Malcolm
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Post by Malcolm on Jun 21, 2014 15:23:47 GMT -5
It's definitely in how people were raised. Some people think of sex as an almost spiritual act, for others it's simply a pleasurable biological function. I'm in the latter. What about the ones who think of it as some sort of game?
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Post by Deleted on Jun 21, 2014 16:12:33 GMT -5
I don't know about others, but I'm in no hurry, and those who say I should lose my virginity ASAP make me just want to wait even longer.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 21, 2014 16:13:56 GMT -5
I don't know about others, but I'm in no hurry, and those who say I should lose my virginity ASAP make me just want to wait even longer. I'd agree with this as well. I'd rather save myself for someone I care about than have it over and done with.
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Post by Mister Pigwell on Jun 21, 2014 16:15:53 GMT -5
Y'all are mostly different from my view point here apparently... I'm of the if it feels good do it mentality and getting your swirl on sure feels damn good.
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Post by Toxik916 on Jun 21, 2014 16:18:40 GMT -5
Do whatever you want to do man, but in the mean time thanks for putting yourself on the bench and leaving it open for dudes like me to score.
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Post by agent817 on Jun 21, 2014 16:22:34 GMT -5
The question in my mind is this: Why do some people care if someone isn't getting any? I've experienced having been given crap for that. Not to mention that I have been also been given crap by a girl for it, especially one who I was sort of talking to.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 21, 2014 16:29:04 GMT -5
Y'all are mostly different from my view point here apparently... I'm of the if it feels good do it mentality and getting your swirl on sure feels damn good. Cornfed, you do know that "getting your swirl on" specifically refers to sex between a white person and a black person right, not sex in general?
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Post by Mister Pigwell on Jun 21, 2014 16:30:12 GMT -5
The question in my mind is this: Why do some people care if someone isn't getting any? I've experienced having been given crap for that. Not to mention that I have been also been given crap by a girl for it, especially one who I was sort of talking to. Another way of saying chill out basically. I'm not sure it's so much as someone "caring" that you're f***ing anyone or not but more of a suggestion on how to get ya to chill out ya know? Whether it's true or not that getting laid improves your life-outlook & disposition I don't know and don't care enough to either Google or form a scientific test of my own (mostly because I'm lazy and don't own a white Scientist lab coat) but I do know when I'm getting it I'm sure as hell in a better mood and far less grouchy. But that's just me, not you, I don't make a habit of asking grumpy people if they got any the night before. In fact logically that whole mindset has to be false. Sean said something earlier that is similar to one of my life outlooks that I call the 10k rule. Yeah money doesn't make you happy but you take ANY SITUATION in life and add 10k to it and that situation is just a bit better ya know? Same with sex in my eyes. Dog died? Here's 10k, I feel sad about my dog but at least I can buy that new washer and dryer. You won a million dollars in the lottery? Oh here's 10k more just because you're a handsome beast. Hey awesome. Lost a toe in a wood planer accident? Well luckily the company will pay you 10k in compensation. I'd sure be a lot madder without that. Same thing to me.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 21, 2014 16:30:25 GMT -5
It's definitely in how people were raised. Some people think of sex as an almost spiritual act, for others it's simply a pleasurable biological function. I'm in the latter. What about the ones who think of it as some sort of game? Depends. If you mean having fun with the sex acts, great! If you mean playing with someone's emotional connections gained during intimacy... not so good.
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Post by Mister Pigwell on Jun 21, 2014 16:31:01 GMT -5
Y'all are mostly different from my view point here apparently... I'm of the if it feels good do it mentality and getting your swirl on sure feels damn good. Cornfed, you do know that "getting your swirl on" specifically refers to sex between a white person and a black person right, not sex in general? It's whatever I refer to it as.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 21, 2014 16:33:14 GMT -5
Cornfed, you do know that "getting your swirl on" specifically refers to sex between a white person and a black person right, not sex in general? It's whatever I refer to it as. Fair enough man, fair enough.
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Post by Mister Pigwell on Jun 21, 2014 16:33:30 GMT -5
What about the ones who think of it as some sort of game? Depends. If you mean having fun with the sex acts, great! If you mean playing with someone's emotional connections gained during intimacy... not so good. This is true. The latter there is just a form of emotional abuse and ain't noone want to put up with that.
