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Post by theryno665 on Oct 1, 2009 17:52:56 GMT -5
We got a second thread already? We're like the Pics and Gifs Threads, only without pics or .gifs and way more depressing!
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Post by Mehe is F'n hardcore. on Oct 1, 2009 17:55:46 GMT -5
About thread title: What if I made it worth your whilllllllleeeeeee?
About singledom: I'm getting used to it.
About the ex: Still thinking about him.
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Post by Mozenrath on Oct 1, 2009 18:05:46 GMT -5
I am not entirely sure I'm over my ex. I believe I am most of the time, but sometimes she does stuff that make me think she's at least toying with the idea of trying to give "us" a shot again. I don't know if I'd go for it, I mean, I probably would, but I haven't given it serious thought. Last thing I need or want is to put all of my eggs in that kind of emotional basket.
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Post by stormwrestling on Oct 1, 2009 18:10:24 GMT -5
Face it, you guys are just ugly. My suggestion: go to AA meetings for the sole purpose of meeting chicks. Please don't take any of that seriously. I actually think it might be better to be ugly than being too shy to even approach women. Sadly I'm the latter. Not to say I'm not ugly though ('cause I'd say I probably am!), but I'm way too shy. So forever single really applies to me, literally
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Post by Mozenrath on Oct 1, 2009 18:12:34 GMT -5
I actually think it might be better to be ugly than being too shy to even approach women. Sadly I'm the latter. Not to say I'm not ugly though ('cause I'd say I probably am!), but I'm way too shy. So forever single really applies to me, literally The secret you guys ought to learn is that most people are shy. I would even guess guys like DieselTrain are shy, they just work past it. Just a matter of working up a nerve by going to bat.
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Post by mysterydriver on Oct 1, 2009 18:14:48 GMT -5
I have a self-esteem the size of a watermelon in Gallagher's act....yes, after the Sledge-O-Matic.
It is most likely the main reason that I'm single.
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*Shrug*
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Post by Vampiro138 on Oct 1, 2009 19:18:11 GMT -5
im a very shy type of person....and im into comic books, video games, old horror movies, and various types of music....i kept saying that "ill meet somebody at the comic con" and well...that didnt happen.......least i got was a cup of coffee with lori "tank girl" petty.....
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Post by Mozenrath on Oct 1, 2009 19:19:53 GMT -5
im a very shy type of person....and im into comic books, video games, old horror movies, and various types of music....i kept saying that "ill meet somebody at the comic con" and well...that didnt happen.......least i got was a cup of coffee with lori "tank girl" petty..... That's pretty awesome, although I think I'd probably remember her from the Superman cartoon or Point Break, but that's just my personal preference. She looking good these days?
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Post by Mr. Emoticon Man, TF Fan on Oct 1, 2009 19:42:02 GMT -5
I'd run screaming from the room if I ever saw my ex again.
Well... not really. I don't scream... or run... but I'd still bid a hasty retreat to get the hell away from her.
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Post by Dangery Scubba on Oct 1, 2009 19:56:49 GMT -5
I never thought I'd say this, but I need to limit my options.
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Post by HMARK Center on Oct 1, 2009 20:02:57 GMT -5
I've got to mini-rant.....being single really isn't that bad, I mean I have been since January after a 3 year relationship and to be quite honest, I've had a LOT of fun with it. I mean I don't have to worry about what somebody else might think of my actions, I don't have to worry about 'doing something I might regret' when I'm a little too drunk. I don't have to worry about saying something even slightly out of turn. Seriously, people, relationships are over-rated, I mean I would much rather be single than be one of those people who jumps from relationship to relationship with a matter of weeks in between, no wonder none of them work. Also, people in loveless relationships, you know they have a house together, but it's too much of a hassle to break-up and they can't be bothered to meet new people etc. Far, far too many people in my opinion force themselves into relationships either because they are terrified of being alone, or for some reason afraid of the stigma that comes with being single. I mean, if somebody comes along and I get to know them and it feels 'right' that's all well and good but I have zero plans to actually go out and search for somebody. I honestly can't think of anything worse, well, okay I probably could but you get my point. Seriously, being single is an opportunity to do the things you want to do, you want to sit on Wrestlecrap and shoot the s***? go ahead do it, you want to watch all the Die Hards back to back whilst eating the left-overs of last night's takeaway? Why not? You want to go out and party with your friends and not have to worry about getting up early the next day to go to visit your other halves relatives who doesn't even know your name? Who's going to stop you? Finally......dates, oh dates, this is the last thing I'd ever want to do (see I thought of something worse!), I mean dates in the conventional sense, especially if it's your first time meeting someone, go out and spend what is most likely to be 3 of the most uncomfortable hours of your life with somebody you might have nothing in common with. NO....THANK....YOU. And I'm done You just brought a tear of joy to my eye. Things like these are reasons why I'm so hesitant to get into relationships that I'm not mostly sure will at least pan out decently, even if they don't last forever. There are TONS of perks to being single, as long as one can get over the "stigma" of singleness or not spend time obsessing over having to be in a relationship. Honestly, it's far, far, FAR better to not be in a relationship than it is to just take whatever comes your way. So many people are obsessed with not being alone that, like you said, they'll just not break up due to "inconvenience", and we often wonder why the divorce rate in the US is at 50%, right?
