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Post by Mozenrath on Dec 2, 2009 15:52:22 GMT -5
Yeah, adoration is the opposite of knowledge. Or another way I've seen it put, admiration is the furthest thing from understanding. It's your life, obviously, and you're ultimately the only one who can decide what is worth it to you, and what you will do, but try to remember that even if things go nowhere with her, there are other girls, as there are other boys. I'd keep other options in mind, because there's a big chance she is doing that very thing.
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Post by "Sweet & Sour" ImSoFudginGreat on Dec 2, 2009 16:17:41 GMT -5
Yeah I get that. The one thing i've found strange about this whole situation is that she did all the running. In the beginning I didn't feel anything but over the months via text I have started to like her. But you can't fall for someone via text which is what she has told me she is doing (but like what was mentioned earlier, that may be her way of trying to keep me dangling).
She told me in 1 text that she wants to grow old and die in my arms and she would be my girlfriend but she doesn't have the time. I tried saying if she felt like that she'd make time for me but nothing. I'm trying not to get hung up on her. I think I need to go back to "if something happens, great. If nothing happens then no big loss" like I was a few months back
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Post by B.B.M on Dec 2, 2009 16:21:20 GMT -5
What is this, the eighth time, you've tried to chat someone up this year Its all been the same person. She's caused me this much crap and yet I still wanna get with her. I'm a glutton for punishment. Right, time to admit you listen to wrestlecrap radio.
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Post by i.Sarita.com on Dec 2, 2009 16:59:44 GMT -5
Yeah I get that. The one thing i've found strange about this whole situation is that she did all the running. In the beginning I didn't feel anything but over the months via text I have started to like her. But you can't fall for someone via text which is what she has told me she is doing (but like what was mentioned earlier, that may be her way of trying to keep me dangling). She told me in 1 text that she wants to grow old and die in my arms and she would be my girlfriend but she doesn't have the time. I tried saying if she felt like that she'd make time for me but nothing. I'm trying not to get hung up on her. I think I need to go back to "if something happens, great. If nothing happens then no big loss" like I was a few months back I'm busy as hell and my girlfriend understands that. But I'm NEVER to busy to actually see her once in awhile. This chick sounds whack, and you'd be best served to just ignore her BS and find someone who actually wants to hang out with you and not just say it.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 2, 2009 18:52:40 GMT -5
Yeah, adoration is the opposite of knowledge. Or another way I've seen it put, admiration is the furthest thing from understanding. Actually that was the quote I was thinking of. Its from Bleach. Awesome quote though. I actually stopped reading and thought about that for a minute when I came across that.
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Post by Wrath Draven on Dec 2, 2009 19:03:13 GMT -5
she has sent me "Olive view" a few times? ![???](//storage.proboards.com/forum/images/smiley/huh.png) ? whats that
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Post by Deleted on Dec 2, 2009 19:26:27 GMT -5
she has sent me "Olive view" a few times? ![???](//storage.proboards.com/forum/images/smiley/huh.png) ? whats that Say it outloud a few times.
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Post by Viva on Dec 2, 2009 20:27:41 GMT -5
This broad is playing you like crazy and it's blatantly obvious. Lay down the ultimatum and move on when she denies you. You're in all honesty probably the other guy and she's probably in a relationship.
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Post by italliansausagepat on Dec 3, 2009 19:40:38 GMT -5
Its all been the same person. She's caused me this much crap and yet I still wanna get with her. I'm a glutton for punishment. I can tell you from past experience that while persistence has it's merits, the punishment isn't always worth it. I've taken bushel loads of crap from someone who I thought was worth it, only to find out in the end she wasn't. Long story short, once we decided to date each other, it wasn't a week before she f***ed one of my friends. I didn't hate him though, as he didn't know and it was his birthday after all ... But I did dodge a bullet, as she turned out to be a total flake. But I am the last person who should advise you. If that little voice of reason in the back of your head tells you that this is a bad idea, I suggest listening to it. Can save you a lot of misery in the long run. So you where the Matt Hardy to your friends Edge? loljk Ive been there before brotha.
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Post by The Blue Blazer on Dec 3, 2009 20:07:23 GMT -5
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Post by Mozenrath on Dec 4, 2009 0:30:45 GMT -5
Or another way I've seen it put, admiration is the furthest thing from understanding. Actually that was the quote I was thinking of. Its from Bleach. Awesome quote though. I actually stopped reading and thought about that for a minute when I came across that. That is where I heard it, too. Aizen may be a jerk, but he's got a good point.
