Post by J. Hova on Nov 27, 2020 21:31:01 GMT -5
My 74 year old mother took a tumble two weekends ago and broke her upper arm, dislocated her shoulder, and did a lot of soft tissue damage to her left side. They decided to take a conservative approach and try to rehab it and discharged her back to her house. I spent most of last week there at her house making sure she was well and she did alright at home, approximately 14-18 hours a day on average. They prescribed her oxycontin for pain which I wasn't comfortable with and eventually called up her orthopedist to have him prescribe something a little less strong since she was out of it on that stuff. I'm also her medical proxy, FYI.
Last weekend, she got a little ahead of herself and took another tumble while trying to return from the bathroom unattended. I got her to the ER where they determined she didn't do any other further damage other than soft tissue. They discharged her to a nursing home/rehab facility so she can have multiple per day therapy sessions to get her where she can be more independent at home. I was pretty hesitant to put her in there given COVID, but this is the only place around that has had zero patient cases and the doctor told me if he was in my spot, it is where he'd put his mother.
I've been keeping in touch with her via phone calls and video calls, along with my sister, nieces, and brother. She's made progress, especially once they got her off all pain meds other than tylenol. Her only real complaint has been minor bed sores, which started while she was at home and they've been treating. I was on the phone with her earlier this evening and she was complaining of new pain in her left leg that was creeping up and becoming worse. I had her call the nurse and the nurse eventually said it would be prudent to send her to the hospital to get tested for blood clots. She's there now getting tests and I can't go due to COVID restrictions.
Am I wrong thinking she has just gotten the shittiest healthcare imaginable? Is this normal? I just keep thinking it shouldn't be this hard with a broken bone and some soft tissue injuries. It just seems like she has paid into Medicare and various insurance plans her entire life and the one time she actually needs in depth care, she is just screwed over. Is this just a US thing that it is this bad?
On a side note, I lost it on a poor nurse from the home. She wasn't even gone two minutes from that facility and the nurse called me and told me they have a bed hold policy of three days. I almost feel bad, but I am not there yet.
Last weekend, she got a little ahead of herself and took another tumble while trying to return from the bathroom unattended. I got her to the ER where they determined she didn't do any other further damage other than soft tissue. They discharged her to a nursing home/rehab facility so she can have multiple per day therapy sessions to get her where she can be more independent at home. I was pretty hesitant to put her in there given COVID, but this is the only place around that has had zero patient cases and the doctor told me if he was in my spot, it is where he'd put his mother.
I've been keeping in touch with her via phone calls and video calls, along with my sister, nieces, and brother. She's made progress, especially once they got her off all pain meds other than tylenol. Her only real complaint has been minor bed sores, which started while she was at home and they've been treating. I was on the phone with her earlier this evening and she was complaining of new pain in her left leg that was creeping up and becoming worse. I had her call the nurse and the nurse eventually said it would be prudent to send her to the hospital to get tested for blood clots. She's there now getting tests and I can't go due to COVID restrictions.
Am I wrong thinking she has just gotten the shittiest healthcare imaginable? Is this normal? I just keep thinking it shouldn't be this hard with a broken bone and some soft tissue injuries. It just seems like she has paid into Medicare and various insurance plans her entire life and the one time she actually needs in depth care, she is just screwed over. Is this just a US thing that it is this bad?
On a side note, I lost it on a poor nurse from the home. She wasn't even gone two minutes from that facility and the nurse called me and told me they have a bed hold policy of three days. I almost feel bad, but I am not there yet.