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Post by Can you afford to pay me, Gah on Sept 8, 2019 18:52:18 GMT -5
To be honest, it kinda makes me feel insecure when I date a girl who has a ton of friends. I’m a bit of a loner, so it makes for an awkward situation if I ever have to hang out with them. Cause it’s like “Where’s your friends?”.... “Oh I don’t have any.” A lot of potential relationships didn’t go any further because of this, I feel. So I tend to date people who aren’t in big groups now. See I'm different on this, I wouldn't care if she had 4 friends or 100 of them, If she willing to date you, that what should matter the most. Sure maybe the first time meeting her friends that could be a little weird but after that they it gets better because they will know that there friend likes you and next thing you know these things wouldn't matter. After all you there to be with her and more than likely she invited to you to be there because if you at that point, she wanted you to meet her friends to begin with. |
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Post by Deleted on Sept 8, 2019 18:56:44 GMT -5
To be honest, it kinda makes me feel insecure when I date a girl who has a ton of friends. I’m a bit of a loner, so it makes for an awkward situation if I ever have to hang out with them. Cause it’s like “Where’s your friends?”.... “Oh I don’t have any.” A lot of potential relationships didn’t go any further because of this, I feel. So I tend to date people who aren’t in big groups now. See I'm different on this, I wouldn't care if she had 4 friends or 100 of them, If she willing to date you, that what should matter the most. Sure maybe the first time meeting her friends that could be a little weird but after that they it gets better because they will know that there friend likes you and next thing you know these things wouldn't matter. After all you there to be with her and more than likely she invited to you to be there because if you at that point, she wanted you to meet her friends to begin with. Well I was on 4 dates with a girl and everything was going great.... then I met her friend one night and she obviously said something that changed her mind about me. My new rule is.... you have your friends/family and I have mine. I don’t need to meet them or seek their approval unless we’re getting married or something. There’s just no need. |
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Post by Kyn on Sept 8, 2019 21:12:05 GMT -5
I think the key to a successful relationship is for BOTH of you to feel like you're dating 'up'. You think they're cooler than you, they think you're cooler than them.
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Post by Dr. T is an alien on Sept 9, 2019 10:41:04 GMT -5
If I refused to date people cooler than me, then I would have never dated.
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Post by Deleted on Sept 9, 2019 10:52:02 GMT -5
I think the key to a successful relationship is for BOTH of you to feel like you're dating 'up'. You think they're cooler than you, they think you're cooler than them. Exactly this |
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