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Post by Milkman Norm on Jun 21, 2014 17:09:24 GMT -5
Y'all are mostly different from my view point here apparently... I'm of the if it feels good do it mentality and getting your swirl on sure feels damn good. I agree completely. Be able to have consensual sex on a regular bases is superior to not being able to. But as far as the OP and this topic in general goes I think that working on ones self be it physically, emotionally, professionally so that one can be more Zen and relaxed when going out or trying to met people is far superior to the "gotta get laid, gotta get laid" anxiety ridden attitude. That attitude imo leads the person futher away from sex than closer to it.
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Post by CATCH_US IS the Conversation on Jun 21, 2014 17:33:14 GMT -5
It's whatever I refer to it as. Fair enough man, fair enough. My favorite kind of swirl.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 21, 2014 17:34:56 GMT -5
I'm still lost on why do people give a shit if they aren't the ones trying to get their swerve on with you?
Granted, Hit Girl literally answered this question but still...
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Post by psychokiller on Jun 21, 2014 17:35:46 GMT -5
I could of had sex last summer with some girl I was talking to on one of the dating sites. It seems she was really into me, & actually invited me over to her house before we ever even met. The thing that kind of turned me off though is that she was still having sex with her ex & someone else. But said I would become exclusive to her since she really liked me. I just got kind of turned off that, but I still for some reason still regret it to this day.
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Post by Brandon Walsh is Insane. on Jun 21, 2014 19:19:05 GMT -5
It's whatever I refer to it as. Fair enough man, fair enough. Swirl... Swirl!
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Post by Brood Lone Wolf Funker on Jun 21, 2014 19:29:10 GMT -5
This is hard for me to talk about but it helps to get it off my chest. Sex is something that is hard for me to even talk about because of things that have happened to me, if I am in a relationship with a person I will explain it to them and hope they are patient and understanding if not I will try and not be a jerk and explain I don't feel comfortable yet. In a relationship both parties should be ready to take that leap because intimacy is the greatest thing if both people are ready because you are putting yourself on a whole new connection with that person
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Post by HMARK Center on Jun 21, 2014 19:31:57 GMT -5
I could of had sex last summer with some girl I was talking to on one of the dating sites. It seems she was really into me, & actually invited me over to her house before we ever even met. The thing that kind of turned me off though is that she was still having sex with her ex & someone else. But said I would become exclusive to her since she really liked me. I just got kind of turned off that, but I still for some reason still regret it to this day. Well, at the very least you got a chance to learn something about yourself: what you like/dislike in a partner, and how you feel concerning stuff like what she seemed to be into. Now you have that knowledge for the future. A big thing here, besides the whole "improve yourself/learn about yourself first, the sexy time will come (heh heh heh) later" thing, is also to make peace with the notion that, sometimes, you DO just want to get laid, and sometimes you'll wind up making choices you may look back on with regret. If you do? Congratulations, and welcome to the population of "Just About Everybody Who Has Ever Lived in the History of Forever". We've got a culture that not only ties too much of our self-worth to sex, but also presents sex and self-confidence as things you should be a master at immediately; after all, in the movies we never see James Bond going this his "awkward phase" where he's learning how to speak to women, and the hot women in your average college comedy always seem 100% sexually self-aware and confident. Learn to accept screwing up now and then, just do your best to avoid hurting others along the way. ...This thread is becoming a steady reminder that my girlfriend has been visiting her friends in Canada for the past week, and I might be going a tad stir crazy, to put it one way.
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Post by G✇JI☈A on Jun 21, 2014 19:40:59 GMT -5
I have to agree. Didn't always. But recently I have taken Stephen Fry's approach to sex... I'm not a homosexual. But Fry has this attitude that he just doesn't give a f*** about sex.. He thinks the process of trying to get a laid are in his words "a dreadful bore".
I have to agree. Sex is just not on my priorities list, trying to get sex if your not in a relationship can drain you emotionally and fiancially. But If a nice woman wants to have sex with me.. By all means, who am I to turn them down.
Just saying I'm perfectly happy where I am.
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