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Post by Heavenly Blues on Jun 10, 2006 23:47:22 GMT -5
It's so tough getting dates with a ugly face. I didn't choose to be so ugly. I just wanted to vent after being turned down again. "You have a great personality" is a kind way to say, "I'm going to vomit, now after looking at you"...ah, well.
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Post by 2 time pro bowler Fred Dryer on Jun 10, 2006 23:49:39 GMT -5
I wouldn't know. But hey, sucks to be you man, sorry. (Have you tried asking out ugly, desperate girls?)
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Post by Corporate H on Jun 10, 2006 23:50:59 GMT -5
Prove it...that you're ugly, I mean.
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Post by KStrick on Jun 10, 2006 23:51:03 GMT -5
its true...  Being a ginger kid doesn't help much either. The only women who like red heads are in their late 60's and above... |
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Post by amsiraK on Jun 10, 2006 23:52:16 GMT -5
Not true. Redheads are sexy.
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Post by KStrick on Jun 10, 2006 23:54:32 GMT -5
Not true. Redheads are sexy. I cry baldercrap. Heck, I don't even find redhead girls attractive, so its only fair. ..then again, I get ripped all the time for being one of those "disney movie" people who looks for the person's personality, not caring about how they look thing... |
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Post by stamponsteriods on Jun 10, 2006 23:55:18 GMT -5
I agree some redheads are very sexy , and dude don't worry about being "ugly" because believe it or not not every women out there is just looking for the hottest guy alive. Some do go for personality.
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Post by Kevin Hamilton on Jun 10, 2006 23:57:44 GMT -5
Disney movie people? Do you break into song with anthropomorphic animals and or household objects at the drop of a hat? Cuz that's pretty sweet.
There are all kinds of things you can do to improve the situation appearance wise ( and I'm not talking plastic surgery or anything that drastic) it can be as simple as clothing, the way you carry yourself etc.
And confidence always always always wins. trust me.
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Post by Millie D on Jun 11, 2006 0:00:03 GMT -5
I feel ur pain man..i feel ugly all day long cuz when i look into a mirror i see ugliness not the beauty within..which is what we all need to focus on....cuz its not all about looks.if soem people think it is all about looks they are shallow
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Post by jfbop37 on Jun 11, 2006 0:01:10 GMT -5
Not true. Redheads are sexy. indeed  |
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Post by Kevin Hamilton on Jun 11, 2006 0:02:23 GMT -5
Once again, there's a lot to be said for feeling you're attractive translating to attractiveness to the outside world.
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Post by superfoe on Jun 11, 2006 0:03:33 GMT -5
I totally agree. Try acting like a cocky ass for a while, thinking you're better than everyone else. Seriously, nothing is better for your own appearance.
Edit: and seriously, is that buddy's first post on the board?
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Post by KStrick on Jun 11, 2006 0:08:52 GMT -5
Disney movie people? Do you break into song with anthropomorphic animals and or household objects at the drop of a hat? Cuz that's pretty sweet. There are all kinds of things you can do to improve the situation appearance wise ( and I'm not talking plastic surgery or anything that drastic) it can be as simple as clothing, the way you carry yourself etc. No, but I'm waiting for that day. However, I was working on an animated web series for people I work with, and one of the payoff jokes is that the main character always wondered why no one broke out into song and dance... and when it finally happens, he doesn't show up until the whole thing is over... |
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Post by Citizen Snips Has Left on Jun 11, 2006 0:11:49 GMT -5
its true... Being a ginger kid doesn't help much either. The only women who like red heads are in their late 60's and above... Ya gotta buzz it, providing you've got a good head shape for shaving. I'm not total ginger, I'm in the "daywalker" camp, so my red locks can grow out long and flowing. But I still shave it. The girls can't keep they hands off that rough n' tough Irish Red fuzz. There's your free tip o' the day. |
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Post by Kevin Hamilton on Jun 11, 2006 0:15:10 GMT -5
I'm a blonde dude, no daywalker stuff for me ya gingers. um I mean people of red-haired descent Yup that should be PC enough.