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Post by Jiren on Oct 1, 2009 20:10:36 GMT -5
Where I live liking what I like is a death Sentence when it comes to females.
- Comics - Anime - Crap films - 80's Cartoons - Horror movies - Wrestling
And I'm NOT joking about that, I'd up and leave but money is tight.
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Post by Dangery Scubba on Oct 1, 2009 20:10:50 GMT -5
I've got to mini-rant.....being single really isn't that bad, I mean I have been since January after a 3 year relationship and to be quite honest, I've had a LOT of fun with it. I mean I don't have to worry about what somebody else might think of my actions, I don't have to worry about 'doing something I might regret' when I'm a little too drunk. I don't have to worry about saying something even slightly out of turn. Seriously, people, relationships are over-rated, I mean I would much rather be single than be one of those people who jumps from relationship to relationship with a matter of weeks in between, no wonder none of them work. Also, people in loveless relationships, you know they have a house together, but it's too much of a hassle to break-up and they can't be bothered to meet new people etc. Far, far too many people in my opinion force themselves into relationships either because they are terrified of being alone, or for some reason afraid of the stigma that comes with being single. I mean, if somebody comes along and I get to know them and it feels 'right' that's all well and good but I have zero plans to actually go out and search for somebody. I honestly can't think of anything worse, well, okay I probably could but you get my point. Seriously, being single is an opportunity to do the things you want to do, you want to sit on Wrestlecrap and shoot the s***? go ahead do it, you want to watch all the Die Hards back to back whilst eating the left-overs of last night's takeaway? Why not? You want to go out and party with your friends and not have to worry about getting up early the next day to go to visit your other halves relatives who doesn't even know your name? Who's going to stop you? Finally......dates, oh dates, this is the last thing I'd ever want to do (see I thought of something worse!), I mean dates in the conventional sense, especially if it's your first time meeting someone, go out and spend what is most likely to be 3 of the most uncomfortable hours of your life with somebody you might have nothing in common with. NO....THANK....YOU. And I'm done You just brought a tear of joy to my eye. Things like these are reasons why I'm so hesitant to get into relationships that I'm not mostly sure will at least pan out decently, even if they don't last forever. There are TONS of perks to being single, as long as one can get over the "stigma" of singleness or not spend time obsessing over having to be in a relationship. Honestly, it's far, far, FAR better to not be in a relationship than it is to just take whatever comes your way. So many people are obsessed with not being alone that, like you said, they'll just not break up due to "inconvenience", and we often wonder why the divorce rate in the US is at 50%, right? I just love loving and being loved back. And being cuddled. So to me all the downfalls of trying to find someone is worth it.
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Post by HMARK Center on Oct 1, 2009 20:19:50 GMT -5
You just brought a tear of joy to my eye. Things like these are reasons why I'm so hesitant to get into relationships that I'm not mostly sure will at least pan out decently, even if they don't last forever. There are TONS of perks to being single, as long as one can get over the "stigma" of singleness or not spend time obsessing over having to be in a relationship. Honestly, it's far, far, FAR better to not be in a relationship than it is to just take whatever comes your way. So many people are obsessed with not being alone that, like you said, they'll just not break up due to "inconvenience", and we often wonder why the divorce rate in the US is at 50%, right? I just love loving and being loved back. And being cuddled. So to me all the downfalls of trying to find someone is worth it. There's nothing wrong with that, but it does become unhealthy in many cases when it's just, let's call it, "cuddling for cuddling's sake". Trust me, it's not like I'm TRYING to stay single all of the time, but, and this is just me, I have no desire to get into something beyond a physical/fun relationship with somebody unless I'm really sure it's somebody I could happily make some sort of stronger commitment to.
