Should I Pursue Her?

[Perfect Timing]

I get along with this girl but neither of us have a free house.

Movie date girl from other thread. Well we met but didn't go for the film we were a bit late but ended up having drinks.

She's in her early 20's and still at home. I'm 32 and share with a sibling. She seems the type to take things slow and want a relationship. When I found out she had no place to go it kind of made me depressed by the time I got home, like I was wasting my time. I was honest with my situation(somewhat..) but she actually told me months ago she had her own place and now is telling me this but it turns out she comes from quite a strict family but she's decent girl. What should I do?

[Deleted]

If you like her, why not try it?

[Perfect Timing]

She's ok but are we supposed to have a relationship in a hotel?

[GuyOfOwnage]

If you really think the relationship could go somewhere, I'd say try it. If you're going slow, it's not like you'll be needing private quarters for the first little while anyway. And hey, if it gets serious enough down the road, you guys could get a place together. But you'll never know if you don't try.

[The Unconquered Sun]

Do you want to? -----> yes ---> than do it.
                       |------> no ---> than don't
            

[Deleted]

So what, why does one of you need to have their own home in order to go on dates?

[Starshine]

Why can't you do it at your place? I get the awkwardness with her parents, but sharing a place with a sibling shouldn't stop you from dating.

[wisdomwizard]

A few dates with her won't hurt. If she seems like the right fit and you're compatible keep her around. If not, let her off easy.

[Heartbreaker]

I don't see why you're making a big deal out of it. She could stay over at your place sometimes and it's not like you live with a random roommate.

[Deleted]

If you like her go for it. Yeah having sex in a house full of people can be awkward I been there before but Meh who cares. Plus this is clearly a first world problem. I read in many tourist central second world/third world countries like where it's common for an entire family to live in a house together that tourists aren't the most common people to rent a hotel, but actual married couples who want to boink.

Speaking of which this even applies to regular married people here. This girl who I work with who has two kids and her dad living with her and fiance was telling me they have way more car sex than bedroom sex these days because of kids.

If something is worth fighting or pursuing for, you do it. Outside of newly weds f***ing college kids have the most sex and no college kid lives on their own unless they are in the 1%

I really don't see the problem

["Mr Wonderdick" Dick Dastardly]

Mar 9, 2016 0:46:55 GMT -5 Starshine said:

Why can't you do it at your place? I get the awkwardness with her parents, but sharing a place with a sibling shouldn't stop you from dating.

From experience...doing the dirty deed in the same house you share with a sibling can be awkward if your partner is rather loud and your sibling can hear what's going on.

[Starshine]

Mar 9, 2016 1:08:34 GMT -5 "Mr Wonderdick" Dick Dastardly said:

Mar 9, 2016 0:46:55 GMT -5 Starshine said:

Why can't you do it at your place? I get the awkwardness with her parents, but sharing a place with a sibling shouldn't stop you from dating.

From experience...doing the dirty deed in the same house you share with a sibling can be awkward if your partner is rather loud and your sibling can hear what's going on.

OP should own it, dude. Unleash your passion!

[Dat Dude]

It's doable. I live in a barracks and my girlfriend lives with her aunt. We've been together for almost 1.5 years. We take alot trips and staycations so we can sleep in the same bed (hotels). It's not a walk in the park but it's more than possible.

[Cranjis McBasketball]

Seriously don't. You're gonna wind up supporting her. I don't care how much you like her. Don't. I can predict every last thing that's gonna happen to you. Don't. She knows you like her. Leave. Leave now. Run far, far, far away.

[Fauxnaki]

Mar 9, 2016 1:08:34 GMT -5 "Mr Wonderdick" Dick Dastardly said:

Mar 9, 2016 0:46:55 GMT -5 Starshine said:

Why can't you do it at your place? I get the awkwardness with her parents, but sharing a place with a sibling shouldn't stop you from dating.

From experience...doing the dirty deed in the same house you share with a sibling can be awkward if your partner is rather loud and your sibling can hear what's going on.

just give your sibling some cash to go see a movie/get dinner or something. A good sibling wouldnt interfere with you getting laid

[Push R Truth]

Use the sock on the door methoid

[fuzzywarble, squat cobbler]

This has disaster written all over it. Run far, far away

[crabbymelt]

You're 32 and she's in her "early 20's?" Is she 20, by chance?

Look if you were 40 and she were 28, then yeah, go for it. But if she's "looking for a relationship" at 20-ish and still lives at home, and your priority is to find a comfortable setting to boink, it's not gonna work out for either of you.
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[Kevin Hamilton]

If you like her, and she likes you, then yes.


Just be clear both with her and in your own mind what exactly you're looking for if she's clearly looking for a relationship. If it comes to you not wanting the same thing, but up front with that.

That caveat in mind, relax a bit. You're not marrying this girl tomorrow.

[MC Blowfish]

Do you like her? Do you see a future with her? If the answer is yes, then go for it.