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Post by KStrick on Jun 11, 2006 0:15:59 GMT -5
its true... Being a ginger kid doesn't help much either. The only women who like red heads are in their late 60's and above... Ya gotta buzz it, providing you've got a good head shape for shaving. I'm not total ginger, I'm in the "daywalker" camp, so my red locks can grow out long and flowing. But I still shave it. The girls can't keep they hands off that rough n' tough Irish Red fuzz. There's your free tip o' the day. No way, dude. I lost a bet last year over baseball (who would win the AL Central), and had to shave it all off. HORRIBLE look. I like my hair. Heck, I get in trouble for it being "out of regulations". But, the point is, I am NEVER shaving my head bald. I'd rather have a bad comb over than be shaven bald... |
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Post by Deleted on Jun 11, 2006 0:26:02 GMT -5
It's so tough getting dates with a ugly face. I didn't choose to be so ugly. I just wanted to vent after being turned down again. "You have a great personality" is a kind way to say, "I'm going to vomit, now after looking at you"...ah, well. You need some Red Stripe beer. It's the beer in the short, ugly, stubby bottle. Ugly people who stand next to a Red Stripe look beautiful. Red Stripe... it's beer. Hooray Beer! ;D |
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Post by narniah on Jun 11, 2006 0:44:28 GMT -5
First off, Random you're not ugly. You most likely didn't get turned down because of how you look. It would be your attitude. Looks are like...enjioyable eye candy. What is going to make a girl like you is if you like yourself. I am a girl, the guy I want is a celebrity for chrissakes! Everyone tells me he doesn't know I exist. All I can do is be myself, improve what I can about myself and let him know me. And fact is,I want this guy so bad....I mean, I desrve him and he deserves me. But, most chicks wants him because he is such a terriffic guy on the inside and because he is the sweetest,gentlest and considerate guy. He accepts everyone and is friendly. I am learning to be like him. He is handsome as hell and the best part is that he is so good hearted you can't resist him if you are a chick! Can't help that I am how I am about him. I am learning to like myself though and that means doing things to improve,setting goals and achieving them.
Do yourself a favor.....don't sit around saying," It's so tough getting dates with an ugly face".....or "I didn't choose to be so ugly" since that won't help you at all. I have yet to have a guy I like tell me,"You have a great personality"......hell, I don't attract guys. Don't choose to because the guy I want won't be with me unless he decides to and until then, I am staying single and improving myself in order to find out who the hell I am and give him a chance to know me. I don't know how to go about it but whatever it takes.....I would rather give myself every opprotunity to be in a relationship with him than not do so. I don't expect a guy to be dissing himself because if he does he needs to treat himself special and just be friends with girls until he finds the right woman to be with.
Ask the girls you are attracted to out. I have asked the guy
I adore out.....but he is super busy and travels constantly. I don't know how to get him to want to be with me....guess he hasn't time but I can do what I say I will and be myself. No more no less, and stay focused on my goals. That is another thing.....set goals that you honsetly want to achieve just for yourself and GO FOR WHAT YOU WANT!!! DO NOT worry about what others think of you.....just have the girl of your dreams in your mind....could be a celebrity or a regular, average looking girl....doesn't matter but you have to go for that girl and believe you will get to be with her no matter what. Don't worry about being turned down, if the girl was so shallow that she wouldn't even give you a chance or even be friends with you it can be because you aren't ready to hook up with anyone just yet. That is b.s. that if a girl says you have a great personality....it is the equivellent of saying "I'm going to vomit, now after looking at you"....and that kind of chick isn't worth a damn anyway and is too stuck up and snobbish. Doesn't suck to be you unless you are going to feel sorry for yourself all day instead of doing fun things that you aren't sure you can do...then doing them and accomplishing something.
Treat others kindly and respectfully, be good to them and don't take it personally when others insult you. Beware of acting arrogant and cocky....girls don't like it and if you do that they will not respect you and will think you are a snob and are judgemental. The guy I want to be with is going to likely have me earn him. Not just hand himself over to me just because I want to be with him. He needs time to get to know me. Even though he doesn't get to spend time with me face to face. He can't right now. He is travelling a lot.
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Post by narniah on Jun 11, 2006 0:54:47 GMT -5
Him travelling constantly can be percieved as him saying "I don't want to be with you","I haven't the time to be in a relationship right now", "You aren t' ready to be with me even though you think you are","I want to wait and find out if you say you will improve, that you keep your word","You aren't the one for me" "You have to show me what you're about before I will decide" and a lot of other things as well........Honestly, it is up to me to do what I can to improve and take it from there.
Drinking isn't cool. It doesn 't help anything @ all anyway!
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Post by superfoe on Jun 11, 2006 0:57:34 GMT -5
Any special reason for the double post?
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