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Post by VenomFang on Dec 27, 2011 19:53:43 GMT -5
I think they are. They always want hot, good looking guys while guys will f*** pretty much anything. They want guys who are smart and educated too while guys do not care as long as she puts out.
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Post by Cela on Dec 27, 2011 19:55:23 GMT -5
Um... sure. But avoiding that reasoning.
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Post by FUNK_US/BRODUS on Dec 27, 2011 20:01:45 GMT -5
It's a hard debate to make, because it relies on generalisations.
The leading generalisations for both IMO is that while men judge every woman on some level on her physical appearance, women generally compete to appear more attractive than other women, and take great pleasure in cutting others down over perceived ugliness/being fat.
Like I said, these are just generalisations and mean nothing in the long run.
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Post by Munkie91087 on Dec 27, 2011 20:02:52 GMT -5
Hello sexism. How are you my old friend? Besides sexist!!!
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Post by Deleted on Dec 27, 2011 20:03:21 GMT -5
I must be a chick because I like my women to be reasonably attractive and reasonably smart.
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Post by Orange on Dec 27, 2011 20:03:21 GMT -5
I think both sexes have their shallow beings that focus on looks only, but I believe there is a healthy amount of men and women that are more open look wise. I've never quite understood picking a mate based off of looks alone, those looks will diminish eventually and if you don't like that person's personality, you're going to be stuck with a person you hate. Me personally I prefer cute girls with great personalities, personality is very important to me.
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Post by Lila on Dec 27, 2011 20:07:37 GMT -5
I wouldn't say that. I know personality is a first for me than looks. Not all girls want some supermodel boyfriend. I have had friends with the mentality that body goes first. I was dumbfounded by it. I don't care how hot the man is, if he doesn't interest me, I'm not going to persue him.
As Friendship said, everyone can be shallow though. I know I can be at times, but I do my best not to be. The most I've ever been shallow was me liking guys with dark hair and green eyes.
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Post by Kash Flagg on Dec 27, 2011 20:10:16 GMT -5
Everyone is shallow about different things. That's life.
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Post by VenomFang on Dec 27, 2011 20:11:02 GMT -5
I see more good looking dudes with less attractive women than good looking women with less attractive dudes.
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Post by Clash, Never a Meter Maid on Dec 27, 2011 20:13:12 GMT -5
Hahaha...no.
That's not me being a idealistic feminist, we are just not as inclined to romance as the fairer sex is. We're making progress, but we've got a way to go.
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Post by Mozenrath on Dec 27, 2011 20:17:54 GMT -5
It's different on a case by case basis.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 27, 2011 20:19:47 GMT -5
They want guys who are smart and educated too while guys do not care as long as she puts out. This HAS to be a joke post.
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Post by Jiren on Dec 27, 2011 20:22:33 GMT -5
Yep
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Post by Spankymac is sick of the swiss on Dec 27, 2011 20:29:33 GMT -5
In my personal experience? Yep. Nine times out of ten in my romantic life, the girl will choose to be with the handsome, athletic asshole, rather than the smart, mildly amusing.......well, I wouldn't call myself an UGLY guy, but I'm not getting any offers for modeling contracts. Then again, half the board apparently thinks I'm sexist anyways, so why not keep digging that whole through anecdotal evidence?
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Post by "American Cream" Dusty Loads on Dec 27, 2011 20:33:40 GMT -5
Women and men are equally shallow. The sooner we all realize that we're all prone to being shitty people regardless of gender, the sooner we'll get along.
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Post by theryno665 on Dec 27, 2011 20:37:21 GMT -5
I think the big difference in shallowness between men and women is that men are more open about it, women don't like to admit they are or even admit they have the capability to be. A man can be upfront about what he likes but a woman says "Oh, looks don't matter. I just want someone smart and nice and blah blah blah" and when someone comes along that fits their supposed criteria, they still turn them down. That's worse to me. If you're going to be superficial, at least be honest about it so I know to avoid you.
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Post by Kash Flagg on Dec 27, 2011 20:37:44 GMT -5
I know this won't end well. Just waiting on a few people to show up.
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Post by King Boo on Dec 27, 2011 20:38:09 GMT -5
So women are shallow for choosing to be with a guy because he's not a moron but men aren't shallow for being with a woman solely to get a piece?
Okay then.
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Post by salsashark on Dec 27, 2011 20:53:16 GMT -5
Women and men are equally shallow. The sooner we all realize that we're all prone to being s***ty people regardless of gender, the sooner we'll get along. So women are shallow for choosing to be with a guy because he's not a moron but men aren't shallow for being with a woman solely to get a piece? Okay then. TRUTH x 1000 Anyway, this reasoning makes zero sense and is incredibly shallow in itself. I mean, as a man, aren't we the shallow ones who are constantly making threads on her dedicated to women's hotness and basically ascribing Trish Status to be the best women's wrestler of all time because she was good and happened to look gorgeous at the same time? We certainly don't hold Stone Cold or Hulk Hogan to the same criteria if it's a looks contest.
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Post by Lila on Dec 27, 2011 21:14:28 GMT -5
I find the man in your sig to be hot and he can wrestle too.
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