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Post by Dangery Scubba on Oct 1, 2009 20:27:20 GMT -5
I just love loving and being loved back. And being cuddled. So to me all the downfalls of trying to find someone is worth it. There's nothing wrong with that, but it does become unhealthy in many cases when it's just, let's call it, "cuddling for cuddling's sake". Trust me, it's not like I'm TRYING to stay single all of the time, but, and this is just me, I have no desire to get into something beyond a physical/fun relationship with somebody unless I'm really sure it's somebody I could happily make some sort of stronger commitment to. I know what you're saying. I'm just one of those romantic types.
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Post by Vampiro138 on Oct 1, 2009 22:00:34 GMT -5
im a very shy type of person....and im into comic books, video games, old horror movies, and various types of music....i kept saying that "ill meet somebody at the comic con" and well...that didnt happen.......least i got was a cup of coffee with lori "tank girl" petty..... That's pretty awesome, although I think I'd probably remember her from the Superman cartoon or Point Break, but that's just my personal preference. She looking good these days? she looks about the same, a few wrinkles but still about the same, she is 40 i believe, and im 23...but it was a nice cup of coffee, i could listen to her talk all day actually, she has that harley quinn type of voice. it was just us talking about music and some different films that we like, she was really into the fact that one of the venders at the convention was selling the complete series of daria. also shes apparently a big elastica fan. so if that 20 minute coffee with her counts as a date..then thats the first one ive had in about a year....and has been my last as well. my cousin lindsay went farther with x - pac then i did with lori...linds actually kissed x - pac...
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Post by HMARK Center on Oct 1, 2009 22:02:50 GMT -5
There's nothing wrong with that, but it does become unhealthy in many cases when it's just, let's call it, "cuddling for cuddling's sake". Trust me, it's not like I'm TRYING to stay single all of the time, but, and this is just me, I have no desire to get into something beyond a physical/fun relationship with somebody unless I'm really sure it's somebody I could happily make some sort of stronger commitment to. I know what you're saying. I'm just one of those romantic types. Hah, really, deep down, so am I, but that's probably what makes me fear getting into a relationship that isn't made to last; I hate that feeling when you know it really isn't going to work, but when it ends up getting to the romantic stuff, I can be a sucker for some of it.
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Post by Vampiro138 on Oct 1, 2009 22:11:41 GMT -5
im a romantic type as well, a few years ago i was dating this woman and i was super into the romance, i would take her out to eat at nice resturaunts....and then one day we went to go see bobcat goldthwait....in which after the show she tells me that she has to break up with me and i ask her why and she said "his routine deeply offended me and i cant possibly be with somebody who supports THAT kind of comedy" .....sooo the lesson learned....Bobcat Goldthwait = relationship killer
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Post by Mozenrath on Oct 1, 2009 22:14:29 GMT -5
im a romantic type as well, a few years ago i was dating this woman and i was super into the romance, i would take her out to eat at nice resturaunts....and then one day we went to go see bobcat goldthwait....in which after the show she tells me that she has to break up with me and i ask her why and she said "his routine deeply offended me and i cant possibly be with somebody who supports THAT kind of comedy" .....sooo the lesson learned....Bobcat Goldthwait = relationship killer Pffft, what a wet blanket that woman is. It's a good thing she broke up with you then, and not later over you eating the last grape or saying her favorite Smurf was not in your top 5 blue people.
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Post by Dangery Scubba on Oct 1, 2009 22:17:06 GMT -5
I know what you're saying. I'm just one of those romantic types. Hah, really, deep down, so am I, but that's probably what makes me fear getting into a relationship that isn't made to last; I hate that feeling when you know it really isn't going to work, but when it ends up getting to the romantic stuff, I can be a sucker for some of it. I'm of the mindset that if a relationship isn't going to work and fails, it just opens up more possibilities to find one that will. Yeah, you despise the feeling while the things going down. But, if that's what's gonna happen you might as well throw on a parachute and get ready for the right time to bail cause I guarantee your "other's" doing the exact same thing.
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