domrep
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Post by domrep on Jul 25, 2009 10:05:33 GMT -5
I think girls do like the nice guys, but these nice guys must have an edge to them. He doesn't have to be a chain smoker or an alcoholic to get an edge, but something, ANYTHING. Personally, I've never gotten the nice guy label, but I'm not an asshole by any means. I'm just myself, and I guess that's what counts in the end. I like to have fun, I like to have company around me. I'm just me, though at work, for some reason I've acquired a bad boy label. *shrugs*
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Post by Deleted on Jul 25, 2009 10:08:46 GMT -5
I'd say lasses like good guys, but there's a fine line between what people call good/bay anyway. Everyone's got a shit side to them like, my mate once had a good theory though, 'if someone acts an up front arse then due to the suspicious nature of people, maybe we see them a the most honest and trustworthy' which is interessant.
I dunno, I'm not a good or bad guy I feel and I'm in a pretty damn good relationship.
Plus lads and lasses are both confusing genders, you get as many blokes making awful relationship decisions as lasses.
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Post by bigrick0016 on Jul 25, 2009 10:17:59 GMT -5
Why do girls never like the nice guy? ? Because the nice guy is you.
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Post by theryno665 on Jul 25, 2009 10:20:53 GMT -5
In what section of the Walmart is this confidence you speak of. Building confidence and self esteem isn't as simple as some of you make it sound, particular when nothing has ever gone your way. And I mean ever. Seriously, even though I'm not a scientist or chemist or something, I'm thinking about applying for some kind of grant to create confidence in pill form. At this point, that's about the only way I'm going to get it. Yeah, um, being yourself might not always be the best route. We're conditioned from all these kids' movies and after-school specials to "be yourself" but when you look back, the people that are told this are already people that should be liked anyways. For years, I've wanted to change almost everything about me. But out of some overblown sense of self-integrity, I don't. And even if I could, I wouldn't know how. Take a good hard look at yourself, inside and out, and realize that some things do need changing. You don't have to change yourself completely (even though I'd like to) but change yourself enough to make yourself a bit more appealing to not just women but society as a whole and things should start turning around. Yeah, I've been the "nice guy" for too long. But I've realized that girls don't even see me as that anymore, probably mostly because I'm hardly around many girls in the first place. I think it's honestly gotten to the point that they think I'm a eunuch. Anyway, can't we just say "most girls are dumb" and be done with it?
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Post by "Playboy" Don Douglas on Jul 25, 2009 10:29:23 GMT -5
I confuse the hell out of them.
I'm the nice guy, and they see it, but they also think I'm a likely candidate to end up in prison for cutting the hell out of somebody.
So I guess they think I'm Max Cady.
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Post by Citizen Snips Has Left on Jul 25, 2009 10:42:33 GMT -5
Wait until they hit 30 and they aren't married. Then it all pays off.
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Post by Alexander The So-so on Jul 25, 2009 10:47:35 GMT -5
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Post by YellowJacketY2J on Jul 25, 2009 10:57:11 GMT -5
I like 'the nice guy', as long as he isn't afraid to defend me once in a while. I honestly do not see the appeal in a 'bad boy'. What a waste of space. Why do you have to live in England?
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Post by Dynamite Kid on Jul 25, 2009 11:22:20 GMT -5
The 'ladies only like assholes' thing wears off at a certain age, and if it hasn't worn off on the girl you're pursuing, then she's an idiot and not worth your time. Most people use this as an excuse for their own shortcomings anyway, as who's to say that you're what a girl defines as a nice guy anyway?
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Post by PrinceD on Jul 25, 2009 11:38:53 GMT -5
The 'ladies only like assholes' thing wears off at a certain age, and if it hasn't worn off on the girl you're pursuing, then she's an idiot and not worth your time. Most people use this as an excuse for their own shortcomings anyway, as who's to say that you're what a girl defines as a nice guy anyway? Word. The girls that like the "bad boys" are usually immature. I mean a girl who says "i like the bad boys" and then complains about being an "a-hole magnet" is just plain dumb. And yes some nice guys are just pussies. Don't cater to a girls every need and agree with everything that she says. That's why they just walk all over you and they become bitches.
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Post by Hanzo on Jul 25, 2009 11:50:00 GMT -5
Meh. I don't think that's always the case. One of my friends has been going out with his girlfriend for years. She's been staying loyal to him even though they're states apart. After being wth so many losers and jerks, she's just happy being with someone who is loyal, kind, and dependable.
As for myself, all I ever hear and see when it comes to relationships is a bunch of arguing and fighting and getting cheated on and getting in debt and all that crap. Screw that. I'll stay single for the rest of my life in order to avoid all of that B.S.
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Post by Lair of the Shadow MaDaBa on Jul 25, 2009 11:50:52 GMT -5
In general, nice guys and self-pitying pussies who convince themselves never making a move is what will grab a woman's attention are not the same thing. A lot of times, the latter think they're the former, but they're not. If you just want to f*** and you hide it while other douches don't and get laid, you're not a nice guy you're just a pitiable cowardly liar. You should write and illustrate children's books.
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Post by Beast Army Ass on Jul 25, 2009 13:22:27 GMT -5
Wait until they hit 30 and they aren't married. Then it all pays off. This man speaks the truth. Cougars are where it's at. Also, s l i k? I think I found out what your problem is. You live in LA. :-p
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Post by Thomas Powers of Paine on Jul 25, 2009 13:44:12 GMT -5
Also, s l i k? I think I found out what your problem is. You live in LA. :-p This. I'm going to school in LA county and have been without a girlfriend since I started. I'm not a nice guy. I'm a snarky, sarcastic, good-looking dude. My only problem is that I'm intelligent and sophisticated as well. California girls seem to be hot for simpletons.
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Post by Ultimo Chocula on Jul 25, 2009 13:58:20 GMT -5
Also, s l i k? I think I found out what your problem is. You live in LA. :-p This. I'm going to school in LA county and have been without a girlfriend since I started. I'm not a nice guy. I'm a snarky, sarcastic, good-looking dude. My only problem is that I'm intelligent and sophisticated as well. California girls seem to be hot for simpletons. You're quit humble too.
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Post by Thomas Powers of Paine on Jul 25, 2009 14:09:26 GMT -5
This. I'm going to school in LA county and have been without a girlfriend since I started. I'm not a nice guy. I'm a snarky, sarcastic, good-looking dude. My only problem is that I'm intelligent and sophisticated as well. California girls seem to be hot for simpletons. You're quit humble too. Yeah, because you always want to start by listing your faults and weaknesses when meeting new people.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 25, 2009 14:20:49 GMT -5
Yeah, because you always want to start by listing your faults and weaknesses when meeting new people. Ohhhhh, see what he did there? You asked for it, Chocula. He said he wasn't nice. Snork this nonsense, I say we dance.
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Post by Thomas Powers of Paine on Jul 25, 2009 14:34:42 GMT -5
Who's the guy between Disco Inferno and Annoying-German-Gimmick-Dude-What's-His-Name?
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Post by rrm15 on Jul 25, 2009 14:39:53 GMT -5
Be like David Caruso in Jade.
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Post by Samoa Kenny on Jul 25, 2009 14:49:00 GMT -5
It's not "nice" that's the issue. It's that sometimes the nice guy gets walked all over.
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