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Post by mschif420 on Jun 18, 2010 21:13:47 GMT -5
I've had sex with 20+ women.
I still live at home. I'm 23.
I'm a loser.
In short, no.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 18, 2010 21:33:13 GMT -5
I said no, but it depends on how old you are really.
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Post by The Booty Disciple on Jun 18, 2010 21:34:03 GMT -5
I've had sex with 20+ women. I still live at home. I'm 23. I'm a loser. In short, no. Heh...yeah, I think people who seem to think that loser and virgin at somehow inherently tied together need to re-assess their priorities. I've known many people who WISH they were virgins, and indeed, the amount of people who made a mistake that they're living with (be it a STI, pregnancy, or other problems) is far more than people who are virgins and view themselves poorly. In short no. Besides, it keeps you from having to see this sort of thing...
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Post by H-Fist on Jun 18, 2010 21:43:26 GMT -5
I'm a loser for many other reasons besides virginity. Yeah, being a Pirates fan is one thing. But your insistence on dressing as and keeping the mustache of Pittsburgh Alleghenys left fielder Abner Frank Dalrymple is a little over the top. Although I am technically not a virgin but I like to consider that I am since the cuban girls do not count. To answer the question, NO! "Two Cuban girls and one Cuban transvestite." "You mean three Cuban girls." "..." "Oh...oh god...oh god, no!" No. Because being a baby daddy (who doesn't support the child in some way) is much, MUCH worse in society's eyes. Damn right. Take his chair away so I can yell at him some more in a more easily stage-blocked way. Good stuff in this thread so far. You can either define yourself or let others define you. You can influence but not control how you are perceived by others. The same is really true for your own self-image. So there is no yes or no answer to this question. Genetically speaking, of course you are a "loser" if you aren't having sex, but the same label applies to protected sex or what have you. So it's obvious there's more to it than that.
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Post by Dave at the Movies on Jun 18, 2010 21:57:31 GMT -5
Of course not. Hell having sex is just practice for masturbation anyway. lol
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Post by sunwukong on Jun 18, 2010 22:01:30 GMT -5
In and of itself, no. Of course not.
There are lots of people that are virgins because they're losers, but being a virgin does not make one a loser. There are plenty of people that have sex regularly that are total losers.
I actually kind of find the whole notion of this funny, because it's this sort of cultural precept that by having sex, everything changes. The reality is, nothing changes. You've still got all the same problems as before. And maybe some new ones.
Sex is great, don't get me wrong. But it's not going to fundamentally alter your life. And whether you've had it or not doesn't speak to your worth as a human being in any way whatsoever.
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Post by BD Punk AKA SUSPENDED! on Jun 18, 2010 22:05:53 GMT -5
Depends on what age you are when you're a vigrin
15 - Not a loser
18 - Not a loser
20 - Boderline
Mid 20's - Loser
If you can't get any by the time your around 20 something then I'd say you're a loser, unless it's by choice.
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Post by Throwback on Jun 18, 2010 22:19:30 GMT -5
I personally don't care. But if you are in your mid 30s and are still a virgin and it's not by choice. Then I'd have to assume there's something wrong with you.
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Post by sunwukong on Jun 18, 2010 22:21:40 GMT -5
I personally don't care. But if you are in your mid 30s and are still a virgin and it's not by choice. Then I'd have to assume there's something wrong with you. Five more years and they make a movie about you. So that's pretty cool.
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Post by Throwback on Jun 18, 2010 22:26:19 GMT -5
I personally don't care. But if you are in your mid 30s and are still a virgin and it's not by choice. Then I'd have to assume there's something wrong with you. Five more years and they make a movie about you. So that's pretty cool. You see, but even with that character it was by choice. He had a few bad experiences than just said "screw it" pardon the pun. If you have been actively trying to get someone to sleep with you for 10 or more years with no luck. Then yes, you are a loser
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Post by sunwukong on Jun 18, 2010 22:27:15 GMT -5
Five more years and they make a movie about you. So that's pretty cool. If you have been actively trying to get someone to sleep with you for 10 or more years with no luck. Then yes, you are a loser I think that's where cult leaders come from.
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Post by Young Game on Jun 18, 2010 22:41:03 GMT -5
BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA.....ho hohohhh boy! Oh. Oh jeez. My sides. Fantastic.
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Post by spec on Jun 18, 2010 23:11:54 GMT -5
Hard to give a simple 'Yes or No' answer. Depends on the person, circumstances etc. Having sex just because you feel you should because an abstract entity like 'society' dictates it isn't really the best reason to do it. But of course that happens all the time. It should be more about personal discovery and experience and if for whatever reasons that takes some time then hey. Maybe waiting for the right person, maybe lack of opportunities, maybe just not feeling ready within oneself, whatever. Everyone's different. Personally, it was a big deal for me to lose mine and I think that was more intrinsic to myself than it was down to any societal expectation, but then such motivation and curiosity itself could be a product of society somewhat.
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Post by mydixiewrecked on Jun 18, 2010 23:11:59 GMT -5
the only thing that makes someone a loser is if they believe they are a loser
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Post by MrBRulzOK on Jun 18, 2010 23:16:27 GMT -5
Being a virgin also means that you are STD free.
That sounds good to me!
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Post by sunwukong on Jun 18, 2010 23:17:59 GMT -5
Being a virgin also means that you are STD free. That sounds good to me! Public toilet seats. The silent killer.
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Post by FrankGotch on Jun 18, 2010 23:25:01 GMT -5
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Post by Desi on Jun 18, 2010 23:28:13 GMT -5
In and of itself, no. Of course not. There are lots of people that are virgins because they're losers, but being a virgin does not make one a loser. There are plenty of people that have sex regularly that are total losers. I actually kind of find the whole notion of this funny, because it's this sort of cultural precept that by having sex, everything changes. The reality is, nothing changes. You've still got all the same problems as before. And maybe some new ones. Sex is great, don't get me wrong. But it's not going to fundamentally alter your life. And whether you've had it or not doesn't speak to your worth as a human being in any way whatsoever. Yeah, pretty much took the words out of my mouth. Although I don't know if I really qualify for this question, considering that I'm Asexual and all.
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Post by Kris Kobain on Jun 19, 2010 0:19:02 GMT -5
Not if you're comfortable with who you are.
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Post by VenomFang on Jun 19, 2010 0:35:20 GMT -5
Depends if you try and fail vs not even trying. Effort means a lot.
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