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Post by benten on Jul 29, 2009 17:40:39 GMT -5
Because your boring
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Post by Handsome Halfbreed on Jul 29, 2009 20:10:50 GMT -5
Girls don't want a nice guy. They want a nice man.
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Post by spec on Jul 29, 2009 20:42:41 GMT -5
Just don't change who you are for the lure of tail, it cheapens who you are. If you want to change, change because you want to. Not because you want some. This is key. And ironically what will actually lead to getting some in many cases.
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Post by Desi on Jul 29, 2009 21:54:20 GMT -5
From my experience, it's when men tell women what they want to hear and cater to them in the beginning, get the "nice" part in their title. But if the relationship isn't going fast enough (or the woman has no intention of moving forward with them) then they start getting entitlement issues, just because they were the "nice guy" in the beginning.
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Post by Mecca on Jul 30, 2009 0:27:38 GMT -5
From my experience, it's when men tell women what they want to hear and cater to them in the beginning, get the "nice" part in their title. But if the relationship isn't going fast enough (or the woman has no intention of moving forward with them) then they start getting entitlement issues, just because they were the "nice guy" in the beginning. That doesn't really sound like being a nice guy to me that sounds like saying whatever it takes to get in a womans pants.
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Post by Desi on Jul 30, 2009 1:26:16 GMT -5
From my experience, it's when men tell women what they want to hear and cater to them in the beginning, get the "nice" part in their title. But if the relationship isn't going fast enough (or the woman has no intention of moving forward with them) then they start getting entitlement issues, just because they were the "nice guy" in the beginning. That doesn't really sound like being a nice guy to me that sounds like saying whatever it takes to get in a womans pants. Exactly, and some men use that "Nice Guy" come on to lure women into a false sense of security.
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Post by Grendel on Jul 30, 2009 5:43:24 GMT -5
Just don't change who you are for the lure of tail, it cheapens who you are. If you want to change, change because you want to. Not because you want some. This is key. And ironically what will actually lead to getting some in many cases. Damn betcha.
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Post by Jelly on Jul 30, 2009 6:52:20 GMT -5
This all depends on your definition of nice guy.
If the nice guy is someone who respects women and has confidence in himself, he'll do fine with the ladies.
If the nice guy is someone who people walk all over and boss around, that's not attractive at all.
Personally, I love the first kind. Its exactly the kind of guy I want to be with (and am with). Generally, if your going after a woman who's attracted to guys who are jerks to them or to other people, chances are shes not the kind of woman you would want to be with anyway.
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Post by Mecca on Jul 30, 2009 6:58:23 GMT -5
Some women have an attraction to jerks because alot of women shop for men like they shop for houses they like a good fixer upper. And they also have this thought that they can change people...
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Post by The OP on Jul 30, 2009 7:52:32 GMT -5
I don't know if this has been mentioned or if anybody knows what I'm talking about, but get this...
Ok, so I've had friends that complained about the I'm a nice guy why do jerks get the women thing, but the thing is they want these women that are, for lack of a better word, TV hot if you know what I mean. Girls that are athletic looking and were probably the popular girl in school, when the guy might be a nice guy and even handsome, but is more of a bookworm or maybe a punk rocker or something. I'll suggest they ask out a girl I know who is more on their level and they're not interested. I guess what I'm saying is, a lot of these supposed "nice guys" actually do the same thing to girls, which no doubt leaves them wondering "why don't guys ever like the nice girl instead of these stuck up b****es", so it works both ways.
So to you guys who are having this problem, I have to ask, are you willing to give a girl a chance who might be a nice girl but doesn't neccessarily meet a typical standard of hotness? In a lot of cases I'm guessing the answer is no, which a lot of supposed "nice guys" are unable or unwilling to face.
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Post by Madman Szalinski on Jul 30, 2009 9:02:02 GMT -5
As a twenty-four year veteran of being a nice guy, these are the theories I came up with.
1.) According to women, nice guys have little cocks.
That's pretty much it.
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