Grendel
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Post by Grendel on Jul 26, 2009 20:08:21 GMT -5
For anyone so upset that being "The Nice Guy" isn't getting you anywhere, maybe you should follow a different example... Am I the only one who thinks that they recycled parts of this song for the Stone Cold Steve Austin theme? I've thought so since the first time I heard the Stone Cold theme.
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Welfare Willis
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Post by Welfare Willis on Jul 26, 2009 20:20:09 GMT -5
For anyone so upset that being "The Nice Guy" isn't getting you anywhere, maybe you should follow a different example... Am I the only one who thinks that they recycled parts of this song for the Stone Cold Steve Austin theme? I've thought so since the first time I heard the Stone Cold theme. I was actually thinking that the vid poster wanted us to drink alot and skip pay per view events.
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Post by sunwukong on Jul 26, 2009 20:21:54 GMT -5
Am I the only one who thinks that they recycled parts of this song for the Stone Cold Steve Austin theme? I've thought so since the first time I heard the Stone Cold theme. I was actually thinking that the vid poster wanted us to drink alot and skip pay per view events. Now you've got it!
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Jay Peas 42
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Post by Jay Peas 42 on Jul 26, 2009 22:41:50 GMT -5
Yeah, remember Vegeta? Just ask your self how he would behave. Damn, that series was messed up.
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Post by The Charismatic Enabeler on Jul 27, 2009 0:56:01 GMT -5
Why think about it? I used to be the nice guy and got dumped time and time again. Acting like a jackass is fun and girls throw themselves at you if you do. The world opens up once you just stop caring.
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Post by Thomas Powers of Paine on Jul 27, 2009 1:18:32 GMT -5
I used to be such a sweet, sweet thing 'til they got a hold of me
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Post by Nacho STAYS Hyped on Jul 27, 2009 1:23:50 GMT -5
Just be confident, and use a good pickup line, like:
"Well...it's not gonna suck itself."
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"Magic" Mark Hurr
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Post by "Magic" Mark Hurr on Jul 27, 2009 2:11:17 GMT -5
seven pages of funny sadness.
funny because it's true.
sad because it's true.
I've had plenty of experiences in my life where me being the nice guy got me nothing but foolishness. And the times I showed heel tendencies, the female malfunctioned. You can be the nice guy and get the girl. It just depends on the type of girl you go for.
It's rare to find a woman who doesn't go for assholes, the guy with the money, or one who isn't a high maintenance fixer-upper woman who's damaged with twisted wisdom.
And normally that rare girl is after she's gone through "that phase" before you'd find one that didn't care for the foolishness. Not enough make-up and manipulative clothes in the world can hide their shame.
It really boils down to that the nice guy doesn't excite her or give any challenge even though the asshole is just as predictable.
Hell. Turn heel on these hoes. Then let the good times roll. (Disclaimer: Not all women are hoes. Just the majority of them.)
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Post by sunwukong on Jul 27, 2009 2:42:05 GMT -5
Hell. Turn heel on these hoes. Then let the good times roll. (Disclaimer: Not all women are hoes. Just the majority of them.) Classy. I'm going to reiterate my belief that a lot of the problem doesn't have a damn thing to do with women. There's a lot of manchildren around these parts that need to grow up.
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"Magic" Mark Hurr
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Post by "Magic" Mark Hurr on Jul 27, 2009 4:07:16 GMT -5
Hell. Turn heel on these hoes. Then let the good times roll. (Disclaimer: Not all women are hoes. Just the majority of them.) Classy. I'm going to reiterate my belief that a lot of the problem doesn't have a damn thing to do with women. There's a lot of manchildren around these parts that need to grow up. LOL. Grow a funny bone. I joke that like when it comes to this topic on both sides of the coin. There are a lot of guys who very fragile and easily defeated when it comes to women who are cemented into their personalities. They haven't learned to stop messing with woman who are like that. Also, have you ever had conversations with women where they'll seriously tell you to do what I was just being funny about. I have on several occasions, and even by the cool chicks that aren't crazy.
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Post by skiller on Jul 27, 2009 4:10:22 GMT -5
Cause nice guys are chumps!
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Magician under the moonlight
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Post by Magician under the moonlight on Jul 27, 2009 8:08:33 GMT -5
What do you mean by nice?
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Post by teamjd on Jul 27, 2009 8:11:56 GMT -5
I'm sure its been said, but some do, some don't.
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Post by Dangery Scubba on Jul 27, 2009 9:09:43 GMT -5
I've never had a problem getting a woman interested in me. Of course, I think part of the reason a lot of guys do is because they see the obvious representations of the type of girls they complain about and think those are the only ones out there available when that's not the case. In fact, I think most of the women who would make the best choice for us often get overlooked. I think that men are just as conditioned as women are to go for those who would treat us badly. If I may use this quote as an example of someone who's level headed in the area... I like 'the nice guy', as long as he isn't afraid to defend me once in a while. I honestly do not see the appeal in a 'bad boy'. What a waste of space. Women want a balanced guy the most. A man who's sensitive to the needs of others and himself and confident enough that he can fulfill those needs. Incidentally we want the exact same thing in female form.
