Malcolm
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Post by Malcolm on Jun 20, 2014 17:07:21 GMT -5
"You need to get laid!"
"Get a life and get laid!"
"You're a virgin? Lol!"
What is with people? It's always sex sex sex sex! Mention you like someone? They think you want to have sex with them? Mention you have hobbies? You need to get laid instead! Why is society filled with a bunch of perverted sex-crazed nimrods who think the answer to everything is sex? I'm getting really sick of it.
And before anyone tries to make some smartass comment, no I do NOT need to get laid. I'm not even interested in any type of relationship right now whether it be sexual or platonic. I'm a virgin but that is the least of my worries right now.
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Post by Display Name on Jun 20, 2014 17:13:26 GMT -5
You don't care about sex because you've never had it.That's understandable.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 20, 2014 17:14:33 GMT -5
Sex = good.
Not having sex = not good.
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Post by Hit Girl on Jun 20, 2014 17:16:34 GMT -5
"You need to get laid!" "Get a life and get laid!" "You're a virgin? Lol!" What is with people? It's always sex sex sex sex! Mention you like someone? They think you want to have sex with them? Mention you have hobbies? You need to get laid instead! Why is society filled with a bunch of perverted sex-crazed nimrods who think the answer to everything is sex? I'm getting really sick of it. And before anyone tries to make some smartass comment, no I do NOT need to get laid. I'm not even interested in any type of relationship right now whether it be sexual or platonic. I'm a virgin but that is the least of my worries right now. Because much of society is patriarchal, and sexual experience is linked with masculinity. If a male doesn't conform, other males feel the need to mock them, possibly covering for their own lack of sexual experience. A lot of mockery tends to be projection based on issues of deflection. It's up to individuals how to react. Some feel bad, some don't give a shit. |
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Post by Deleted on Jun 20, 2014 17:26:56 GMT -5
I'd say stop hanging out with 14 year olds. That should fix your problems.
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Sephiroth
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Post by Sephiroth on Jun 20, 2014 17:31:32 GMT -5
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Malcolm
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Post by Malcolm on Jun 20, 2014 17:32:20 GMT -5
I'd say stop hanging out with 14 year olds. That should fix your problems. So I should stop using the internet for prolonged periods... That wasn't an insult to this forum. You guys are awesome. It's when I leave the forums and google search... |
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Post by Deleted on Jun 20, 2014 17:35:24 GMT -5
I'd say stop hanging out with 14 year olds. That should fix your problems. So I should stop using the internet for prolonged periods... My answer to that will always be "YES" - being on the net for prolonged periods is always a bad idea. |
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Post by Milkman Norm on Jun 20, 2014 17:36:10 GMT -5
Tell those asshats that there's nothing wrong with you, you'll have sex when you damn well please and that it's none of their business. If these are your friends I'd strongly consider assessing your relationships with them.
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Post by Amazing Kitsune on Jun 20, 2014 17:47:48 GMT -5
It's a big deal because it's something that we're sold from a very young age to be the pinnacle of human existence. It also helps sell almost everything. To a certain level, people are brainwashed about it.
And, for what it's worth, it's an amazing experience when you're ready for it. Be that as it may, the sun still rises the next day.
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Post by chazraps on Jun 20, 2014 18:01:07 GMT -5
So I should stop using the internet for prolonged periods... My answer to that will always be "YES" - being on the net for prolonged periods is always a bad idea. Exactly. Plus, one's sexuality is the most private and personal thing they should always have control over. If you're choosing not to have sex, that's you making a choice for yourself and nobody can really judge you for it. |
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King Ghidorah
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Post by King Ghidorah on Jun 20, 2014 18:24:13 GMT -5
As a doctor, I highly recommend sex
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The Unconquered Sun
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Post by The Unconquered Sun on Jun 20, 2014 18:28:24 GMT -5
It's none of their DAMN business what you do with your body! You're the one who's responsible for your own life so don't let somebody else's issues drag you down to their level.
If you're ok with who you are and what you do, than my brother feel free to keep your head up with pride and sleep well at night 'cause you're better than most people.
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Post by Push R Truth on Jun 20, 2014 18:40:56 GMT -5
Just do what 87% of everybody else did when they were younger and lie about having it and move into talking about something else.
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Sephiroth
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Post by Sephiroth on Jun 20, 2014 18:57:37 GMT -5
Just do what 87% of everybody else did when they were younger and lie about having it and move into talking about something else. I never lied about it. I happy boasted of my many late nights with the Palm Twins. |
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Post by Deleted on Jun 20, 2014 19:11:02 GMT -5
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Post by Dave the Dave on Jun 20, 2014 19:17:25 GMT -5
Sadly some people obsess over it.
I have sad, lonely friends that are only thinking about sex and I try to tell them that if they look for more in a person A.)Likely the sex will be better and B.) You won't be as obsessed with it.
I wasn't super worried about not being a virgin, but it bothered me. Now that I'm not, sex is just a bonus to being with someone great. If it stops being the goal I think relationships become easier.
Just my two cents. I doubt it helps you. Sounds like you know idiots like me who go through OKCupid like "Well this girl might be fat, but I like everything else about her. Oh hey, look at this vapid idiot wuth big boobs?"
I'm off point. Sex is great. Have it sooner than later if you can because it's NOT as big a deal as anyone makes it out to be. The consequence of it are yes, but the actual act isn't. It's fun and a great connection but don't worry about it.
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Post by ToyfareMark on Jun 20, 2014 21:15:32 GMT -5
Ask this man He'd be too busy snorting cocaine... Most people who tell you that you need to get laid all the time are simply projecting what they are thinking about themselves on to you. By saying that stuff to you, they are really saying it to themselves, but the person being addressed is the scapegoat to sooth their ego. I realized a long time ago that people who talk about sex constantly are people that aren't getting it, or at least not getting it on a fairly regular basis. I have a prime example of this. The store I'm a manager at had a stocker a few years ago, he aged from 17 to 20 while he was there, and was a virgin the entire time. But all he could ever talk about was girls he had the hots for, and what he wanted to do them, yet he had no courage to go talk to any of the pretty girls who worked in our store. I kept pressuring him to go talk to them if he liked them, but he wouldn't have any of it, and I still had to endure listening to his sex fantasies. Eventually I got tired of it, and so I would start telling him about the most taboo, disgusting sex acts I could. I only mentioned what they involved, I didn't turn them into fantasy scenarios of other girls in the store. But anyway, whenever this kid started going on about a conquest he'd never achieve, I'd tell him about some disgusting sex act that would have him on the verge of throwing up, and that shut him up... At least for that particular day. So my advice would be this, if someone is harassing you about your sex life, simply call them out on theirs. The longer it takes them to answer, the bigger the lie. |
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Post by Milkman Norm on Jun 20, 2014 21:57:46 GMT -5
The very idea of "getting laid" is so misogynistic and heterocentric that it kind of offends me but that's another topic.
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Post by ibdude on Jun 20, 2014 21:59:57 GMT -5
Just f*** people man (pun not intended). Your sex life is nobody's business but yours. If somebody is giving you shit for it just ignore them.
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