I mean if I did that to someone and they told me to F off I probably would have it coming and it was the way she talked down to me. I would hardly call that a confrotation. As for was it her place? No in that she doesn't work at the store. That does not mean someone should not point out that you should have put the toy back.
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Post by DrBackflipsHoffman on Jan 5, 2015 11:45:08 GMT -5
And? You said "My bad." You could have said "Actually, I'm going to buy this." Had you been someone who was just leaving the toy off the hook, she would have been in the right. You basically told her she was. It is because I hate confrontation Why did you go back and confront her, then??
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Post by The Blue Nova on Jan 5, 2015 11:45:54 GMT -5
It is because I hate confrontation and it wasn't really her place to really say anything. I mean if I did that to someone and they told me to F off I probably would have it coming and it was the way she talked down to me. I would hardly call that a confrotation. As for was it her place? No in that she doesn't work at the store. That does not mean someone should not point out that you should have put the toy back. It was the way and the tone she said . I am sure if everyone went out of there way to criticize and try disciplining people they would all take it so well.
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Post by The Blue Nova on Jan 5, 2015 11:47:30 GMT -5
It is because I hate confrontation Why did you go back and confront her, then?? Cause I got tired of people always giving me crap and me taking it. And the fact she walked by other people and did't say Jack Squat and she thought she could with me. some people would of told her to go F herself unlike me her all I said was you have on right talking to me like that.
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Post by Milkman Norm on Jan 5, 2015 11:50:58 GMT -5
Why did you go back and confront her, then?? Cause I got tired of people always giving me crap and me taking it. And the fact she walked by other people and did't say Jack Squat and she thought she could with me. some people would of told her to go F herself unlike me her all I said was you have on right talking to me like that. Why are people always giving you crap?
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Post by The Blue Nova on Jan 5, 2015 11:55:55 GMT -5
Cause I got tired of people always giving me crap and me taking it. And the fact she walked by other people and did't say Jack Squat and she thought she could with me. some people would of told her to go F herself unlike me her all I said was you have on right talking to me like that. Why are people always giving you crap? Cause I am laid back and take peoples crap. So at work if someone is like do my work I often say fine… or if people are just plain rude i turn the other cheek. My Own best friend said themselves they do not know how I go out of my way to be so nice to everyone..
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Post by adamclark52 on Jan 5, 2015 12:00:45 GMT -5
On one hand I'm starting to feel a little sorry for the kid because maybe he's been treated like crap his whole life. He probably just snapped like we all do, He just did it at the wrong time and in the wrong manner.
On the other hand he is getting seriously served here and I will admit to finding it funny.
My best advise is stop responding and let it die.
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Post by The Blue Nova on Jan 5, 2015 12:05:42 GMT -5
On one hand I'm starting to feel a little sorry for the kid because maybe he's been treated like crap his whole life. He probably just snapped like we all do, He just did it at the wrong time and in the wrong manner. On the other hand he is getting seriously served here and I will admit to finding it funny. My best advise is stop responding and let it die. Lol Good idea
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Post by DrBackflipsHoffman on Jan 5, 2015 12:06:47 GMT -5
Why are people always giving you crap? Cause I am laid back and take peoples crap. So at work if someone is like do my work I often say fine… or if people are just plain rude i turn the other cheek. My Own best friend said themselves they do not know how I go out of my way to be so nice to everyone.. My advice to you is to just say no more often and watch the movies Superfly, Dolemite and Shaft and take some tips from the titular characters of said movies on how to interact with everybody
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Post by Bo Rida on Jan 5, 2015 12:08:17 GMT -5
Your were wrong, wrong WRONG! There were three acceptable options. 1) Make a show of putting it back on the wrong peg just to piss her off. 2) Politely explain that you were rearranging the figures so your favourite wrestlers were at the front and your most hated ones to the back. 3) Explain to her your true intentions before teaching her that instead of seeing the worst in people she should Boleive!
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Post by Milkman Norm on Jan 5, 2015 12:34:24 GMT -5
Cause I am laid back and take peoples crap. So at work if someone is like do my work I often say fine… or if people are just plain rude i turn the other cheek. My Own best friend said themselves they do not know how I go out of my way to be so nice to everyone.. My advice to you is to just say no more often and watch the movies Superfly, Dolemite and Shaft and take some tips from the titular characters of said movies on how to interact with everybody WWRRMD What would Rudy Ray Moore do?
