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Post by Kash Flagg on Aug 14, 2008 20:06:58 GMT -5
All I'll say is if you make assumptions about someone else's relationships....well you're an ass. Is that how it goes? I don't know.
I'm fat, but dang pretty.
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wwerules60
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Post by wwerules60 on Aug 14, 2008 20:12:43 GMT -5
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AFN: Judge Shred
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Post by AFN: Judge Shred on Aug 14, 2008 20:29:28 GMT -5
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Post by LCR, Formerly Blue Nova on Aug 14, 2008 20:32:05 GMT -5
Do what you want. If you're happy and not directly causing a problem for anybody else, then who cares what anybody says.
All people have perceptions about other people -- their race, size, gender, hair style, et al. just give people a focus for it.
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Post by Brandon Walsh is Insane. on Aug 14, 2008 20:34:11 GMT -5
All I'll say is if you make assumptions about someone else's relationships....well you're an ass. Is that how it goes? I don't know. I'm fat, but dang pretty. And how!
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AFN: Judge Shred
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Post by AFN: Judge Shred on Aug 14, 2008 20:37:50 GMT -5
Another thing, the more it bothers you, the more people will know they do, and they will keep it up. If you don't let it get to you, they have nothing to work with.
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Post by Loki on Aug 14, 2008 20:40:36 GMT -5
If you're happy, then everything's fine.
There isn't a recipe for happyness, but keep in mind too much weight is bad for you health, no matter how cool you're with it.
My mom has been about your size for the last 25 years, and her knees haven't been aging that well (she'd need surgery, but won't get a replacement becasue she's still too young for that operation). So if not for your mental well-being, you'd think about dropping some pound for your physical health.
That being said, it's good to hear girls and women not Broomstick-size can live a fulfilling life under every aspect.
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Tehboobz wants Ewa Sonnett
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Post by Tehboobz wants Ewa Sonnett on Aug 14, 2008 20:58:47 GMT -5
If you're happy, then everything's fine. There isn't a recipe for happyness, but keep in mind too much weight is bad for you health, no matter how cool you're with it. My mom has been about your size for the last 25 years, and her knees haven't been aging that well (she'd need surgery, but won't get a replacement becasue she's still too young for that operation). So if not for your mental well-being, you'd think about dropping some pound for your physical health. That being said, it's good to hear girls and women not Broomstick-size can live a fulfilling life under every aspect. Yes, but at the same time, being fat and being fit are NOT mutually exclusive concepts. You can carry extra weight and still be more cardiovascularly fit than a person who weighs almost half of what you do. Believe me, I saw a lot of that in college, on the football team (I didn't play football, but a lot of the linebackers/defensive line were pretty BIG dudes who had substantial guts on 'em).
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Post by King Boo on Aug 14, 2008 21:30:54 GMT -5
You'd think about the fuss you hear today about obese children and adults, and the declining health of Americans in general, that people wouldn't be shallow like that anymore. If everyone's getting bigger, aren't they the ones who don't conform to the norm? Honestly, I hate skinny people. If I want to cuddle, I want to cuddle with a girl, not a pelvic bone. I'd hate to come off sounding...whatever, but this is what I hate. I'm naturally thin and shouldn't be made to feel bad about myself in an attempt to be more accepting of people who aren't. FWIW to the OP: if there are people who make you feel bad about what you look like or who you are, screw em. You don't want to be around them anyway. You and the ones who care about you know how rad you are and that's all that matters. Screw everyone else.
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Post by thwak is T.hawk on Aug 14, 2008 22:25:32 GMT -5
the whole big girls can't get men thing is so ridiculous it's amazing. trust me there are PLENTY of men who like dating big girls, why we even have some on this board (rorshach, johnny maxxx, etc.) I mean hell look at redman! www.youtube.com/watch?v=VIW51KKYmeoyeah they don't want me to embed that video for some reason.
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Post by Jay Peas 42 on Aug 14, 2008 22:31:07 GMT -5
First of all, the political career of one John Edwards is dead for the forseeable future, thus he is no longer a political figure. Does he hold an office? No. Is he running for an office? No. Will he ever run for office again? Unlikely.
I once weighed about 260 and dropped down to 230. I can say my health improved, and my attractiveness to the opposite sex increased. Given my height, I'm supposed to be 199, something I look forward to reaching once I get a decent gym membership, and a proper diet.
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Post by hawkfan44 on Aug 14, 2008 22:31:47 GMT -5
you know what I'm sick of... guys named Todd. its just a goofy f'n name. hi whats you're name? "Toooooooddd. I'm Todd"
sorry to go off topic here, just saw this topic and immediately thought of this great comic bit from George Carlin
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Post by Drink Up Me Cider on Aug 14, 2008 22:35:54 GMT -5
It's just easier admitting when you know your fat, that's what I did. I'm fat. People take the piss sometimes but meh, I'm happy being big and I still managed to lose my virginity.
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Post by Rocky Van Heineken on Aug 15, 2008 1:48:28 GMT -5
I wish I could offer condolences. But I'm a skinny white guy.
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Post by drjayphd (feat. Pitbull) on Aug 15, 2008 2:28:47 GMT -5
I'm having a hard time understanding what my sex life has to do with how 'stable' my relationship is. As I said, we have been together for years, we live together, etc, etc. We are at a point in our lives where we still haven't done certain things, so we have an open relationship. We haven't had an issue with it thus far, and I don't see one coming any time soon. I was trying to make a point, and it got re-directed into how I'm not happy with my relationship. If you are monogamous that's good for you, I have no issue being that either, as I have before. But at this point, we are not and it isn't a problem. I'm not going to call anyone a prude because they feel differently than me in that regard, but don't try and make me feel bad that I don't have the same 'values' as you. Seriously, just do what works for you and don't worry about what other people think. About your body, your relationship, everything. Oh, and you look a LOT like a friend of mine. Added you.
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Post by willywonka666 on Aug 15, 2008 7:53:09 GMT -5
maybe im reading this wrong, but youre in a relationship fo five years, yet cheat on your man? We're in a open relationship, so I am not cheating/he's not cheating/etc, etc. Call me
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Johnny Danger (Godz)
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Post by Johnny Danger (Godz) on Aug 15, 2008 7:56:52 GMT -5
I'm fat, but dang pretty. Yeah, well I'm fat AND ugly so....I...win?
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Post by Madman Szalinski on Aug 15, 2008 8:30:59 GMT -5
I'd hate to come off sounding...whatever, but this is what I hate. I'm naturally thin and shouldn't be made to feel bad about myself in an attempt to be more accepting of people who aren't. FWIW to the OP: if there are people who make you feel bad about what you look like or who you are, screw em. You don't want to be around them anyway. You and the ones who care about you know how rad you are and that's all that matters. Screw everyone else. Sounding like what? That wasn't meant to be taken seriously, by the way.
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Post by Dirty Hazy on Aug 15, 2008 8:44:50 GMT -5
People take the piss sometimes but... What?
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Post by willywonka666 on Aug 15, 2008 9:12:31 GMT -5
People take the piss sometimes but... What? British slang, basically saying, "People make fun of me for..." or "joke with me about....."
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