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Post by Thomas Powers of Paine on Jul 27, 2009 13:19:45 GMT -5
I opened doors for little old ladies, I helped the blind to see
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Post by Deleted on Jul 27, 2009 13:35:54 GMT -5
seven pages of funny sadness. And normally that rare girl is after she's gone through "that phase" before you'd find one that didn't care for the foolishness. Not enough make-up and manipulative clothes in the world can hide their shame. It really boils down to that the nice guy doesn't excite her or give any challenge even though the asshole is just as predictable. Hell. Turn heel on these hoes. Then let the good times roll. (Disclaimer: Not all women are hoes. Just the majority of them.) There was a lot of joking in that post, but there are two truthful elements there: 1. A girl doesn't usually want a "nice guy" until she's been with a lot of jerks who've used her. Only then does she realize the value of a nice guy. 2. Heel turns work. They get you over with girls. But remember - it has to be logical. Russo swerves don't work with anyone anymore. I had a funny realization while I read parts of this tread: I always thought I was a nice guy, but most of my life girls have either called me a jerk or an asshole. Not in a bad way that they don't want to hang out with me, but just in that way where I say what's on my mind and don't really care what people think or so. I just do my own thing and don't let anyone break my stride. I call people out, but do it politely and don't let people get a way with crap. Again, as politely as possible. The "nice guy" only says and does things they think are acceptable to other people, even if it goes against thier instincts. So I guess you should be the heel who THINKS he's a face.
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Post by Clash, Never a Meter Maid on Jul 27, 2009 13:56:14 GMT -5
2. How much do you play the field? I had a friend who was an incredible person--fantastic, funny, intelligent, attractive, wholly worthy of having a girlfriend, and not very self-deprecating--that never went on a date in the four years we went to college together. His problem was that he was entirely too focused on one girl that, for reasons I may or may not believe in, he "was in love with." If you give it one shot and the girl doesn't respond the same way knowing your feelings, move on. I obsessed over one girl and that got me nowhere. When I started playing the field and talking to each a little bit, my confidence when through the roof and I landed someone incredible. That's been my biggest mistake. Having only one person in mind at a time's a lot less romantic than we make it out to be.
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Post by King Boo on Jul 27, 2009 13:56:44 GMT -5
I like 'the nice guy', as long as he isn't afraid to defend me once in a while. I honestly do not see the appeal in a 'bad boy'. What a waste of space. Women don't appreciate pandering sycophants. Anyway they do like nice guys, just confident ones who aren't afraid to show their personality and state their opinions. Both of these are true, at least for me. I've never ever understood the whole "bad boy" thing at all. It's not exciting to me to have a guy do things like not call or not take my feelings into any kind of consideration - it's rude. I don't find any appeal in a rule breaker either. It seems like they're trying too hard to be rebellious - like they're not doing their own thing, they're just doing things to specifically buck the system. That being said, I don't like guys who don't have a little spark to them somehow. Too many people confuse "being nice" with "being boring." A person can be nice and considerate and still have sharp wit and can still challenge me on something. You can say something funny and biting and still call when you say you will. Being nice doesn't automatically translate to saying "yes, dear" to everything the other says. It doesn't mean someone's not strong. So no, not all women like the bad boy type. There are women who like a nice guy and don't have time for all that other nonsense.
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Post by Titus Sinclair on Jul 27, 2009 13:58:42 GMT -5
Why think about it? I used to be the nice guy and got dumped time and time again. Acting like a jackass is fun and girls throw themselves at you if you do. The world opens up once you just stop caring. Define jackass here...I doubt girls throw themselves at the Bam Margara and Steve os of the world...
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Post by Non Banjoble Tokens on Jul 27, 2009 14:00:24 GMT -5
I like 'the nice guy', as long as he isn't afraid to defend me once in a while. I honestly do not see the appeal in a 'bad boy'. What a waste of space. Women don't appreciate pandering sycophants. Anyway they do like nice guys, just confident ones who aren't afraid to show their personality and state their opinions. Both of these are true, at least for me. I've never ever understood the whole "bad boy" thing at all. It's not exciting to me to have a guy do things like not call or not take my feelings into any kind of consideration - it's rude. I don't find any appeal in a rule breaker either. It seems like they're trying too hard to be rebellious - like they're not doing their own thing, they're just doing things to specifically buck the system. That being said, I don't like guys who don't have a little spark to them somehow. Too many people confuse "being nice" with "being boring." A person can be nice and considerate and still have sharp wit and can still challenge me on something. You can say something funny and biting and still call when you say you will. Being nice doesn't automatically translate to saying "yes, dear" to everything the other says. It doesn't mean someone's not strong. So no, not all women like the bad boy type. There are women who like a nice guy and don't have time for all that other nonsense. *tap dances into room with a bouquet of flowers* So, I said "I must get out of those wet clothes and into a dry martini." ;D
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