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Post by bigjohnsons on Jan 16, 2015 11:01:59 GMT -5
How is it like being married ?
I'm curious
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Push R Truth
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Post by Push R Truth on Jan 16, 2015 11:06:52 GMT -5
It is what two people make it to be.
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Jam
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Post by Jam on Jan 16, 2015 11:42:31 GMT -5
I like it. I get laid when ever I want. Plus, my wife happens to be the coolest and hottest chick in the world. She's fun, beautiful and she puts up with my wrestling and comic book geekyness. f***ing love this woman. Best thing that ever happened to me.
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Post by Futureraven: Beelzebruv on Jan 16, 2015 11:51:13 GMT -5
I like it. I get laid when ever I want. Plus, my wife happens to be the coolest and hottest chick in the world. She's fun, beautiful and she puts up with my wrestling and comic book geekyness. f***ing love this woman. Best thing that ever happened to me. Right with you man, it's having your best friend around the whole time, makes every single day insanely good, even when it should be a terrible one.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 16, 2015 12:06:49 GMT -5
Not married, but have been living with the GF for about 5 years now and its honestly what you make of it.
Combine having a roommate with being in a relationship. If you're good at one and not the other - trouble. If you're not good at both - BIG TROUBLE. If you're pretty good at both - its a pretty sweet gig.
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Post by MC Blowfish on Jan 16, 2015 12:07:43 GMT -5
If you marry the right person, it's great. My wife supports all of my little nerdy things. I'm pretty sure she's getting me some of the Batman figures I've been looking at.
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Jam
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Post by Jam on Jan 16, 2015 12:09:32 GMT -5
I like it. I get laid when ever I want. Plus, my wife happens to be the coolest and hottest chick in the world. She's fun, beautiful and she puts up with my wrestling and comic book geekyness. f***ing love this woman. Best thing that ever happened to me. Right with you man, it's having your best friend around the whole time, makes every single day insanely good, even when it should be a terrible one. Exactly.
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Post by StuntGranny® on Jan 16, 2015 12:17:29 GMT -5
I'm not 'officially' married, but I've lived with my fiancee' for about 3 years now, so I feel like we are 'unofficially' married.
From my experience, it's definitely an up and down thing. Some weeks are great and you wouldn't trade your significant other for anything. Then there are weeks where you want to kick them out and never see them again. You just have to learn how to deal with their annoyances and pray they learn how to deal with yours.
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Ben Wyatt
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I don't get it. At all. It's kind of a small horse, I mean what am I missing? Am I crazy?
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Post by Ben Wyatt on Jan 16, 2015 12:44:51 GMT -5
My wife and I have a terrific life together. The simplest things are what makes us happy
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Post by Porky's Butthole on Jan 16, 2015 12:51:39 GMT -5
It is what two people make it to be. Look at that. One and done, here. It's a team effort. If one doesn't put forth the same as the other, there will be problems. Me? I got the best wife of all time.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 16, 2015 12:51:57 GMT -5
It's awesome, best thing that ever happened to me.
However, I'd like to point out that it isn't the being married part itself. It's really no different than living with an so for years on end, it's just that a church or government put their stamp of approval on it. So just a warning to those of you in those types of relationships. If living with your girlfriend is not the happiest experience on Earth for you, getting married will not fix your problems, it'll just make it harder to break up when things don't work out and you will be one of those bitter divorced people that resents marriage in general. It's all about finding the right person.
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ICBM
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Post by ICBM on Jan 16, 2015 16:09:18 GMT -5
I've been married 9 years. I'd be up for parole next year if I'd have just k.....oops. uh...
But seriously, it has been a challenge but one well worth it. You boys above enjoy that getting laid whenever you want it while it lasts. Three kids have affected a marked decrease in gettin down. We used to screw like rabbits...Prolly why we have three kids. Now we don't have the time and proximity to nearly as often as I would like
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Dr. T is an alien
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Post by Dr. T is an alien on Jan 16, 2015 16:17:46 GMT -5
This May my wife and I will have our 18th anniversary. It is what you make it. We are pretty good together. We don't share all of our interests, but she has an affinity for many of my geeky interests (though she does not care much for video games and will not even try role playing, either in a pen and paper game or in the bedroom).
Think of it like this: A good marriage is one where you get the chance to get some personal space away from one another when you need it, but will start to feel like you are missing a limb if you are apart too long - and you are more than fine with that. That level of attachment and intimacy is a good thing.
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Post by Mid-Carder on Jan 16, 2015 16:19:18 GMT -5
There's no answer to this. Everyone is different. Marriage is bliss for some, hell for others. Being single is bliss for some, hell for others. It can't be summed up.
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Jam
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Post by Jam on Jan 16, 2015 16:25:22 GMT -5
I've been married 9 years. I'd be up for parole next year if I'd have just k.....oops. uh... But seriously, it has been a challenge but one well worth it. You boys above enjoy that getting laid whenever you want it while it lasts. Three kids have affected a marked decrease in gettin down. We used to screw like rabbits...Prolly why we have three kids. Now we don't have the time and proximity to nearly as often as I would like We have 3 kids too. The night time is right time, if you catch my drift.
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Post by Evilution E5150 on Jan 16, 2015 16:44:48 GMT -5
if you've been in a relationship with the person you love for a few years before you get married then marriage is exactly the same as it was before hand, nothing really changes
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Post by minorleagueguy on Jan 16, 2015 21:44:33 GMT -5
...marriage is whatever you put into it..after 24 years, we went through a lot of ups and downs, moved, job shift changes , a kid, ...but everyday brings new challenges. Things go right, and wrong...but at the end of the day..if you can wade through the crap, and still want to be togethor...then the rest is gravy...
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Post by The Summer of Muskrat XVII on Jan 16, 2015 21:47:54 GMT -5
I haven't seen my wife in a year, I found out about her infidelity about 6 weeks after we said our vows (not sure how long shit was going on) and the stubborn c*** still won't sign the divorce papers after nearly 2 years of separation, so the gov't is still treating me like I'm married causing all sorts of tax issues for me. I f***ing HATE being married.
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Juice
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Post by Juice on Jan 16, 2015 22:24:18 GMT -5
Been married for almost three years. Sometimes I wonder what life would be like without it, and never do I think it would be better without. Kids change things, but I like being a family man.
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ICBM
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Post by ICBM on Jan 16, 2015 22:56:39 GMT -5
I've been married 9 years. I'd be up for parole next year if I'd have just k.....oops. uh... But seriously, it has been a challenge but one well worth it. You boys above enjoy that getting laid whenever you want it while it lasts. Three kids have affected a marked decrease in gettin down. We used to screw like rabbits...Prolly why we have three kids. Now we don't have the time and proximity to nearly as often as I would like We have 3 kids too. The night time is right time, if you catch my drift. I shouldn't complain any further tonight since we did just get down about a half hr ago, but even the nights are tough as shit for that. I work a difficult job that keeps me busy and she stays home and gets run ragged. By the time we are together I'm still wired and ready but she is wiped out. I got lucky tonight
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