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Post by thwak is T.hawk on Jul 28, 2008 15:03:51 GMT -5
well if it's for sex then I say just do what feels right. the number one rule is to just make sure everyone is comfortable.
speaking of that, if you do go through with this you may have a couple issues finding another guy... just saying.
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Post by Viking Snad on Jul 28, 2008 15:07:10 GMT -5
No no NO.
It'll only, and I mean ONLY, lead to problems. There's no way around it.
Some other dude would be drilling your woman. I don't care if you're the most porn addicted guy around, seeing it will bother you. And then you can't do anything about it, because you agreed.
It'll be the same for her with another chick. It'll sit there in her mind and fester and grow until BOOM.
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Post by thwak is T.hawk on Jul 28, 2008 15:11:35 GMT -5
No no NO. It'll only, and I mean ONLY, lead to problems. There's no way around it. Some other dude would be drilling your woman. I don't care if you're the most porn addicted guy around, seeing it will bother you. And then you can't do anything about it, because you agreed. It'll be the same for her with another chick. It'll sit there in her mind and fester and grow until BOOM. hey some people are different about their views on jealously. if he's comfortable with it then it shouldn't be a problem, if he's not however then he shouldn't go through with it.
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Post by T.J. "the Crippler" Stevens on Jul 28, 2008 15:21:25 GMT -5
I don't even like to see dudity in my porn. Having some dude's pecker within my general area would make me run. Having some dude's pecker within the general area of my girl would make me run for the shotgun. But that's just me. There's far more extreme behavior out there. You seem interested. We all like different stuff. Be my guest.
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Post by Cranjis McBasketball on Jul 28, 2008 15:25:34 GMT -5
"This is like discovering plutonium by acciddent!!"
George Costanza.
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Post by Viking Snad on Jul 28, 2008 15:26:51 GMT -5
No no NO. It'll only, and I mean ONLY, lead to problems. There's no way around it. Some other dude would be drilling your woman. I don't care if you're the most porn addicted guy around, seeing it will bother you. And then you can't do anything about it, because you agreed. It'll be the same for her with another chick. It'll sit there in her mind and fester and grow until BOOM. hey some people are different about their views on jealously. if he's comfortable with it then it shouldn't be a problem, if he's not however then he shouldn't go through with it. I completely understand that. Honestly, I do. I still have to stick to my sentiments though.
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Post by Toom E. Guci on Jul 28, 2008 15:27:47 GMT -5
Two words: Chasing Amy.
Rent it! Then decide.
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Post by big nasty on Jul 28, 2008 15:43:15 GMT -5
might as well do it, if she brought it up she probably has the guy in mind (or lined up) already.
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Post by Cranjis McBasketball on Jul 28, 2008 15:45:16 GMT -5
If I learned one thing in life, not from experience mind you, but anyway.
If with your girl and another girl..."finish" with your girlfriend.
You know.....?
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Post by The Genesis of KoOS on Jul 28, 2008 15:46:36 GMT -5
My ex wanted to bring in another girl for us, but all the chicks she wanted to bring in were fat.
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Post by MiLo Duck on Jul 28, 2008 15:47:02 GMT -5
Two words: Chasing Amy. Rent it! Then decide. Also a phenomenal idea!
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Post by Big BosskMan on Jul 28, 2008 15:49:42 GMT -5
My ex wanted to bring in another girl for us, but all the chicks she wanted to bring in were fat. And in the Palace of Wisdom, those aren't welcome.
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Post by Ace Diamond on Jul 28, 2008 15:50:53 GMT -5
Polyamory is a tricky thing, if you think it won't lead to mass jealousy and distrust then go for it, because the worst thing about polyamory is that when you get jealous you can't exactly justify it.
So tread lightly on this, is what I'm saying.
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Post by Madman Szalinski on Jul 28, 2008 15:52:58 GMT -5
Another girl, that's acceptable. The only time I would condone a two on tone with double the meat is when you're all intoxicated on something and the chick just deserved it. (Case in point: an ex who I caught cheating on me I find in my living room one night at four in the morning getting double tagged by two of my homies. Hurricane was involved. Dave Chappelle is right about the chicken on a rotisserie reference. Anyways, I told them to throw her out when they were done.)
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Post by MiLo Duck on Jul 28, 2008 15:58:03 GMT -5
Another girl, that's acceptable. The only time I would condone a two on tone with double the meat is when you're all intoxicated on something and the chick just deserved it. (Case in point: an ex who I caught cheating on me I find in my living room one night at four in the morning getting double tagged by two of my homies. Hurricane was involved. Dave Chappelle is right about the chicken on a rotisserie reference. Anyways, I told them to throw her out when they were done.) Was this the cheating that caused the "ex" status or was this after she had cheated on you, cause if that was the cheating in question those dudes aren't your homies and would have met my baseball bat and the concept of physical therepy had friends betrayed the trust like that!
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Post by T.J. "the Crippler" Stevens on Jul 28, 2008 16:04:57 GMT -5
Just curious. How long has this chick been your girl?
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Post by Ben Wyatt on Jul 28, 2008 16:06:29 GMT -5
Also consider that if you two do go down this road, would she be tempted to engage with other partners when you're not around? Could be a pandora's box. T-h-i-s
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Post by Madman Szalinski on Jul 28, 2008 16:48:37 GMT -5
Was this the cheating that caused the "ex" status or was this after she had cheated on you, cause if that was the cheating in question those dudes aren't your homies and would have met my baseball bat and the concept of physical therepy had friends betrayed the trust like that! It was a month after. They just happened to pick her up and bring her back to my joint. I didn't care. I let them violate her, throw her out of my house, then they got dressed and we stayed up some more.
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Post by T.J. "the Crippler" Stevens on Jul 28, 2008 16:53:50 GMT -5
I can't ask my friends... can I? Do you want to?
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Post by Non Banjoble Tokens on Jul 28, 2008 17:22:09 GMT -5
Say yes, but only if it's Samuel L. Jackson.
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