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Post by twiggy101 on Mar 9, 2017 21:41:36 GMT -5
So I have a crush on a girl from a different class in school. She seems pretty sweet, she's friendly to me and I really like her voice. But I know nothing is going to happen. I keep telling myself that if she were into me then I'd know, yet I can't stop having a crush on her. This is rather inconvenient. Do you guys have any advice on how to stop having a crush on a girl?
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Post by Deleted on Mar 9, 2017 21:46:25 GMT -5
Tell her how you feel, see what happens, and move on if she doesn't feel the same.
And having a crush, even one that may not be reciprocated, is not as bad as seeing everyone around you and thinking, holy shit, none of these people do anything for me.
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Post by xCompackx on Mar 9, 2017 21:48:20 GMT -5
Yeah, the quickest way to stop having a crush on someone is to tell them how you feel and see how it goes. Don't stop liking someone just because you think it won't go anywhere; you never know how things might turn out until you try.
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Post by twiggy101 on Mar 9, 2017 23:11:36 GMT -5
That COULD work. I think the closest I told her how I feel was asking her if she would like to play ping pong. She said "No, I'm busy!"
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Post by Toilet Paper Roll on Mar 9, 2017 23:27:08 GMT -5
That COULD work. I think the closest I told her how I feel was asking her if she would like to play ping pong. She said "No, I'm busy!" Damn, thats a good line... The fact it didnt work makes her your bane. or... Just say next time "hey im ginna grab a drink (or something to eat) want to come with?" If she says yes you have something to work with... If no ask one more time... If you dont at least get a aincheck stop pursuing. |
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Post by Deleted on Mar 9, 2017 23:30:47 GMT -5
Why do you think it isn't going to work? Is she taken or you have self doubt about yourself? If she isn't taken you can ask her out. If she says no well that sucks but at least you tried and can move on.
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Post by Cranjis McBasketball on Mar 9, 2017 23:44:26 GMT -5
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Post by twiggy101 on Mar 10, 2017 0:34:51 GMT -5
Why do you think it isn't going to work? Is she taken or you have self doubt about yourself? If she isn't taken you can ask her out. If she says no well that sucks but at least you tried and can move on. She's not interested into talking to me as she used to. Not saying I don't have a chance but it's a small school and things could get awkward. |
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Post by agent817 on Mar 10, 2017 1:49:50 GMT -5
I remember having a crush on a supervisor at my job (She was not mine, by the way). She was actually a year younger than I am and I remember I tried to talk to her any way that I could. I look back and realize that it was just a physical thing. The same could be said about this woman who works at a bookstore and she happens to be married. Now I am very respectful over marriage, but I can't shake my attraction to her. Of course, I am not going to do anything stupid.
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Post by Welfare Willis on Mar 10, 2017 1:59:09 GMT -5
Some great advice in this thread. Certainly better than what I was going to say: Imagine her taking a heinous, giant dump.
The kind of dump you take after a night of drinking and 2 am taco bell. A wall paper peeling, massive need the plunger dump.
That will kill any crush as well.
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Post by Capt Lunatic on Mar 10, 2017 3:05:45 GMT -5
Some great advice in this thread. Certainly better than what I was going to say: Imagine her taking a heinous, giant dump. The kind of dump you take after a night of drinking and 2 am taco bell. A wall paper peeling, massive need the plunger dump. That will kill any crush as well. This is EXACTLY what I was going to say. Downside....you may discover some things about yourself you can't handle. |
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Post by Hit Girl on Mar 10, 2017 6:58:58 GMT -5
Ask her out. You have a crush on the idea of her, rather than her. Once you actually meet her and get to know her, either she'll be all you imagine her to be and things may progress, or she'll shatter your idealism, and you will get over her.
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Post by YAKMAN is ICHIBAN on Mar 10, 2017 9:26:52 GMT -5
Some great advice in this thread. Certainly better than what I was going to say: Imagine her taking a heinous, giant dump. The kind of dump you take after a night of drinking and 2 am taco bell. A wall paper peeling, massive need the plunger dump. That will kill any crush as well. True love shits with the door open I should write greeting cards |
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Post by Evil Homer on Mar 10, 2017 14:21:33 GMT -5
I had a crush on a girl at work , I never said anything to her - she was in a different department and we never interacted . One day in the break room she saw I had a razr - (which was like the greatest phone at the time ) She asked if she can see it , I spoke to her for about 25 mins after that . I realized she was in fact the dumbest person I had ever met in my life (still the dumbest 12 years later ) Crush was instantly over
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Post by Bo Rida on Mar 10, 2017 15:47:01 GMT -5
Me too. There's a lot of chemistry between us and we flirted to the point that we could have got together but taking it further didn't seem wise given the 10 year age gap, being work colleagues etc. I don't think there's much deeper there than the surface chemistry and work would be very awkward if things didn't go well (or even if it did).
We backed off, kept more distance, flirted less for a while. I stupidly thought that was the sensible way of dealing with things but it seems to have made things worse as the sexual tension is getting more awkward than what we tried to avoid.
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Post by The Unconquered Sun on Mar 10, 2017 17:36:28 GMT -5
Honest, simple answer, find somebody else. You'll forget all about her.
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Post by Milkman Norm on Mar 10, 2017 18:59:54 GMT -5
Here's the thing. On some level you are never going to stop finding her attractive. That's totally normal and OK. You shouldn't fight your brain on that because it will double down on you. But that doesn't mean you can't get over your crush. If you talk to her and it doesn't go anywhere I'd say to try to avoid seeing her for a while. Literally. Focus on other things and other people and give your brain time to think about why you had this crush.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 10, 2017 20:09:08 GMT -5
Tell her how you feel, see what happens, and move on if she doesn't feel the same. And having a crush, even one that may not be reciprocated, is not as bad as seeing everyone around you and thinking, holy shit, none of these people do anything for me. That's sadly where I'm at. I'm at the point where I'm ready to start dating again, yet have not met or even seen a single woman (IRL) that seems interesting or my type. |
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Post by Mrs. Potato Dick on Mar 10, 2017 21:32:45 GMT -5
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Post by Juice on Mar 10, 2017 23:01:35 GMT -5
Cut off all contact and you will eventually stop crushing
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