bob
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Post by bob on Jun 20, 2010 1:42:28 GMT -5
no, even though socieity would have you believe other wise
as others have said, it's a personal choice
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Post by sunwukong on Jun 20, 2010 1:46:39 GMT -5
I don't think it makes you a loser, but that really depends on why you want to stop being a virgin. If you want to do it to be cool, it won't make you any cooler. Staying a virgin just to be cool and different doesn't make you cool either. Who does this? And I don't mean religious, personal, or philosophical reasons. Those are valid. Who says "I'm not going to have sex because it will make me cool"? Because....what?
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Oak: Certified Jade Hater
Bill S. Preston, Esq.
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Post by Oak: Certified Jade Hater on Jun 20, 2010 2:07:59 GMT -5
I'm a virgin, and I'm okay with it. I'll admit, I'd like to have sex, but I'd rather have my first time be with someone special to me rather than a random hook-up for the sake of losing my virginity.
Besides, I'm twenty types of amazingly super awesome. So virgin =/= loser. BOO-YA!!
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Post by Dynamite Kid on Jun 20, 2010 7:48:56 GMT -5
If you have spent years ONLY trying to get laid and are still a virgin, you are a loser.
If you are deliberately a virgin to save it for someone special, you are not a loser.
If you couldn't care less when you lose it or who to and as such have made no effort, you are also not a loser.
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default
Bill S. Preston, Esq.
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Post by default on Jun 20, 2010 7:52:38 GMT -5
I'm a virgin and a loser, but I voted no.
I also had a surefire chance to get laid, but backed out because my spider-sense started tingling and things got too awkward (which is surpising because I'm one of the most awkward men walking this earth.)
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BHB
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Post by BHB on Jun 20, 2010 7:54:09 GMT -5
Yeah, pretty much.
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Reg the Veg
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Post by Reg the Veg on Jun 20, 2010 12:47:30 GMT -5
nope. i used to think so, then i lost my V-card, and the day after, realised that i still lived with my parents, still had no job, was still a bit funny looking, and was still a comic book/wrestling nerd. if anything i was MORE of a loser, because of how shit i was on my first time. it doesn't really change anything about you, you don't wake up in the morning and swagger out of the house like the fonz, while "stayin' alive" plays. if you're a loser, then having a shag won't really change that.
on the other hand i have a friend who's good looking, fairly wealthy, well liked, and is so clever and business minded that he'll probably be a squillionnaire before he reaches 30, but he's a virgin. me and my girlfriend shag more or less daily, but we're both nerds on minimum wage. so long as you're happy in your situation, it doesn't really matter whether you've tasted the bearded clam or not.
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Post by mschif420 on Jun 20, 2010 13:10:15 GMT -5
Which would just fall back into the school of thought that you should wait til its something special after effects? expectations? those indeed should be good things if in so it was a good relationship or fling,etc,etc.... I feel lucky for my loss. So beautiful. So many years ago. Thanks Cobain VIRGINITY! FIVE KNUCKLE SHUFFLE! VIRGINITY! FLESHLIGHT STAR SPLASH! VIRGINITY! THE WHOLE JACKIN' SHOW I'm glad I made it special for you ha. i was talking about nirvana ;D your name reminded me though
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Post by Jimmy John Mundo on Jun 20, 2010 13:17:36 GMT -5
Being a loser, makes you a virgin...........see what i did there? i switched your words around. yep
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Mac
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Post by Mac on Jun 20, 2010 13:19:32 GMT -5
If you are a virgin you are simply not just a loser, you are an idiot. Certainly practicing safe sex is of the upmost importance and disease prevention and unwanted pregnancies are something that you need to take precautions to avoid but if you haven't been paying attention to history let me fill you in on something for all you people who think it's OK to be a virgin.
Virgins are ALWAYS 100% more likely to be used in ritualistic sacrifices, if you feel leaving yourself open to have your virgin heart fed to the god's then by all means stay a virgin. I just think it's a completely idiotic and selfish thing to do.
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Post by who throws a shoe?! on Jun 20, 2010 13:38:59 GMT -5
If you are a virgin you are simply not just a loser, you are an idiot. Certainly practicing safe sex is of the upmost importance and disease prevention and unwanted pregnancies are something that you need to take precautions to avoid but if you haven't been paying attention to history let me fill you in on something for all you people who think it's OK to be a virgin. Virgins are ALWAYS 100% more likely to be used in ritualistic sacrifices, if you feel leaving yourself open to have your virgin heart fed to the god's then by all means stay a virgin. I just think it's a completely idiotic and selfish thing to do. I think I love you!
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Post by King Fox -1017 Bricksquad on Jun 20, 2010 15:20:33 GMT -5
Under 18, naw you cool.
But if you over 21 and still a virgin, uh...yeah.
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Post by Pervy Stone Cold on Jun 20, 2010 16:23:54 GMT -5
I don't know where some people learned their line of thinking from, but is seems to me equating virgin to loser is insulting people for no reason like with color of skin or ethnicity. That is an opinion that I think should be deserving of something worse than being called a loser and that is displaying lack of class.
Virgin = lack of ass. Virgin critic = lack of class.
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Post by bradtherad on Jun 20, 2010 16:30:23 GMT -5
I think its rE-Tarded to say someone is a loser because they havent put their penis into someone else (or the other way around)...is it really that big of an accomplishment? I mean come on...A person being a virgin has absolutely nothing to do with if they are a loser or not. I never understood the idea that it somehow makes u "cool".
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Post by MGH on Jun 20, 2010 17:21:01 GMT -5
Not at all. If you're a loser, it's because you're a loser. You don't take care of yourself, have no ambition, and don't care to make something of your life? That's a loser. As is anyone who connects sex with status. Sex is sex. It's not everything. It doesn't say anything about you as a person.
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Jay Peas 42
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Post by Jay Peas 42 on Jun 20, 2010 19:43:41 GMT -5
While I stand by my "Jay=Awesome" remarks, I think a little discourse is due.
I think we are all missing the real context to this line of thinking. Losing your virginity is a coming of age ritual for teenage boys living in post war america. By those standards, the first one to lose it is the winner, and last to lose it is the loser. It's just a way in which boys become men. It's no different than Prom or AP Classes. It's important to teenagers, but not to anyone else. It's really no different than women in the twenties racing to get married, or boy scouts chasing after merit badges, or hunters chasing after bigger, better and more dangerous quarry. It's a quite vulgar competition.
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Post by Curt Hawkins Fan on Jun 20, 2010 22:38:57 GMT -5
While I stand by my "Jay=Awesome" remarks, I think a little discourse is due. I think we are all missing the real context to this line of thinking. Losing your virginity is a coming of age ritual for teenage boys living in post war america. By those standards, the first one to lose it is the winner, and last to lose it is the loser. It's just a way in which boys become men. It's no different than Prom or AP Classes. It's important to teenagers, but not to anyone else. It's really no different than women in the twenties racing to get married, or boy scouts chasing after merit badges, or hunters chasing after bigger, better and more dangerous quarry. It's a quite vulgar competition. Lol, I was the first out of every boy in my entire grade but the people I really thought were losers were the women who let me (and still do) do it to them but weren't smart enough to realise it would lead to nothing and I thought less of them. Men can wait or not, it doesn't matter to me. What does matter is that you think about it beforehand, people who are tricked into it are dirt to me.
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