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Post by chazraps on Jan 5, 2015 13:09:53 GMT -5
Why are people always giving you crap? Cause I am laid back and take peoples crap. So at work if someone is like do my work I often say fine… or if people are just plain rude i turn the other cheek. My Own best friend said themselves they do not know how I go out of my way to be so nice to everyone.. That doesn't sound very laid back, just passive aggressive. It wouldn't have been "Taking her crap" to tell her you planned on buying the figure. You basically just lied to someone for no reason, and let them talk you out of buying a toy and then yelled at them later for it. I mean, if you were just leaving the toy, she would totally have the right to speak to you have she did. You could and should have politely corrected her in the moment, or just forgotten about it. You're also projecting a lot on someone you've never seen before or since and had no other interaction with.
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Post by The Blue Nova on Jan 5, 2015 13:34:47 GMT -5
Cause I am laid back and take peoples crap. So at work if someone is like do my work I often say fine… or if people are just plain rude i turn the other cheek. My Own best friend said themselves they do not know how I go out of my way to be so nice to everyone.. That doesn't sound very laid back, just passive aggressive. It wouldn't have been "Taking her crap" to tell her you planned on buying the figure. You basically just lied to someone for no reason, and let them talk you out of buying a toy and then yelled at them later for it. I mean, if you were just leaving the toy, she would totally have the right to speak to you have she did. You could and should have politely corrected her in the moment, or just forgotten about it. You're also projecting a lot on someone you've never seen before or since and had no other interaction with. first off I was just venting and Second of all so its ok for some lady who isn't doesn't even work t here to go around disciplining people I know plenty of other people who probably would of told her to go f herself and I didn't all I said was she had no right talking to me like that. I think I am forgiven and you are also pretty much saying everyone has the right to stick there nose where it doesn't belong.
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Post by chazraps on Jan 5, 2015 13:41:18 GMT -5
That doesn't sound very laid back, just passive aggressive. It wouldn't have been "Taking her crap" to tell her you planned on buying the figure. You basically just lied to someone for no reason, and let them talk you out of buying a toy and then yelled at them later for it. I mean, if you were just leaving the toy, she would totally have the right to speak to you have she did. You could and should have politely corrected her in the moment, or just forgotten about it. You're also projecting a lot on someone you've never seen before or since and had no other interaction with. first off I was just venting and Second of all so its ok for some lady who isn't doesn't even work t here to go around disciplining people I know plenty of other people who probably would of told her to go f herself and I didn't all I said was she had no right talking to me like that. I think I am forgiven and you are also pretty much saying everyone has the right to stick there nose where it doesn't belong. She has as much of a right to tell you to put the toy on the hook as you did to not put the toy on the hook. You can't be mad at her and not mad at yourself. She was looking out for the shared experience of customers at the store. If someone's talking at the movies, you can ask them to be quiet if you aren't employed by the theater. The civilized way to respond would have been to say "Actually, I plan on buying this." Instead, you told a lady she was right and then went back to yell at her to tell her she was wrong for telling a 20-year-old to put his toy back where he found it. Her nose had as much place in your business as that toy did on the shelf.
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Post by The Blue Nova on Jan 5, 2015 13:56:59 GMT -5
first off I was just venting and Second of all so its ok for some lady who isn't doesn't even work t here to go around disciplining people I know plenty of other people who probably would of told her to go f herself and I didn't all I said was she had no right talking to me like that. I think I am forgiven and you are also pretty much saying everyone has the right to stick there nose where it doesn't belong. She has as much of a right to tell you to put the toy on the hook as you did to not put the toy on the hook. You can't be mad at her and not mad at yourself. She was looking out for the shared experience of customers at the store. If someone's talking at the movies, you can ask them to be quiet if you aren't employed by the theater. The civilized way to respond would have been to say "Actually, I plan on buying this." Instead, you told a lady she was right and then went back to yell at her to tell her she was wrong for telling a 20-year-old to put his toy back where he found it. Her nose had as much place in your business as that toy did on the shelf. That is a little different as I saw her walk by 2 people who were doing much worse and she didn't say jack squat. She has no right to go around telling people what to do. If I did that and I got told to F off I would say Hey I deserved it. you are clearly troll as she wasn't looking out for anyone she was just being a busybody
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