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Post by Deleted on Oct 29, 2006 0:19:36 GMT -5
Why is this a recurring theme in my life? My girlfriend of a month just broke up with me because she insisted that i was "too nice" that the fact that I go out of my way to make her happy drives her away from me. She repeated insists that im "girl like" in the fact that I want to openly expell my emotions. My previous girlfriend of 2 years was exactly the same way in that she kept herself bottled up and it drove me to be even more prone to trying to do whatever it takes to keep her happy...Am i missing something here in the fact that girls really do want a guy that is going to treat them like total hell but still be there or am I just falling into the same trap of dating gorgeous overly superficial girls? by the way this is me  and this is the girl in question  |
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Post by veggietale on Oct 29, 2006 0:20:49 GMT -5
try looking for a girl that doesnt have THE BEST looks.
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Post by Spankymac is sick of the swiss on Oct 29, 2006 0:21:54 GMT -5
Welcome to the club, jack. I'm pretty much in the same boat with women.
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Post by therob on Oct 29, 2006 0:22:45 GMT -5
Nice guys really do finish last. If you want to keep a girl (not all girls are like this but most are) be a dick to them. I am telling you it works.
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Post by SHAKEMASTER TV9 is Don Knotts on Oct 29, 2006 0:23:28 GMT -5
I got the opposite. I never showed how I felt and it bothered them.
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Post by mcclanahan on Oct 29, 2006 0:24:32 GMT -5
Welcome to the club, jack. I'm pretty much in the same boat with women. |
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Post by Allison Reynolds on Oct 29, 2006 0:25:20 GMT -5
From that logic, bad boys finish first.... Sucks for them.  |
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Post by Deleted on Oct 29, 2006 0:28:33 GMT -5
From that logic, bad boys finish first.... Sucks for them. actually not really from my POV winning the race is all that matters... |
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Post by @TenaciousBe on Oct 29, 2006 0:29:34 GMT -5
No offense, maybe it's just the picture, but she looks like a pretentious {pregnant dog cause I liked the old filter better}. I know how you feel, because I've always been the nice guy as well and I seem to get pretty much stepped on and cast away for it. But you know what? You can't change who you are. If you're a nice guy, you're going to be a nice guy regardless. If you can successfully go out there and act a fool and just be a dick, then deep down, you're just a dick. Guys like you and me are what we are, and as painful as it is to sit back and watch everyone else getting the girls, in the long run, we'll get what we deserve. I truly believe that. The world needs guys like us, and eventually, when it's meant to happen, in the right time and place (not always the time and place we want it to be), we'll find that one girl out there who truly appreciates us for who we are.
At least I hope to God I'm right.
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Post by Vice honcho room temperature on Oct 29, 2006 0:31:08 GMT -5
by the way this is me Well maybe if you weren't so blurry in real life. * psst that the way the picture came outOHHHHH never mind. |
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Post by angryfan on Oct 29, 2006 0:31:21 GMT -5
My ex fiance was very similar, although she had the extra added feature of being a boomerang. I proposed but she said no because, yep, "you're too nice of a guy, you pay too much attention to detail". Oh, ok, so I'm a dick because the feelings of the woman I want to marry are important to me? Damn. So, she does what any sensible woman would do, and movies in with a guy she met the week before who happens to live 900 miles away. She's pregnant within three months, and calls me asking if we can still be together.
