Bhester
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Post by Bhester on Jan 4, 2007 1:27:45 GMT -5
Help would be appreciated. I hate getting caught in the friend zone.
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Byakugan
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Post by Byakugan on Jan 4, 2007 1:29:20 GMT -5
Tell them you wanna bang them up front
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Post by MGH on Jan 4, 2007 1:29:21 GMT -5
More times than not, you don't avoid it.
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Post by DrBackflipsHoffman on Jan 4, 2007 1:29:27 GMT -5
It'd be a lot easier if you took those mittens off
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Bhester
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Post by Bhester on Jan 4, 2007 1:29:36 GMT -5
More times than not, you don't avoid it. F***
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Post by HMARK Center on Jan 4, 2007 1:33:20 GMT -5
Just be yourself.
Don't be overly nice, don't be overly distant, just be the person you are. You wanna tweak a few things, like you appearance or demeanor, fine, but don't treat someone differently than you would treat anyone else just because you may like them.
If the girl digs that person, cool. If she "only wants to be friends" with that person, then what's the point in pursuing something more? If one party isn't interested at all in a relationship, then it'd be doomed from the start.
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Post by Bhester on Jan 4, 2007 1:35:21 GMT -5
Just be yourself. Don't be overly nice, don't be overly distant, just be the person you are. You wanna tweak a few things, like you appearance or demeanor, fine, but don't treat someone differently than you would treat anyone else just because you may like them. If the girl digs that person, cool. If she "only wants to be friends" with that person, then what's the point in pursuing something more? If one party isn't interested at all in a relationship, then it'd be doomed from the start. I think that in general i'm overly nice like naturally, but I've resolved to not be that way and if anything be more different.
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Post by skiller on Jan 4, 2007 1:39:01 GMT -5
If you want her attention, then just try and become a little more reserved in what you do and say. You can still be super nice to everyone, but just don't say more than needs to be said.
Some women tend to really like that.
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Post by Lick Ness Monster on Jan 4, 2007 1:39:53 GMT -5
Everybody, everybody on this forum - nobody can hold a candle to me, forever, forever PERPETUALLY stuck in the friend zone with every girl I've ever met EVER.
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Post by skiller on Jan 4, 2007 1:41:47 GMT -5
Everybody, everybody on this forum - nobody can hold a candle to me, forever, forever PERPETUALLY stuck in the friend zone with every girl I've ever met EVER. Hey, at least they all think you're a really nice guy. ;D
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Post by Spankymac is sick of the swiss on Jan 4, 2007 1:42:29 GMT -5
Dude, when you figure out how to avoid the friend zone, let me know, man.
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Post by Vice honcho room temperature on Jan 4, 2007 1:46:48 GMT -5
Kiss her within 48 hours of the first chance that was interupted or that you didn't take.
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Post by mo on Jan 4, 2007 1:51:00 GMT -5
There's something other than the friend zone?
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Post by Vice honcho room temperature on Jan 4, 2007 1:53:59 GMT -5
There's something other than the friend zone? Enemy area.
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Bhester
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Post by Bhester on Jan 4, 2007 1:55:02 GMT -5
Would it be lame if I said that I was afraid of becoming the guy from "Waiting" that couldn't piss?
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Post by TRMcGillicutty on Jan 4, 2007 2:00:33 GMT -5
Well here's two ways to do it:
1. Don't be a doormat. Don't do a bajillion things for her, don't buy her flowers, blah blah. Then tell her you like her, instead of being the "friend", because that shit never works.
2. Deal with it. Some people just aren't attracted to others.
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Post by MCP Hates You on Jan 4, 2007 2:00:39 GMT -5
Here's an idea, Bhester. Quit being a woman and MAN UP!
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Bhester
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Post by Bhester on Jan 4, 2007 2:01:31 GMT -5
Here's an idea, Bhester. Quit being a woman and MAN UP! To really be effective, you should add the words "THE F***" between "MAN" and "UP"
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Post by Deleted on Jan 4, 2007 2:21:27 GMT -5
I'm only friends with girls I have no interest in going after. Otherwise it's not worth even hanging out with a girl if she doesn't like you as much as you like her, saves time really. What you do is you need to back away and see if she follows, if she calls once or twice a day, she likes you. If she calls you a couple of times a week, you're probably in the friend's zone. Remember, MAKE HER GO AFTER YOU. This guy speaks the truth...thats exactly how I approach the situation...
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Post by MCP Hates You on Jan 4, 2007 3:14:54 GMT -5
If you get caught in the friend zone one more time, aggressively pursue your new friend's mom (and dad?) to teach her a lesson.
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