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Post by FUNK_US/BRODUS on Apr 26, 2011 21:26:27 GMT -5
She is too into her ex boyfriend, and has little respect for your feelings.
You come across as needy, clingy, obsessive and desperate, which is possibly the reason she chased after her ex in the first place. This relationship was doomed to fail.
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Post by Realtalk on Apr 26, 2011 21:27:38 GMT -5
Umm I've not been going off with other girls I've been up front. The friend with the same name wasn't even something I thought about intil now. I told her that last week and the fake profile had a name sounding similar yet I didn't even realise before going for the add.
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Post by Mr. Emoticon Man, TF Fan on Apr 26, 2011 21:29:40 GMT -5
She first got talking to me through FB after I gave it to her at work, I assumed she knew my surname. I wish I could get rid of her....It's just her personality and look......can't shake it. If her charisma is up there. Tit and ass and loves video games. So f***ing cool despite this crap. She has let every little thing get between us though, like weeks back when I told her this guy at work was telling me she was calling him, she got all defensive and told me how she doesn't have to explain herself to anyone. Prior to this, just days before she was literally sucking my knob verbally through txt, saying how much she missed me. It was ON right there and then intil I mentioned that guy and we haven't been the same since. That lead to her bring up how she just wanted to be friends and nothing else. It was BS, week prior she was ON IT. Wait, wait, wait... when exactly did she tell you that she just wanted to be friends? Before your efforts at being a spy, or after?
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Post by LCR, Formerly Blue Nova on Apr 26, 2011 21:32:45 GMT -5
I'm amazed that all this crap apparently happened in the matter of 2 months.
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Post by Realtalk on Apr 26, 2011 21:33:04 GMT -5
About 12 days ago she said she wanted friendship was blunt as hell but she continued to call me day after day and give me lifts to work and back and starting acting like she had changed her mind about the whole thing.
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Post by LCR, Formerly Blue Nova on Apr 26, 2011 21:36:38 GMT -5
She first got talking to me through FB after I gave it to her at work, I assumed she knew my surname. I wish I could get rid of her....It's just her personality and look......can't shake it. If her charisma is up there. Tit and ass and loves video games. So f***ing cool despite this crap. She has let every little thing get between us though, like weeks back when I told her this guy at work was telling me she was calling him, she got all defensive and told me how she doesn't have to explain herself to anyone. Prior to this, just days before she was literally sucking my knob verbally through txt, saying how much she missed me. It was ON right there and then intil I mentioned that guy and we haven't been the same since. That lead to her bring up how she just wanted to be friends and nothing else. It was BS, week prior she was ON IT. I tell friends I haven't seen in a while that I miss them via text. That does not mean, though, that I would like to perform fellatio on them. She does not have to explain herself to anyone. If you were not clearly officially boyfriend/girlfriend exclusive, then you have no right to be upset unless you had some crazy expectations. Reading throughout this thread, it appears that was the case.
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Post by LCR, Formerly Blue Nova on Apr 26, 2011 21:37:54 GMT -5
About 12 days ago she said she wanted friendship was blunt as hell but she continued to call me day after day and give me lifts to work and back and starting acting like she had changed her mind about the whole thing. /facepalm I give friends rides to work all the time and call them too. Why? BECAUSE WE'RE FRIENDS. Just because a girl does something nice for a guy =/= she wants to date/have a relationship with/sleep with them. Apologies for the multi-post. :/
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Post by Realtalk on Apr 26, 2011 21:38:36 GMT -5
I said to her I wasn't asking her to explain but she felt all like she had too. I brought it up casually and said how the guy was saying crap but I could tell he was exagerrating. The was is the ugliest tool at work and was just trying to get between us and he did just that.
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Post by Andrew is Good on Apr 26, 2011 21:40:18 GMT -5
About 12 days ago she said she wanted friendship was blunt as hell but she continued to call me day after day and give me lifts to work and back and starting acting like she had changed her mind about the whole thing. It's so eerie, as I've had this same issue. She really does just want to be friends, even though it looks like it's something different. Whatever you do, don't spend a preposterous amount of money on her.
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Post by funkycoldmadina on Apr 26, 2011 21:40:27 GMT -5
I'm gonna be blunt here man. You've got some maturity issues with relationships. If it isn't happening, it isn't happening. If you have to "work things out" at 2 months, or have any type of trouble really...it doesn't bode well for the long term. It definitely sounds like if she was interested, you gave off vibes of control, neediness and jealousy, whether intended or not. Accept that you're her friend, if you want to be, and move on. One more thing, for the love of all things sacred, don't stalk someone on Facebook.
I'm just sayin man, first, I wouldn't be going through all of this trouble for any gal. She's not that amazing, I promise. Second, you sound like you haven't been in many serious relationships and like you're desparate for one to get serious ASAP. You have to tone that down. The only chicks that want to get serious enough where a guy can ask them why they are talking to another guy in that short of a period of time are usually pretty nutty anyway.
