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Post by Realtalk on Apr 26, 2011 19:47:22 GMT -5
Do you think she will still speak to me?
First off she has no proof and no idea it was me who tried to add her, but I have a fake facebook account and found out she was using Facebook again after she told me she had closed it. She had her ex boyfriend on there and somehow blocked me but my fake name found her. I tried to add her as a friend with the fake name and she phoned me ten minutes later trying to see my reaction I guess.
She had been kinda quiet not speaking with me all day. She phoned up so I felt weird and she asked me to tell me my full name so she could add me on facebook.
I felt a bit nervous and she might of knew but tried talking about other stuff. She spoke casually about a few things and explained to me she was back on(as if she could tell why) and told me how she took it off because of her ex boyfriend but now he has stopped annoying her.
Her phone cut off(always does) and when I tried to call back she didn't pick up lol. I learned that she only phoned me to test if it was me and didn't even ask how my day was. Just shows how important I am!
So is it weird if she thinks it's me? plus do you think she would, there is no proof?? I did tell her last week I had a friend with a very similar name to the fake account(forgot how similar) and I called her few hours before I added her with the fake name.
It's been 2 months and she is losing interest and things are not going anywhere really. She refers to herself as single and shit but acts like we are going out, well she did. I do like her alot but can see her thinking it was me or one of my friends.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 26, 2011 19:49:54 GMT -5
Yeah, I think that it would be an excellent time to break things off.
When you turn to voiding someone else's privacy, so great is your suspicion against them that whatever kind of relationship you're in is absolutely dead in the water.
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Post by Kevin Hamilton on Apr 26, 2011 19:51:20 GMT -5
It is you though, so you've got no right to be angry or self-righteous because she thinks it is.
Why did you spy on her in the first place? If y'all don't trust each other, what's the point?
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Post by Deleted on Apr 26, 2011 19:52:58 GMT -5
Save yourself the grief and move on. When things get to the point where you're spying on your partner, you're done.
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Post by Kash Flagg on Apr 26, 2011 19:57:51 GMT -5
Can I add her?
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Post by Realtalk on Apr 26, 2011 19:59:40 GMT -5
Yeah what I am saying is how can she prove it? she says people add her all the time.
It's not so much about trust, it was about her always going about Facebook and saying she logs in sometimes then disables it. So I knew she was lying and then found her name on a new account she made which I got from looking at her ex boyfriends profile.
She did tell me last week she was speaking to him again and that she met him. So obviously that got me wondering. If she puts that together she might realise but I hope not.
I really get on with her but she has started to do whatever she wants. She even mentioned to me she put she is single on the profile and I sighed because she has said that a few times but knows we have had something.
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Post by bob on Apr 26, 2011 19:59:43 GMT -5
me thinks it might be best to cut ties with her
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Post by Chuckie Finster on Apr 26, 2011 20:05:21 GMT -5
You should have dumped her yesterday. You have little-to-no respect for each other.
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Post by LCR, Formerly Blue Nova on Apr 26, 2011 20:11:17 GMT -5
1 - You never, apparently, had the conversation with her where you made things official between you and her as boyfriend and girlfriend. If she considers herself single, then that's what she is.
2 - So, you then apparently had expectations and think you're dating even though she considers herself single? No wonder she blocked yr. FB account.
3 - You then went and creeped her ex-boyfriend's page to find her page. Then, went to the extent of friending her with a fake profile?
4- You do all that and then disparage HER? Really?
"I learned that she only phoned me to test if it was me and didn't even ask how my day was. Just shows how important I am!"
You're right. You were a friend. She didn't consider you her boyfriend, you never had that communication/talk to make things official ergo, you were not her boyfriend. When a friend wants more than a friendship and gets all clingy, she tried to kill things without being crass hoping you'd take the hint. But by creeping her ex-b/f's page and spying on her, you're clearly not. But then to criticize her as if she did something wrong in the situation by trying to see if you were spying/creeping on her privacy?
SMGDH.
And people on this board wonder why they have problems with women.
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Post by smgalia on Apr 26, 2011 20:11:19 GMT -5
Dude, best advice? Cheat on her, because it's obvious to me that she already has. How old are you if I may ask?
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Post by Realtalk on Apr 26, 2011 20:20:44 GMT -5
27 and btw Blue Nova you were close but yet so far. She took of her account when we were dating because she said her ex boyfriend was snooping. She did it for me or more likely because she was hiding the fact she still wanted to speak to him online.
Since the beggining she was talking to me like we were official. Ringing me everyday, sending sweet txts with tons of kisses and talking about things we could do months ahead. She even spoke about kids and working towards moving in together. Although I know that was soon considering we had a few dates, she just came across like she wanted to take things a bit slower.
It was only intil the last few weeks that she made it obvious she wasn't ready to jump into anything and most likely still has feelings for her ex. So yeah, I do have a right to be annoyed at her. She showed me alot of interest and then just starts backing off because she isn't mature enough to know what she wants.
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Post by MCMGM on Apr 26, 2011 20:22:16 GMT -5
it was over the minute she asked for your full name. That's something you should know prior to a relationship.
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Post by Realtalk on Apr 26, 2011 20:23:37 GMT -5
Why is that? I don't get it.
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Post by noleafclover1980 on Apr 26, 2011 20:33:45 GMT -5
If anything she should drop your ass for being a creeper. So, you're upset that she suspected it was you, without proof... despite the fact that she was correct? How is THAT fair? Maybe she suspected you because you've done some other sketchy stuff in the past.
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Post by Young Game on Apr 26, 2011 20:35:50 GMT -5
Unless your name is James Bond, you shouldn't be spying on girls.
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Post by Realtalk on Apr 26, 2011 20:38:58 GMT -5
Well it was mainly a test to see if she would accept and no I've done nothing sketchy but she knows I'm a prankster.
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Post by noleafclover1980 on Apr 26, 2011 20:39:09 GMT -5
Also, it's "spied" not "spyed". That's one letter away from having her fixed.
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Post by noleafclover1980 on Apr 26, 2011 20:41:10 GMT -5
Well it was mainly a test to see if she would accept and no I've done nothing sketchy but she knows I'm a prankster. You know how to tell if a relationship won't work? If you're testing people. I've had ex's do the same thing... it's juvenile and annoying as hell. |
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Post by Andrew is Good on Apr 26, 2011 20:41:50 GMT -5
This won't end well. Basically, chicks do that kissy, leading on, but not leading on type stuff. At least that happened with me.
Since it is a wrestling board, I'll be honest. This is going to get over as well as WWE would by announcing their newest inductee to the Hall of Fame, Chris Benoit.
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Post by Realtalk on Apr 26, 2011 20:45:49 GMT -5
Yeah I know, but it's a place to vent.
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