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Post by "Sweet & Sour" ImSoFudginGreat on Dec 8, 2009 7:53:40 GMT -5
Well guys, a quick update.
On Sunday she text me saying she was ill and wasn't at work, so being friendly I asked what was wrong and she said "I don't know just been up all night being sick, plus my friend Nick stayed over in my bed so I had to sleep on the sofa because he snored lol" which I believe was an attempt to make me jealous which I didn't rise to. She also told me that she had been to her cadets Christmas party on Saturday night. That night she was very chatty (via text) but I had gone to the cinema with my mates so we stopped texting. I sent her a message saying I was out after the movie (2012, didn't enjoy it) and saying how crap it was. She text me yesterday morning saying "Hey, did you not enjoy the movie then??" I text her back but she didn't text again all day.
Another thing I noticed this morning while on Facebook, on the news bit (the first page when you've signed in) her sister was doing one of those Social Interview things and it said "If you could set your sister up with one of your friends who would it be??" and she put "Nick!!" so thats 2 Nick things so you guys are probably right.
I don't know whether to call her on it or not or just forget she exists. I'm just confused because some of the stuff she has said to me but if she's been lying about what she's said then she's pretty messed up. You don't tell people you think you're falling for someone and you want to grow old and die in someones arms if you're just gpnna mess them around.
Anyone else been here??
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Post by ♥ Bunnyslinger ♥ on Dec 8, 2009 8:13:21 GMT -5
Think it's time both of you stop playing games and just talk, face to face. Clear everything out, maybe it won't lead to anything, but at least you'll know rather than forever be suspended in some sort of doubt.
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Post by hulkblood on Dec 8, 2009 9:01:31 GMT -5
I would personally tell her to get f***ed and wash my hands of her completely cos it really sounds like she doesnt give a crap about you and is just leading you on.
I was in a similar situation a few months ago i really liked this girl at work and i thought she liked me as well as we were always flirting and having a laugh and she always used to call or text me on saturday nights without fail but then if i dropped her a txt during the week i wouldnt get a reply then on saturdays when she was drunk she'd text again.
after a while it started to get annoying and we went on a work night out and she completly blanked me and kept going on to other girls from work about how hot the barman was but some people at work were suprised cos they thought something was happening between us even though nothing happened between her and the barman cos he has a G/F i just thought after that f*** her i aint gonna waste another second of energy on her.
The full situation just pissed me off the way I saw it was I was good enough for her to call when shes drunk and listen to all of problems but not good enough to be a couple.
she still calls or txts on saturdays but i dont really waste time usually i say im kinda busy and cant talk or i will not reply to her texts
So i wouldnt waste anymore time with this girl cos it sounds like a lost cause but im only going on what you've said on here and if you really do like this girl then lay your cards on the table with her just be prepared cos you may be setting yourself up for a big fall.
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Post by The Goob, phd (is Jobbing) on Dec 8, 2009 10:26:30 GMT -5
I think you're investing too much into texts and facebook.
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Grendel
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But ... why is all the rum gone?
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Post by Grendel on Dec 8, 2009 11:23:52 GMT -5
Personally, I would've gone with Never Want To See You Again by Rich Hardesty, but I can't find a good youtube of it.
Oh, and to the dude with the problem. Don't dwell on this too much today. Do something to get your mind off that harpy. Play your favorite game, hand with your favorite bud, do something instead of dwell and get depressed on this.
And never under any circumstances sip whiskey and listen to old blues music. I almost broke my hand that night when I punched the wall.
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Post by Taupy on Dec 8, 2009 11:25:19 GMT -5
I think she probably wants to go out with another guy, but this guy play the game of not giving her too much attention so she's trying to get a guy that will always text her when she text you, giving her attention when she needs it.
You should try to meet some other women at the moment, give yourself other options, she's definitely doing the same thing.
The sad part is that if she comes to you, it will probably be because there is not any other chances with the other guy(S?)
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Post by Brandon Walsh is Insane. on Dec 8, 2009 14:23:31 GMT -5
Sounds like she knows you'll give her attention when others won't... I'd cut my losses if I were in that situation. She probably said she was 'falling for you' because she felt you slipping away, and needed you there for whenever wasn't getting the proper attention from other avenues. You're her text buddy, nothing more, nothing less. So either embrace it, or move on. Up to you. Ahem. This.
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Franchise
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No you didn't.
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Post by Franchise on Dec 8, 2009 14:36:12 GMT -5
Talk to her, face to face, one time. Don't dick around what you're thinking, tell her flat out. If she continues to jerk you around, cut the cord, not worth your trouble. If it goes somewhere from that conversation, good. If not, it's not going to, period.
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Post by "Sweet & Sour" ImSoFudginGreat on Dec 10, 2009 19:10:47 GMT -5
Right guys. Final update (I think) for those that still care ![:D](//storage.proboards.com/forum/images/smiley/grin.png) : I hadn't heard from her since the last time I posted here so Tuesday night I decided to post on her facebook "Are you talking to me dick head??". She sent me a message last night basically saying she's been really busy and apologised for not getting in touch. She also said she's been thinking about what my brother said and "what if it is true" so I said back do you think its true?? Today she sent me a message saying she is sorry for breaking my heart and sorry if I think she had led me on (which is what my brother told her). We chatted a bit and decided that we would go back to where we were basically, be friends but she still "owns me" because she wants to commit herself fully to me eventually but we're not meeting up at Christmas now. So in all i've finally got an answer, no major loss. Now i've just gotta think of a way to get her to meet at Christmas ![:D](//storage.proboards.com/forum/images/smiley/grin.png) . Cheers for the advice people, ya'll the best!!
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