One last thing, if she wasn't actually sucking my "knob" as you call it, instead of verbally, I sure as hell wouldn't be worrying about her, her ex, or anything else with all this trouble. Scratch that, even if she was, I'd go get it somewhere else instead without the hassle.
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Post by The Booty Disciple on Apr 26, 2011 21:41:10 GMT -5
Wait, is this the same girl from the other thread deal? Seriously? Something literal can't be verbal and vise versa. Maybe he meant "through text" as in "through texting," like she was texting at the same time. Kind of like you can talk through eating... As far as verbal, if that quote was as literal as he's trying to describe, I doubt the verbal part was very articulate.
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Post by Realtalk on Apr 26, 2011 21:42:22 GMT -5
Well we had already been on date and made out and she had given me plenty of signs of interest anyway. It's only recently she has backed off.
Do you guys think if she knows it's me then I'm done?
I really don't want to keep on ringing her if she thinks that, and but I obviously don't want to break up either.
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Post by The Ichi on Apr 26, 2011 21:42:43 GMT -5
I read this as "sprayed on my girl"...
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Post by The Booty Disciple on Apr 26, 2011 21:43:25 GMT -5
Well, jeeze. I think I'm done here. The OP is going to twist this as many ways as he wants to make himself appear the victim at present, regardless of our objective and honest opinions on the situation. We offer up a differing way think about things that might give some insight, and he rationalizes things away.
We're not going to win here, ladies and gentleman. You can lead a horse to water, but the horse will still crap on the garden hose.
It bears repeating...
Never try to teach a pig to sing. It's a waste of time, and it annoys the pig.
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Post by Kevin Hamilton on Apr 26, 2011 21:44:27 GMT -5
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Post by Andrew is Good on Apr 26, 2011 21:46:14 GMT -5
Well we had already been on date and made out and she had given me plenty of signs of interest anyway. It's only recently she has backed off. Do you guys think if she knows it's me then I'm done? I really don't want to keep on ringing her if she thinks that, and but I obviously don't want to break up either. Done like dinner. Like, getting the cops after you and getting a restraining order done.
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Post by LCR, Formerly Blue Nova on Apr 26, 2011 21:46:29 GMT -5
Well we had already been on date and made out and she had given me plenty of signs of interest anyway. It's only recently she has backed off. Do you guys think if she knows it's me then I'm done? I really don't want to keep on ringing her if she thinks that, and but I obviously don't want to break up either. Wow! One whole date? AND a make out session? Well, that changes ever--- no it doesn't. My point still stands. She's backed off. Give it up and move the f*** on already.
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Post by Realtalk on Apr 26, 2011 21:48:38 GMT -5
It's not about being a victim. It's simply about me pissing about with a fake account I've had for three years. It would of been kind of interesting to see but I doubt it would of made me change my opinion on her. I already know she is a flirt and lots of guys want her. I don't think she is a slut either that's why I like her nature/personality of kind of childlike. She just was with a douchebag for 5 years and is a bit screwed up, maybe it's the wrong time but we really gel when we are in eachothers company.
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Post by Andrew is Good on Apr 26, 2011 21:49:42 GMT -5
Well, jeeze. I think I'm done here. The OP is going to twist this as many ways as he wants to make himself appear the victim at present, regardless of our objective and honest opinions on the situation. We offer up a differing way think about things that might give some insight, and he rationalizes things away. We're not going to win here, ladies and gentleman. You can lead a horse to water, but the horse will still crap on the garden hose. It bears repeating... Never try to teach a pig to sing. It's a waste of time, and it annoys the pig. To be fair, I've had a similar situation, and people would tell me the same thing, and I'd rationalize it away. Logic doesn't get through. At all. It's a wall, and I'm not trying to be insulting, I know, and others probably know too. There is no reasoning with someone in that situation.
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Post by LCR, Formerly Blue Nova on Apr 26, 2011 21:52:31 GMT -5
It's not about being a victim. It's simply about me pissing about with a fake account I've had for three years. It would of been kind of interesting to see but I doubt it would of made me change my opinion on her. I already she is a flirt and lots of guys want her. I don't think she is a slut either that's why I like her nature/personality of kind of childlike. She just was with a douchebag for 5 years and is a bit screwed up, maybe it's the wrong time but we really gel when we are in eachothers company. Except she thinks you're a creeper and she has given you the 20 ft. high day glo orange "I'm done!" and you're not taking the hints. Dude, you creeped her ex-boyfriend's page and then went and friended her on a fake account. That isn't "pissing about" -- that is some scary ass creeper stuff that are violations of personal boundaries and trust, especially when she made it clear that she wanted to be friends. After you showed you couldn't deal and adapt (because you had all of one date), she totally threw up all the "I'm really trying not to be brutal to you but go away" signs and you just keep on trying. GIVE. IT. UP.
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