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Post by Baldobomb-22-OH-MAN!!! on May 25, 2018 5:04:52 GMT -5
OK, about this guy... there are news reports out there that he is currently using Best Buy because he was fired for refusing to work on Saturdays, the only day he had access to his child. Also, he is in a custody battle over said child, which is why he says he is too busy to have a job. You're telling me this dude got LAID??? well there's someone for everyone. though he probably won't be getting laid again any time soon what with this hanging over him lol. |
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Post by Sephiroth on May 25, 2018 5:51:25 GMT -5
I really can’t speak. I was 30 when I moved out of my father’s place, and even then it was because he announced his plans to sell the place-which ended up taking years I might add. In my defense, I was dirt broke at the time. However my life has been better since getting out on my own and both my parents have expressed they are proud of how self sufficient I am.
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Post by Deleted on May 25, 2018 6:57:08 GMT -5
I'm 27 and live with my grandma, though I do work and help keep up the bills and other expenses, plus help out around the house.
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Post by Stone Coke Miami Watson 🥃 on May 25, 2018 14:20:42 GMT -5
I'm 27 and live with my grandma, though I do work and help keep up the bills and other expenses, plus help out around the house. It's one thing if you're helping out around the house and paying expenses....to me, that's not a problem. The problem is this freeloading mongoloid who is trying to milk his living conditions and 15 seconds of fame until the teet runs dry... |
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Post by Natural Born Farmer on May 25, 2018 17:28:57 GMT -5
Parents have to share some of the blame for letting it get this far. I was fired from my first post-college job during the Great Recession, and with not a lot of options my parents were kind enough to let me move in with them. Although always having a full fridge and an awesome cable package was nice, it never occurred to me for a second it would be ok just to laze around the house for months or years on end. Took the first part time job I could find so I could at least sort of pay for my existence, and as soon as I found a full time gig I was looking for apartments.
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Post by sfvega on May 25, 2018 20:10:06 GMT -5
Parents have to share some of the blame for letting it get this far. For the lack of motivation of a 30 year old unemployed parent who refuses to take a hint? 100 out of 100 people would receive a court notice to get out from their parents and just pack their bags. Shifting the blame any from this guy is not the type of accountability he needs....at all. |
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Post by Deleted on May 25, 2018 21:00:16 GMT -5
Parents have to share some of the blame for letting it get this far. I was fired from my first post-college job during the Great Recession, and with not a lot of options my parents were kind enough to let me move in with them. Although always having a full fridge and an awesome cable package was nice, it never occurred to me for a second it would be ok just to laze around the house for months or years on end. Took the first part time job I could find so I could at least sort of pay for my existence, and as soon as I found a full time gig I was looking for apartments. They repeatedly told him to leave, repeatedly gave him eviction notices and he refused to leave. |
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Post by Natural Born Farmer on May 25, 2018 21:12:18 GMT -5
Parents have to share some of the blame for letting it get this far. For the lack of motivation of a 30 year old unemployed parent who refuses to take a hint? Yes. Whether you're 20 or 30, your parents should not be ok with an able bodied person sitting around the house all day while making zero effort to contribute domestically or financially. For letting this carry on for years, thereby reinforcing his ideas of who's really running things around there, they deserve some blame. |
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Post by Natural Born Farmer on May 25, 2018 21:13:31 GMT -5
Parents have to share some of the blame for letting it get this far. I was fired from my first post-college job during the Great Recession, and with not a lot of options my parents were kind enough to let me move in with them. Although always having a full fridge and an awesome cable package was nice, it never occurred to me for a second it would be ok just to laze around the house for months or years on end. Took the first part time job I could find so I could at least sort of pay for my existence, and as soon as I found a full time gig I was looking for apartments. They repeatedly told him to leave, repeatedly gave him eviction notices and he refused to leave. And finally, after all that, they took him to court. Some reason they didn't do this earlier? Or just hire some movers to put his stuff on the curb? Eviction notices lose their teeth real quick when you don't actually follow through. |
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Post by Deleted on May 25, 2018 21:28:33 GMT -5
They repeatedly told him to leave, repeatedly gave him eviction notices and he refused to leave. And finally, after all that, they took him to court. Some reason they didn't do this earlier? Or just hire some movers to put his stuff on the curb? Eviction notices lose their teeth real quick when you don't actually follow through. Because if you do it without serving a proper notice he could go "I was never notified I had to leave" and if you hire movers to move his stuff to the curb the removers will refuse to do it because he's a legal tenant and they don't want to get involved in your personal disputes? |
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Post by Natural Born Farmer on May 25, 2018 21:44:39 GMT -5
And finally, after all that, they took him to court. Some reason they didn't do this earlier? Or just hire some movers to put his stuff on the curb? Eviction notices lose their teeth real quick when you don't actually follow through. Because if you do it without serving a proper notice he could go "I was never notified I had to leave" If only there were some way to make him aware, like perhaps a notice of some sort of his pending eviction. Shame he never received one. |
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Post by Deleted on May 25, 2018 21:53:09 GMT -5
Deleted a post. Thought I was being a jerk. Of course, it's been quoted now so it doesn't matter.
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Post by sfvega on May 25, 2018 22:26:16 GMT -5
For the lack of motivation of a 30 year old unemployed parent who refuses to take a hint? Yes. Whether you're 20 or 30, your parents should not be ok with an able bodied person sitting around the house all day while making zero effort to contribute domestically or financially. For letting this carry on for years, thereby reinforcing his ideas of who's really running things around there, they deserve some blame. He's f***ing 30. You can question the parenting of a 15 year old f***ing up. He's a f***ing adult, this situation isn't his parents' fault. You can think they enabled him, fine sure whatevs. Society seems so dead set on never running out of fingers to point the blame. But they told the useless manchild to leave, he should leave. We could blame his school teachers and his bosses at work and his boyhood boy scout troop leader, his Dungeons and Dragons dungeon master for not instilling in him things like a work ethic or any pride whatsoever. But again, pretty cut and dry: he's an adult who is 100% in control of his situation. So no, I'd rather not blame the parents. At all. |
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