Post by agent817 on Jun 6, 2023 12:05:20 GMT -5
So I recently watched some videos with someone reading Reddit posts and the ones that stood out were when girls give off hints to guys and go unnoticed, even when it was obvious. I remember being told that I have to look closely at the hints but in the past, either I was oblivious or I acted on them only to be dumbfounded when the girl told me she didn't see me that way. Now with MeToo being a thing, it would be impossible for women to try it because...well, you might have an idea what I will say.
Also, guys don't always know if a girl is interested or is just being friendly. I remember an old friend told me that a girl was interested in me in high school because she often talked to me but I didn't see it. The friend also gave me crap about it but I tried to tell him that I didn't see anything like that. Because I have Asperger's Syndrome, it's hard for me to tell.
From personal experience, when I was in 7th grade, I remember this girl I liked flirted with me. She would blow kisses at me and all that. I was catching feelings until I saw her with a guy and they started kissing. I couldn't look her in the eye after that. Not to mention she told me she didn't think of me that way. In hindsight, I wish I would have said, "Then why did you do all that stuff before?" I realized she was being a tease.
Hell, one time I went back to a girl's apartment after we had lunch. All we did was hang out. Nothing happened, though she did show me some stuff and implied other things. In hindsight, I figured she wanted something more than to hang out. I told my ex about this and she gave me crap about it. I even told her that the girl should have made it more clear.
But then I hear that some women still do this in spite of the MeToo movement. I don't know why. Guys aren't mind-readers. Some guys have tried acting on things to negative results.
Also, guys don't always know if a girl is interested or is just being friendly. I remember an old friend told me that a girl was interested in me in high school because she often talked to me but I didn't see it. The friend also gave me crap about it but I tried to tell him that I didn't see anything like that. Because I have Asperger's Syndrome, it's hard for me to tell.
From personal experience, when I was in 7th grade, I remember this girl I liked flirted with me. She would blow kisses at me and all that. I was catching feelings until I saw her with a guy and they started kissing. I couldn't look her in the eye after that. Not to mention she told me she didn't think of me that way. In hindsight, I wish I would have said, "Then why did you do all that stuff before?" I realized she was being a tease.
Hell, one time I went back to a girl's apartment after we had lunch. All we did was hang out. Nothing happened, though she did show me some stuff and implied other things. In hindsight, I figured she wanted something more than to hang out. I told my ex about this and she gave me crap about it. I even told her that the girl should have made it more clear.
But then I hear that some women still do this in spite of the MeToo movement. I don't know why. Guys aren't mind-readers. Some guys have tried acting on things to negative results.
