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Post by Wolf Hawkfield no1 NZ poster on Apr 29, 2013 22:22:39 GMT -5
If you put on an act where you act all nice and caring just to get in a girl's pants, you're a ****ing asshole. It anything "bad boys" are more caring than those so called "nice guys". Well if anything I would give them props for at least being honest unlike self proclaimed nice guys. |
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Post by hassanchop on Apr 29, 2013 23:46:19 GMT -5
"Bad boys" have something so-called "nice guys" don't: Confidence. Men can be confused by what women really want, but the honest truth is regardless of individual preferences, all women are attracted to confidence and are turned off by men with low self-esteem. What about delusional people? The same reason some guys like bad girls. What about shallow girls? Well those guys I understand, they did save the president after all! And they had Albert Wesker as their superior. |
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Post by Banjo Is Broken on Apr 29, 2013 23:50:41 GMT -5
Great another one of these threads. Sure never gets old listening to people putting down the idea of being nice.
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Post by hassanchop on Apr 29, 2013 23:57:13 GMT -5
At least we're not the "bad guy" chico.
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Post by Dat Dude on Apr 30, 2013 0:03:30 GMT -5
"Bad boys" have something so-called "nice guys" don't: Confidence. Men can be confused by what women really want, but the honest truth is regardless of individual preferences, all women are attracted to confidence and are turned off by men with low self-esteem. What about delusional people? Not sure what you mean, because bad boys can be delusional by having too big of an ego. And self proclaimed "nice guys" are delusional that they are actually nice or that being nice is an extra quality, when it's really something any decent person should expect to be. Great another one of these threads. Sure never gets old listening to people putting down the idea of being nice. Nobody here is saying that being nice to people is a bad thing, just that A.) don't fall into the "nice guy" syndrome and B.) being nice should already be a given, so it's useless to state that as a primary quality. |
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Post by hassanchop on Apr 30, 2013 0:12:14 GMT -5
I mean they confuse being delusional as confident, and when put to the test they are no good. But you got a point, anyone can be delusional whether they be good or bad.
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Post by "I'm Batman..." on Apr 30, 2013 0:20:10 GMT -5
I think I might be a nice guy.  |
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Post by Banjo Is Broken on Apr 30, 2013 0:27:13 GMT -5
I think I might be a nice guy. Get as far away from this thread as possible.  |
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Post by hassanchop on Apr 30, 2013 0:45:57 GMT -5
What about mean spirited people? People who are quick to judge you and over judgmental about everything, what about them?
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Post by Starshine on Apr 30, 2013 1:03:34 GMT -5
What about Raven?
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Post by hassanchop on Apr 30, 2013 1:16:19 GMT -5
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Post by SsnakeBite, the No1 Frenchman on Apr 30, 2013 1:16:53 GMT -5
Well, I'm not a woman so I obviously can't speak in their name, but from discussing the topic with a few of them, I'm under the impression that most women dig bad boys for a one night stand but prefer nice guys for a long-term relationship.
In general, I think the reason many of us are confused as to what women like is that there seems to be a world of difference between what women like for a quickie and what they like in someone they actually want to live with.
And of course, there's a small minority who for some reason just refuse to date anyone who doesn't treat them like shit.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 30, 2013 1:49:43 GMT -5
Its all nonsense. I am always surprised at which girls want to date me and which ones don't. Girls, who I would say are 10's, have practically begged me to take them out. While girls, who would be a 5 on a good day, have turned up their noses. It's just how it is.
It's actually quite funny really as Men and Women think we are sooo different, when we really just want the same things.
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Post by celticjobber on Apr 30, 2013 1:56:12 GMT -5
I know a few women who are married to or living with unemployed and sometimes abusive drug and/or alcohol addicted douchebags, whom they work hard to support.
It's hard to see what they're attracted to about them.
The guys I'm talking about aren't just "bad boys" that many in this thread seem to be thinking about, they're simply bad people.
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Post by SsnakeBite, the No1 Frenchman on Apr 30, 2013 4:42:01 GMT -5
It's actually quite funny really as Men and Women think we are sooo different, when we really just want the same things. I don't know about that. I don't want stilettos.  |
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Post by "Gentleman" AJ Powell on Apr 30, 2013 5:51:07 GMT -5
"Bad boys" have something so-called "nice guys" don't: Confidence. Men can be confused by what women really want, but the honest truth is regardless of individual preferences, all women are attracted to confidence and are turned off by men with low self-esteem. Quite. It's like you see on Fedoras of Ok Cupid etc, dudes always put "Maybe I'm too nice", no, you're just too timid and most likely let the girl walk over you and see you as a friend more than something else. It's silly really, they just expect that the girls will somehow have a revelation and how great and interesting they are, no, you've gotta make them notice you. |
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Post by J is Justice on Apr 30, 2013 8:43:08 GMT -5
If you put on an act where you act all nice and caring just to get in a girl's pants, you're a ****ing asshole. It anything "bad boys" are more caring than those so called "nice guys". Wouldn't that make him a bad boy? |
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Post by Ben Wyatt on Apr 30, 2013 10:02:44 GMT -5
I'll say something that I haven't seen mentioned and may not be too popular:
Some women love drama. They love playing the victim when the "bad boy" inevitably screws them over. Nothing is more frustrating than seeing my female friends cry and whine about there not being any good guys out there, then proceeding to go seeking the same type of undependable jackoff
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Post by Deleted on Apr 30, 2013 10:36:23 GMT -5
It's actually quite funny really as Men and Women think we are sooo different, when we really just want the same things. I don't know about that. I don't want stilettos. You don't have the legs for stilettos Ssnake I ment that we both want the same things from a relationship...not to wear each others clothes.....no matter how comfortable they are. |
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Post by Hit Girl on Apr 30, 2013 10:39:20 GMT -5
Bad boys may get girls, but they're not necessarily the type of girls that nice guys would want anyway.
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