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Post by Grendel on Dec 4, 2009 1:55:53 GMT -5
I can tell you from past experience that while persistence has it's merits, the punishment isn't always worth it. I've taken bushel loads of crap from someone who I thought was worth it, only to find out in the end she wasn't. Long story short, once we decided to date each other, it wasn't a week before she f***ed one of my friends. I didn't hate him though, as he didn't know and it was his birthday after all ... But I did dodge a bullet, as she turned out to be a total flake. But I am the last person who should advise you. If that little voice of reason in the back of your head tells you that this is a bad idea, I suggest listening to it. Can save you a lot of misery in the long run. So you where the Matt Hardy to your friends Edge? loljk Ive been there before brotha. You know, I never thought of it like that. And like Lita, this broad turned out to be a skank. ;D I know that was just the character, but what else do you call someone who is dating one guy and opening her legs for another? What, did he trip and accidentally throw his penis into her? ;D Why do I have to be Matt Hardy? Why can't I be ... oh I don't know ...
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Post by "Sweet & Sour" ImSoFudginGreat on Dec 4, 2009 13:02:17 GMT -5
Wish I was Chuck Norris...
Anyway an update, and a strange feeling.
So, she text me on Wednesday afternoon saying she wasn't mad at me, its not like she is my girlfriend or anything. So, I layed it on the line (this was my older brothers advice). I just said "I wanna be with you, I know its hard but I think we should try and see each other" and she never text back. She text me about 4 hours later saying that I really hurt her and she needs a few days to get back to where we were.
This is where the strange feeling comes in. If we go back to where we were then we're just doing the same thing and not seeing each other despite what I said. I spent Wednesday feeling really down and depressed which said to me I must like her. But yesterday when she said she needs a few days to get back to where I don't wanna be kinda annoyed me and i've spent today ranting at my mum about how pissed off I am.
So, I don't know, just an update for ya'll.
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Post by Grendel on Dec 4, 2009 14:03:09 GMT -5
Dude, I think you may want to cut and run for awhile. It seems to me like she is playing games with you, and that is something that you shouldn't have to go through. You hurt her by telling her that you wanted to be with her? What kind of crap is that?
It may be best to just let go for the time being.
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Post by "Sweet & Sour" ImSoFudginGreat on Dec 4, 2009 19:22:54 GMT -5
I'm feeling that man, i've not text her today and I don't think I will for a while. Even if she does text I might not text back.
May this will get her to sort her head out and decide what she wants.
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Post by i.Sarita.com on Dec 4, 2009 23:23:49 GMT -5
I'm feeling that man, i've not text her today and I don't think I will for a while. Even if she does text I might not text back. May this will get her to sort her head out and decide what she wants. Doesn't sound like she was ever really "in"
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Post by Mr. Emoticon Man, TF Fan on Dec 4, 2009 23:30:03 GMT -5
Dude, I think you may want to cut and run for awhile. It seems to me like she is playing games with you, and that is something that you shouldn't have to go through. You hurt her by telling her that you wanted to be with her? What kind of crap is that? It may be best to just let go for the time being. Those are my thoughts as well.
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Post by "Sweet & Sour" ImSoFudginGreat on Dec 5, 2009 19:23:34 GMT -5
I'm feeling that man, i've not text her today and I don't think I will for a while. Even if she does text I might not text back. May this will get her to sort her head out and decide what she wants. Doesn't sound like she was ever really "in" Ya know, the more I think about it I don't think she is in... Anyways an update (sorry, I like to vent ![;)](//storage.proboards.com/forum/images/smiley/wink.png) ) She text me this morning while she was at work, my brother was antagonising her, saying she was stringing me along and breaking my heart (taking the piss but planting the seed) and I jokingly said "well, he does have a point lol ![:)](//storage.proboards.com/forum/images/smiley/smiley.png) " and she went off at the deep end at me how I was hurting her again. I thought the "lol" and the smiley would have said I was joking. She got over it and said she'd text me later, she hasn't. So in all, no closer to figuring out what she wants and she's pissing me off. Think i'll wait it out till Christmas to see if she comes good on her promise and if she doesn't then i'm out.
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Post by Grendel on Dec 5, 2009 21:10:47 GMT -5
Doesn't sound like she was ever really "in" Ya know, the more I think about it I don't think she is in... Anyways an update (sorry, I like to vent ![;)](//storage.proboards.com/forum/images/smiley/wink.png) ) She text me this morning while she was at work, my brother was antagonising her, saying she was stringing me along and breaking my heart (taking the piss but planting the seed) and I jokingly said "well, he does have a point lol ![:)](//storage.proboards.com/forum/images/smiley/smiley.png) " and she went off at the deep end at me how I was hurting her again. I thought the "lol" and the smiley would have said I was joking. She got over it and said she'd text me later, she hasn't. So in all, no closer to figuring out what she wants and she's pissing me off. Think i'll wait it out till Christmas to see if she comes good on her promise and if she doesn't then i'm out. I hate to sound like Ralph Kramden, but she seems like a mental case. ;D
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Post by skiller on Dec 5, 2009 21:21:21 GMT -5
Honestly, she doesn't sound like she has a clue what she wants. You're probably better off keeping an arms length distance.
Chances are you probably don't want whatever problems she's carrying.
Maybe I'm wrong. But I'm also sitting on the side of discretion. From what you've said, I know someone exactly like her.
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