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Post by Cyno on Oct 6, 2014 11:19:29 GMT -5
I think the OP mistook this forum for Red Pill.
Also, even if you were asexual, that doesn't exclude a desire to be attracted to people on a romantic basis. Plenty of asexual people are in romantic, intimate relationships with partners. They just don't have sex.
And sex is pretty awesome so even if I could use magic or science to alter my DNA to be asexual, I wouldn't do it.
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Post by abjordans on Oct 6, 2014 11:52:57 GMT -5
This thread gave me the courage to ask out a girl I've been eyeing in my math class. Movie tonight woot! Word of advice I got many years ago that I have always followed.. DON'T do a movie for the first date. First time hanging out, the idea is to get to know someone and learn about each other, see if there is any mind of spark.. There is no way to do that sitting silently in a dark room for 2 hours. Bowling or some kind of game room/putt putt type deal has become my go to first date. Dinner, drinks(dunno how old you are), and something fun to loosen up is the winning combo.
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Post by "Gentleman" AJ Powell on Oct 6, 2014 12:19:02 GMT -5
This thread gave me the courage to ask out a girl I've been eyeing in my math class. Movie tonight woot!
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Post by Curt Hawkins Fan on Oct 6, 2014 12:51:24 GMT -5
This thread gave me the courage to ask out a girl I've been eyeing in my math class. Movie tonight woot! Word of advice I got many years ago that I have always followed.. DON'T do a movie for the first date. First time hanging out, the idea is to get to know someone and learn about each other, see if there is any mind of spark.. There is no way to do that sitting silently in a dark room for 2 hours. Bowling or some kind of game room/putt putt type deal has become my go to first date. Dinner, drinks(dunno how old you are), and something fun to loosen up is the winning combo. Oh I agree,this isn't my first time, I just wanted to point out I got confidence from people in this thread cuz I've been a bit depressed lately myself. I will alter plans, but good job FAN. You got at least one train going lol.
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Post by "Gizzark" Mike Wronglevenay on Oct 6, 2014 14:13:11 GMT -5
Word of advice I got many years ago that I have always followed.. DON'T do a movie for the first date. First time hanging out, the idea is to get to know someone and learn about each other, see if there is any mind of spark.. There is no way to do that sitting silently in a dark room for 2 hours. Bowling or some kind of game room/putt putt type deal has become my go to first date. Dinner, drinks(dunno how old you are), and something fun to loosen up is the winning combo. Oh I agree,this isn't my first time, I just wanted to point out I got confidence from people in this thread cuz I've been a bit depressed lately myself. I will alter plans, but good job FAN. You got at least one train going lol. This thread genuinely just became worth it.
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Post by agent817 on Oct 6, 2014 18:33:01 GMT -5
Okay, I have some insight to this. What is it called when somebody is nonchalant or apathetic about meeting women? I am into women, yes, but I am usually disinterested in trying to pursue, like I see attractive women everywhere, but that doesn't mean they draw my attention to them.
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Post by Speedy Cerviche on Oct 6, 2014 20:22:46 GMT -5
This thread is weird. I mean, all you have to do is talk to women like you would any other human being. I understand that people have problems with that but if you can divorce your sex drive from your interactions with a woman for half an hour you might be able to at least make a new friend or something. Women tend to pick up on people who are all "Hello m'lady"s and creepy fake smiles in order to get in a girl's pants.
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Post by chazraps on Oct 7, 2014 0:49:19 GMT -5
Okay, I have some insight to this. What is it called when somebody is nonchalant or apathetic about meeting women? I am into women, yes, but I am usually disinterested in trying to pursue, like I see attractive women everywhere, but that doesn't mean they draw my attention to them. Just some dude?
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Post by Deleted on Oct 7, 2014 17:23:25 GMT -5
I've had a bit more time to think about this, compared to my original frustration when I created the thread.
How dumb was I, forgetting one huge important point here. Women tend to enjoy men's company a lot more once they turn 37 years old! I don't know why I didn't think of this earlier.
So my romantic interest in women might have some value after all, a sweet 37+ woman might have a strong appetite for male companionship, ya never know, it could be me. I feel so much better, now that I thought about it.
That's the big thing I forgot. Sorry guys. When it comes to women who are age 37-54, my thread/posts are complete BS. I could believe, that even if the women in that age group decline to date you, they are happy that you asked, and may even be flattered by your attention in some cases.
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Post by Mighty Attack Tribble on Oct 7, 2014 18:26:16 GMT -5
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Post by Deleted on Oct 7, 2014 18:29:45 GMT -5
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Post by Mozenrath on Oct 7, 2014 18:31:03 GMT -5
I've had a bit more time to think about this, compared to my original frustration when I created the thread. How dumb was I, forgetting one huge important point here. Women tend to enjoy men's company a lot more once they turn 37 years old! I don't know why I didn't think of this earlier. So my romantic interest in women might have some value after all, a sweet 37+ woman might have a strong appetite for male companionship, ya never know, it could be me. I feel so much better, now that I thought about it. That's the big thing I forgot. Sorry guys. When it comes to women who are age 37-54, my thread/posts are complete BS. I could believe, that even if the women in that age group decline to date you, they are happy that you asked, and may even be flattered by your attention in some cases. I genuinely have no idea what the f*** you are talking about.
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Post by Zaq "That Guy" Buzzkill on Oct 7, 2014 18:47:43 GMT -5
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Post by Instant Classic on Oct 7, 2014 18:49:35 GMT -5
no I need the ladies.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 7, 2014 19:12:09 GMT -5
I genuinely have no idea what the f*** you are talking about. You never heard of sexual peaks? The idea that women enjoy their sexual peak in their late 30s?
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Post by Curt Hawkins Fan on Oct 7, 2014 19:26:19 GMT -5
I genuinely have no idea what the f*** you are talking about. You never heard of sexual peaks? The idea that women enjoy their sexual peak in their late 30s? Math class was over and I asked the 21 year old girl if she was free, she said yes, I said lets see a movie. We still did that then went to the park and talked. Now we're going bowling later. f*** dude bite the bullet. I have legit diagnosed depression and the people in this thread helped me just ball up.
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Post by xxshoyuweeniexx on Oct 7, 2014 19:32:31 GMT -5
Dude just go for a girl, you get rejected, move on to the next. It hurts like a bitch but you gotta try.
Think I'll man up and try and ask out this girl at work tomorrow I've been flirting with for a while. I might fail, but f*** it.
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Post by Zaq "That Guy" Buzzkill on Oct 7, 2014 19:33:15 GMT -5
You never heard of sexual peaks? The idea that women enjoy their sexual peak in their late 30s? Math class was over and I asked the 21 year old girl if she was free, she said yes, I said lets see a movie. We still did that then went to the park and talked. Now we're going bowling later. f*** dude bite the bullet. I have legit diagnosed depression and the people in this thread helped me just ball up. Well obviously you weren't paying attention in math because then you would have figured out the girl was actually 37 which was the only reasons she agreed to date you.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 7, 2014 19:35:52 GMT -5
I feel some kinda way with people seriously suggesting this dude pursue a relationship with a woman without some real introspection.
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Post by Sparkybob on Oct 7, 2014 20:15:59 GMT -5
Dude just go for a girl, you get rejected, move on to the next. It hurts like a bitch but you gotta try. Think I'll man up and try and ask out this girl at work tomorrow I've been flirting with for a while. I might fail, but f*** it. That's a pretty funny consequence of this wrong OP. People deciding to prove him wrong and just ask random people out, I might do it too!
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