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Post by Spankymac is sick of the swiss on Oct 29, 2006 0:32:05 GMT -5
No offense, maybe it's just the picture, but she looks like a pretentious {pregnant dog cause I liked the old filter better}. I know how you feel, because I've always been the nice guy as well and I seem to get pretty much stepped on and cast away for it. But you know what? You can't change who you are. If you're a nice guy, you're going to be a nice guy regardless. If you can successfully go out there and act a fool and just be a dick, then deep down, you're just a dick. Guys like you and me are what we are, and as painful as it is to sit back and watch everyone else getting the girls, in the long run, we'll get what we deserve. I truly believe that. The world needs guys like us, and eventually, when it's meant to happen, in the right time and place (not always the time and place we want it to be), we'll find that one girl out there who truly appreciates us for who we are. At least I hope to God I'm right. Now here's a guy with a glass half full view of the world. I like the cut of your jib, good sir, and would like to subscribe to your newsletter. |
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Post by Deleted on Oct 29, 2006 0:32:14 GMT -5
No offense, maybe it's just the picture, but she looks like a pretentious {pregnant dog cause I liked the old filter better}. I know how you feel, because I've always been the nice guy as well and I seem to get pretty much stepped on and cast away for it. But you know what? You can't change who you are. If you're a nice guy, you're going to be a nice guy regardless. If you can successfully go out there and act a fool and just be a dick, then deep down, you're just a dick. Guys like you and me are what we are, and as painful as it is to sit back and watch everyone else getting the girls, in the long run, we'll get what we deserve. I truly believe that. The world needs guys like us, and eventually, when it's meant to happen, in the right time and place (not always the time and place we want it to be), we'll find that one girl out there who truly appreciates us for who we are. At least I hope to God I'm right. and your response was the epitomy of what i was hoping for...thanks bro... |
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Post by therob on Oct 29, 2006 0:33:49 GMT -5
My ex fiance was very similar, although she had the extra added feature of being a boomerang. I proposed but she said no because, yep, "you're too nice of a guy, you pay too much attention to detail". Oh, ok, so I'm a dick because the feelings of the woman I want to marry are important to me? Damn. So, she does what any sensible woman would do, and movies in with a guy she met the week before who happens to live 900 miles away. She's pregnant within three months, and calls me asking if we can still be together. Most girls are crazy man they want the nice guy to be there for them but they dont want to be in the relationship with the nice guy. Like the girls who's boyfriend is in prison and she always talks about what a scumbag he is but when he gets out they get right back together with them.You dont get that kind of stability with a nice guy.  |
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Post by @TenaciousBe on Oct 29, 2006 0:33:56 GMT -5
*bows* I do what I can. I don't have a newsletter, per se, but you can always hit my myspace blog for little nuggets of (what I hope is) wisdom... www.myspace.com/ibleedpurple11 |
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Post by Deleted on Oct 29, 2006 0:35:20 GMT -5
by the way this is me Well maybe if you weren't so blurry in real life. * psst that the way the picture came outOHHHHH never mind. this work better for ya    |
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Post by @TenaciousBe on Oct 29, 2006 0:35:50 GMT -5
My ex fiance was very similar, although she had the extra added feature of being a boomerang. I proposed but she said no because, yep, "you're too nice of a guy, you pay too much attention to detail". Oh, ok, so I'm a dick because the feelings of the woman I want to marry are important to me? Damn. So, she does what any sensible woman would do, and movies in with a guy she met the week before who happens to live 900 miles away. She's pregnant within three months, and calls me asking if we can still be together. It's this kind of story that makes me want to rip my own eyeballs out of my head in a rage of WTF-edness. |
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Post by Deleted on Oct 29, 2006 0:42:19 GMT -5
My ex fiance was very similar, although she had the extra added feature of being a boomerang. I proposed but she said no because, yep, "you're too nice of a guy, you pay too much attention to detail". Oh, ok, so I'm a dick because the feelings of the woman I want to marry are important to me? Damn. So, she does what any sensible woman would do, and movies in with a guy she met the week before who happens to live 900 miles away. She's pregnant within three months, and calls me asking if we can still be together. It's this kind of story that makes me want to rip my own eyeballs out of my head in a rage of WTF-edness. Exactly and the thing that scares me the most is the fact that I can see myself in this guys situation...I have a messed up story as well...Regarding the ex I mentioned of of 2 years...Well we were together for about a year and 11 months and I was 2 months into the National Guard...Enlisted and a week away from Basic...The night before basic she freaks out and wont leave my side...I retardly bring her with me the next day to go to Indy at MEPS to sign in...20 minutes before I sign she breaks down and tells me she wants to marry me and that she will kill herself if i leave her because she cares that much...I in the worst move ive ever made in my life talk to my recruiter and end up taking a 2 year order of seperation from the military stating that i have full rights to enlist in 2 years and my leave was conscrewed as "under distress"...2 weeks later she confronts me telling me shes pregnant...a week later I find out its her ex boyfriends who lives 50 minutes away... the thing that haunts me the most is that I go to her myspace occasionally and just gawk at the pictures of her beautiful baby boy... |
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Post by @TenaciousBe on Oct 29, 2006 0:45:12 GMT -5
Damn, yo. Wow... girls suck.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 29, 2006 0:49:18 GMT -5
Damn, yo. Wow... girls suck. I know and thats 95% of the reason why we love them. |
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